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Sep 1, 2008 1:07 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
sxc666: Dont stress Mastic it will all come together one day and you will be happy as a pig in poo


Tiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnaaaaaa! Hey, good great to see you! hug yay applause
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Sep 1, 2008 1:09 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
alabamabebe: Tiiiiiiiiiinnnnnnaaaaaa! Hey, great to see you!
Hi Bev its so good to be back I missed you all wine applause hug
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Sep 1, 2008 1:16 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
Rexus
RexusRexusDili, Timor-Leste13 Threads 312 Posts
The best comes in your life when you are least prepared for it.
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Sep 1, 2008 1:24 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Rexus: The best comes in your life when you are least prepared for it.
I disagree, you have to be prepared for it or the best will never find you.

If the absolute best most perfect man in the whole wide world for me had walked up to me 2 or 3 years ago I wouldn't have even given him a second look. I was too busy finding out how I was by myself, I couldn't have been bothered with Bruce Willis. Well, maybe him, but only for a night or two. devil Now I'm ready, you can come on anytime now Bruce! laugh
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Sep 1, 2008 1:41 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada129 Threads 3 Polls 2,495 Posts
mastic55: I do worst here than most and not doing so well in person either, I think I'm stopping the search. AMEN


It's amazing what you can find when you are not looking. grin
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Sep 1, 2008 1:58 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
Rexus
RexusRexusDili, Timor-Leste13 Threads 312 Posts
alabamabebe: I disagree, you have to be prepared for it or the best will never find you.

If the absolute best most perfect man in the whole wide world for me had walked up to me 2 or 3 years ago I wouldn't have even given him a second look. I was too busy finding out how I was by myself, I couldn't have been bothered with Bruce Willis. Well, maybe him, but only for a night or two. Now I'm ready, you can come on anytime now Bruce!


Do you know the story? A man (or woman maybe?) was looking for a touch-stone that would turn every iron into gold. He was wearing an iron chain and picking up every stone to test if that turned the chain into gold. Days passed, years passed on-- the man was traveling the whole world looking for that touch-stone and touching his iron chain with every piece of stones! Half of his life time went on and suddenly he found that his iron chain had been turned into gold! but he didn't notice when that had happened as picking up the stones and testing them with iron chain had become his habit! So he started again to look for the touch-stone that he had found once and lost!

Anyway, I think your case is different. You know what you look for.
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Sep 1, 2008 2:19 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Rexus: Do you know the story? A man (or woman maybe?) was looking for a touch-stone that would turn every iron into gold. He was wearing an iron chain and picking up every stone to test if that turned the chain into gold. Days passed, years passed on-- the man was traveling the whole world looking for that touch-stone and touching his iron chain with every piece of stones! Half of his life time went on and suddenly he found that his iron chain had been turned into gold! but he didn't notice when that had happened as picking up the stones and testing them with iron chain had become his habit! So he started again to look for the touch-stone that he had found once and lost!

Anyway, I think your case is different. You know what you look for.



Interesting story....Welcome to CS.....wave handshake cheers
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Sep 1, 2008 2:24 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
Rexus
RexusRexusDili, Timor-Leste13 Threads 312 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Interesting story....Welcome to CS.....


Thanks. But promise you won't put me on guilotene!handshake
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Sep 1, 2008 2:27 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
keytone
keytonekeytonePortland, Oregon USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,686 Posts
mastic55: I do worst here than most and not doing so well in person either, I think I'm stopping the search. AMEN
I have done some serious thinking as well. I have spent lots of time here and before I found this place (a few years ago} I was on another site as well.
dunno
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Sep 1, 2008 2:30 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
Barnagie
BarnagieBarnagieWarsaw, Mazovia Poland28 Threads 3 Polls 819 Posts
Hey Everybody, wave
Mastic think how many time you would waste (forgive me people for word I use :) ) when you want to date/meet so many people in real life. :)
Hang on man! :)
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Sep 1, 2008 2:32 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
markizamkd25
markizamkd25markizamkd25Skive, Central Jutland Denmark235 Threads 5 Polls 4,706 Posts
mastic55: I do worst here than most and not doing so well in person either, I think I'm stopping the search. AMEN
Most of us stoped it here only for forums and chat grin You cant denie its fun tongue
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Sep 1, 2008 2:33 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
BarrenPneuma: Peace ad good luck with that outlook. It is posted clearly for all to see, and will mar first impressions here for a long time to come.



*WARNING CONTAINS SHAMELESS SELF PROMOTION*


Come on back Barren...


Your condescending post towards the OP caught ya a little heat and ya seem too have taken off like a scalded cat.

