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Aug 28, 2008 2:18 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
Taken under advisement
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Sep 7, 2008 11:42 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA344 Threads 5 Polls 11,456 Posts
mylifewithu: That is so true, and I am very blessed to have some great friends, my heart is not near as lonely with them in my life.
And if I ever find a man to love, he has to be a friend as close to me as the ones I have now, or I don't want him.


That is so very true! AND he has to get along with my friends. I've learned over the years to listen more closely to my friends on my picks of guys. If they have a bad feeling about him, I need to take heed. They're usually right. The thing is that they're on the outside & aren't all starry-eyed. I value their objective opinions! professor
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Sep 7, 2008 11:49 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
pyaremohan
pyaremohanpyaremohandelhi, Delhi India22 Threads 1,549 Posts
mylifewithu: Step1
Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.

Step2
Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.

Step3
Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.

Step4
Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?

Step5
Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship.
Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness. Things You’ll Need:

Honesty
Self-confidence
Self-esteem
Respect
Trust

This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!




thumbs up cool.but ideal .really hard to follow as a human.thanks though.great thought

hi mf
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Sep 8, 2008 3:01 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
Zeloniy
ZeloniyZeloniyRichmond, Virginia USA78 Threads 2 Polls 3,124 Posts
Ok so basing a relationship on sex is a bad idea?
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Sep 8, 2008 3:11 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
MissurKiss
MissurKissMissurKissMontreal, Quebec Canada137 Posts
Pfft ..I don't gotta soul ... I traded it in for a pack of reese's pieces when I was six ..devil

Soo Now I am just looking to the Mickey to my Mallory ;)
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Sep 8, 2008 3:50 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
kurzita
kurzitakurzitaXaghra, Gozo Malta13 Threads 1,525 Posts
Define perfect...

then soulmate....

cool
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Sep 8, 2008 9:56 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu: Step1
Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.

Step2
Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.

Step3
Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.

Step4
Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?

Step5
Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship.
Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness. Things You’ll Need:

Honesty
Self-confidence
Self-esteem
Respect
Trust

This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!



Good advice Mylif and I probably couldn't have said it better.
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Sep 8, 2008 10:52 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu: Step1
Begin your search for your perfect soulmate by examining yourself. Be honest and realistic about your own needs and desires. Dig deep within your own soul and define what will make you happy in life, love and relationships. Knowing what you want in a relationship is half the battle of finding happiness and true love.

Step2
Work on your own self-confidence and self-esteem. This helps you feel better about yourself and what you want out of life and relationships.

Step3
Look for someone who can fulfill your needs and desires. Again, be honest with yourself and decide if this person can give you the things that you are looking for in a relationship, and at the same time, ask yourself if you can give back to this person and fulfil the things they are searching for in a relationship.

Step4
Learn as much as you can about the other person. Find out what their needs and desires are in a relationship. Do they dovetail yours or do they want something completely different?

Step5
Build your relationship on respect, trust and communication. If you find someone you wish to spend time with, learn to respect their differences, and then determine if their differences are something you want to live with. Build your relationship upon trust. If you cannot trust the person you are with, you will not find happiness and satisfaction in the relationship.
Communicate with each other, and learn to listen to each other. You can find yourself in love with a person, but if you cannot communicate with that person, you will never find true love and happiness. Things You’ll Need:

Honesty
Self-confidence
Self-esteem
Respect
Trust

This is good article, and reminder of how we need to love ourselves to be able to find someone to love us!


Step 6... Stop living in fear..

Step 7... Stop with selfish expectations...

Step 8... Stop "looking", start "accepting"...


grin
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Sep 8, 2008 11:02 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada33 Threads 24,897 Posts
Sounds way too complicated. I think a padded leg hold trap, baited with wine and chocolate would work better.laugh
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Sep 8, 2008 11:49 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA173 Threads 11,394 Posts
There is no way to find your perfect soulmate, you just have to live life as best you can, thatke the bumps and brusies, and keep moving on.. no one is perfect, we all have our flaws..
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Sep 8, 2008 11:53 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
kidatheart: Sounds way too complicated. I think a padded leg hold trap, baited with wine and chocolate would work better.


I'll give it a try today when I go to the local rest stop in search of my soulmate.....I've been very unlucky at the random bus stops and local rest homeslaugh
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Sep 8, 2008 11:59 AM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada141 Threads 8 Polls 10,411 Posts
kidatheart: Sounds way too complicated. I think a padded leg hold trap, baited with wine and chocolate would work better.


thumbs up

There's realy no point in letting them out either rolling on the floor laughing





















I'm kidding, I really am the catch and release type. uh oh laugh
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Sep 8, 2008 12:00 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada33 Threads 24,897 Posts
Hmmm...bear trap...or beaver?hmmm
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Sep 8, 2008 12:08 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada141 Threads 8 Polls 10,411 Posts
kidatheart: Hmmm...bear trap...or beaver?


beavermate laugh
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Sep 8, 2008 12:30 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
Mylife It all depends on how one defines perfect soulmate.

I wouldn't expect nor want someone to be perfect cause I know in reality there is no perfect person.
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Sep 8, 2008 12:41 PM CST How To Find Your Perfect Soulmate!!
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
somechick: Mylife It all depends on how one defines perfect soulmate.

I wouldn't expect nor want someone to be perfect cause I know in reality there is no perfect person.
I agree!!
I don't believe in the title of this thread, but I didn't want to change it either so in case people have read it already.
I don't totally believe in a true soulmate actually, but I do believe in there being some one very special out there that meshes great with who we are and that would match us emotional and spiriturely.thumbs up wave
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