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Aug 27, 2008 8:01 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
If you have had love in your past but for one reason or another have left the relationship... not mature enough to realize what you have... social pressure that they don´t fit into the norm of who you should be with, having difficulties committing to a relationship, timing... Is there still a chance to meet someone for a long term loving relationship?

In other words... Can you walk out on love once to often?
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Aug 27, 2008 9:11 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
I think it is always possible to find someone to love deeply if you're willing to look hard enough and throw out all prejudices. It's very easy to look back on a previous relationship and think of how "perfect" it was. I have one of those old romances too, but being realistic and fast forwarding to who we each are now, it's obvious we never would've lasted. There's an old country song that says "what's meant to be will always find a way." So yes, I believe there is always a chance to meet someone for a long term loving relationship. hug
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Aug 27, 2008 9:15 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
I believe the only limits to love are in our own minds and hearts. heart wings
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Aug 27, 2008 9:18 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
Hi Ladies.... some nice positive thoughts! I do start to wonder sometimes... laugh sigh
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Aug 27, 2008 9:20 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
I dont think there is a limit on the number of possibilities, I do think that not everyone is destined to love and be loved
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Aug 27, 2008 9:25 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
I think as long as you leave yourself open to the possibility of finding "love" you can find it again. Or it will find you. However, I have closed the door so it will never happen. Don't need it. Don't want it. Won't have it
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Aug 27, 2008 9:32 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
shipoker58: I think as long as you leave yourself open to the possibility of finding "love" you can find it again. Or it will find you. However, I have closed the door so it will never happen. Don't need it. Don't want it. Won't have it


Just because you think you have closed the door it may find a way of sneaking in when you are not looking.
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Aug 27, 2008 9:34 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
vonney: I dont think there is a limit on the number of possibilities, I do think that not everyone is destined to love and be loved



Oh nooooooo........ I new I was destined to be a miserable lonely old woman....

Can you tell I´m in the middle of my one day a year depths of despair... It usually happens in february but I missed it this year... I seem to be making up for it today.

You see I have left men for all of the above reasons, none were my exhusband... I left him for good reasons... and I can´t help but think sometimes... maybe I´ve used up all my chances....

Ignore me... I´ll be better tomorrow, I promise. comfort
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Aug 27, 2008 9:36 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
jbibiza: Oh nooooooo........ I new I was destined to be a miserable lonely old woman....

Can you tell I´m in the middle of my one day a year depths of despair... It usually happens in february but I missed it this year... I seem to be making up for it today.

You see I have left men for all of the above reasons, none were my exhusband... I left him for good reasons... and I can´t help but think sometimes... maybe I´ve used up all my chances....

Ignore me... I´ll be better tomorrow, I promise.



hey my opinion hun thats all


And I am not in any depths just my usual self.
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Aug 27, 2008 9:37 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
kitty01
kitty01kitty01St. Albert, Alberta Canada244 Threads 1 Polls 5,310 Posts
I had my numerology done by a friend years ago and it said I was not to find love again until my later years. I have lost the sheets and now wonder what are my later years, this was done when I was 30 now I am 56, is this my later years or was it talking about when I end up in a nursing home.
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Aug 27, 2008 9:39 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
kitty01: Just because you think you have closed the door it may find a way of sneaking in when you are not looking.





I'd rather serin gas seep under the door. It's a quicker and less painful death
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Aug 27, 2008 9:39 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
vonney
vonneyvonneyDublin, Ireland24 Threads 6,371 Posts
shipoker58: I'd rather serin gas seep under the door. It's a quicker and less painful death



You crack me up




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Aug 27, 2008 9:48 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
vonney: hey my opinion hun thats allAnd I am not in any depths just my usual self.



No sweetie, I was refering to myself as being in the "depths of despair"

I know you´re your usual self... that´s what I love about you! hug
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Aug 27, 2008 9:50 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
jbibiza: Oh nooooooo........ I new I was destined to be a miserable lonely old woman....