Well anyway thanks for your concern about the impression I make,

here's what a few women here had to say about me

in one thread.


nice
sweet
gentleman
a jewel
an orchid
decent man
thoughful and witty
charming and hilarious
brilliantly off colour
sense of humor is truly gold
freaking HILARIOUS
Love ya big guy
Ocee you're the best


I don't think that's too bad in a few pages,

I'm pretty ok with the impressions I make...

I've probably posted less words, in the entire time I've been here,

than you have in the last 48 hours,

but keep on strugglingblah....

it's kinda amusing.
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Sep 1, 2008 2:35 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Ocee35: *WARNING CONTAINS SHAMELESS SELF PROMOTION*Come on back Barren...Your condescending post towards the OP caught ya a little heat and ya seem too have taken off like a scalded cat.

Well anyway thanks for your concern about the impression I make,

here's what a few women here had to say about me

in one thread.nice
sweet
gentleman
a jewel
an orchid
decent man
thoughful and witty
charming and hilarious
brilliantly off colour
sense of humor is truly gold
freaking HILARIOUS
Love ya big guy
Ocee you're the bestI don't think that's too bad in a few pages,

I'm pretty ok with the impressions I make...

I've probably posted less words, in the entire time I've been here,

than you have in the last 48 hours,

but keep on struggling....

it's kinda amusing.



Well I know I luvs ya.....wave wink hug kiss
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Sep 1, 2008 2:39 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Rexus: he found that his iron chain had been turned into gold! but he didn't notice when that had happened as picking up the stones and testing them with iron chain had become his habit! So he started again to look for the touch-stone that he had found once and lost!

Anyway, I think your case is different. You know what you look for.
Good story, I think that's probably what happens when you start expecting things or people to turn into something they're not. I'm not looking for gold, and I'm not really sure what exactly what I am looking for. Just think I'll know it when I find it, mainly cause I know who I am.I think if you start trying to decide ahead of time what you want, you may miss out on just what you need. A person who likes who I am, and who I like being with, that's far better than any gold.
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Sep 1, 2008 2:42 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Rexus: Well, I sure do not belong to your queendom Is the same rule of queen apply to visitors?



Well CS is my kingdom so I would have to say...UMMMMMMMM YES!!!!!!!!!



professor roll eyes wink uh oh dunno laugh


frog frog frog
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Sep 1, 2008 2:42 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Well I know I luvs ya.....


What's not to luv....giggle



hug
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Sep 1, 2008 2:43 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Ocee35: *WARNING CONTAINS SHAMELESS SELF PROMOTION*Come on back Barren...Your condescending post towards the OP caught ya a little heat and ya seem too have taken off like a scalded cat.

Well anyway thanks for your concern about the impression I make,

here's what a few women here had to say about me

in one thread.nice
sweet
gentleman
a jewel
an orchid
decent man
thoughful and witty
charming and hilarious
brilliantly off colour
sense of humor is truly gold
freaking HILARIOUS
Love ya big guy
Ocee you're the bestI don't think that's too bad in a few pages,

I'm pretty ok with the impressions I make...

I've probably posted less words, in the entire time I've been here,

than you have in the last 48 hours
,

but keep on struggling....

it's kinda amusing.
And made way more sense with your few words than most. And you are freakin hilarious, and whoever said you're brilliantly off colour has you pegged to a T! laugh grin thumbs up
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Sep 1, 2008 2:46 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
Rexus
RexusRexusDili, Timor-Leste13 Threads 312 Posts
alabamabebe: Good story, I think that's probably what happens when you start expecting things or people to turn into something they're not. I'm not looking for gold, and I'm not really sure what exactly what I am looking for. Just think I'll know it when I find it, mainly cause I know who I am.I think if you start trying to decide ahead of time what you want, you may miss out on just what you need. A person who likes who I am, and who I like being with, that's far better than any gold.


I like your great realization and deep self talk! To me the journey is more important than the destination. Since we do not know what the destination is (and we often can't control it), better we enjoy the journey towards it!
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Sep 1, 2008 2:51 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
alabamabebe: And made way more sense with your few words than most. And you are freakin hilarious, and whoever said you're brilliantly off colour has you pegged to a T!



Thank you Bebe....I miss the mark sometimes,

but I appreciate those who know my intentions are good...usually.


hug
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Sep 1, 2008 3:23 AM CST This is a waste of my time, online dateing.
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia121 Threads 2 Polls 9,996 Posts
kitty01: I have to agree, do not think will ever find anyone on a dating site, but nice company.


Why not? It is just another medium. But agreed, usually find something/someone, when you're not really 'looking'. Just be yourself, and enjoy your time here. Or else, take a break and come back. Nothing is gained in a negative frame of mind. Even in cyberspace.wave
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