Can you tell I´m in the middle of my one day a year depths of despair... It usually happens in february but I missed it this year... I seem to be making up for it today.

You see I have left men for all of the above reasons, none were my exhusband... I left him for good reasons... and I can´t help but think sometimes... maybe I´ve used up all my chances....

Ignore me... I´ll be better tomorrow, I promise.


I know what you mean and in my case, being a bridesmaid 3 times didnt help much either (as in 'three times a bridesmaid, never a bride uh oh ) haha, but I really do think its down to what we believe and being positive about that too grin wave
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Aug 27, 2008 9:55 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
kkitty4u
kkitty4ukkitty4uSt Paul, Minnesota USA24 Threads 3 Polls 1,138 Posts
jbibiza: If you have had love in your past but for one reason or another have left the relationship... not mature enough to realize what you have... social pressure that they don´t fit into the norm of who you should be with, having difficulties committing to a relationship, timing... Is there still a chance to meet someone for a long term loving relationship?

In other words... Can you walk out on love once to often?


I think that some choose to be single even if they dont realize it yet.
having a relationship is hard work and it takes a lot of time to build the meeting place that both parties are truly happy. The biggest problem is finding that person that you think might be worth all of your efforts. When you do put all of your heart out on the line it makes you feel foolish when the other party is not willing to do that. I think you can find love anytime you want. It just might not be the perfect love that your mind thinks it needs. bouquet
finding my hole to go crawl in hole
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Aug 27, 2008 9:59 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland7 Threads 1 Polls 4,139 Posts
jbibiza: If you have had love in your past but for one reason or another have left the relationship... not mature enough to realize what you have... social pressure that they don´t fit into the norm of who you should be with, having difficulties committing to a relationship, timing... Is there still a chance to meet someone for a long term loving relationship?

In other words... Can you walk out on love once to often?


Mistakes are a learning experience. Having those particular mistakes, you are less likely to make those particular ones again.

The thing about lessons is, we get wiser, but sometimes that can also mean we get fussier, to our own detriment.


How many chances you get depends on how open you are to letting it in and how well you got rid of the lingering after effects of the other ones.


It's a bit like looking out at the world through lovely lace curtains. They let in light and protect you from the bad effects of the sun. They give you privacy, and let you heal. They defuse the world and look pretty, but to see clearly, and to be seen, we have to open them up and let in the good as well as bad rays, and accept the view, atmosphere. and light, because we need the full effect of it, to live. ......... wine
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Aug 27, 2008 10:00 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
jbibiza: If you have had love in your past but for one reason or another have left the relationship... not mature enough to realize what you have... social pressure that they don´t fit into the norm of who you should be with, having difficulties committing to a relationship, timing... Is there still a chance to meet someone for a long term loving relationship?

In other words... Can you walk out on love once to often?
Impossible...your opportunities are limitless. All you have experienced so far in your life, is the fact that you have not actually met the one you have been destined to meet and have in your life. I f had, pretty lady, I can guarentee you, you would still be with him....think about it! I speak from over 60 years of experience. I still have not found mine, and at this point in MY life, I don't expect to. But you never know, until it happens and then it might take years for it to sink in.hug teddybear
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Aug 27, 2008 10:01 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA40 Threads 1 Polls 5,169 Posts
Yep, i walk out on love every time, it gets to that commentment part....that's me can't help it...got some issues but im a be alright..laugh
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Aug 27, 2008 10:02 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
friendsfirst
friendsfirstfriendsfirstBurbank, Illinois USA105 Threads 1 Polls 5,965 Posts
cardsfan24: Yep, i walk out on love every time, it gets to that commentment part....that's me can't help it...got some issues but im a be alright..


At least your honest.wave comfort
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Aug 27, 2008 10:03 AM CST Is there a limit to the number of possibilites of finding love...
wixomwizard
wixomwizardwixomwizardWixom, Michigan USA35 Threads 3,636 Posts
alabamabebe: I believe the only limits to love are in our own minds and hearts.
Good morning , my Bama Belle !smitten hug lips teddybear
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