ex girlfriend (30)

Sep 1, 2008 11:30 AM CST ex girlfriend
tinaferrara
tinaferraratinaferraraedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK13 Threads 210 Posts
my nephew who i am very close to, wel his ex has finished with him, but wants to remain friends, why? and is this a good idea?
Sep 1, 2008 11:34 AM CST ex girlfriend
foreveryoung1
foreveryoung1foreveryoung1cartagena, Murcia Spain2 Threads 1 Polls 2,984 Posts
tinaferrara: my nephew who i am very close to, wel his ex has finished with him, but wants to remain friends, why? and is this a good idea?


Have no idea, why not ask her yourself?
Sep 1, 2008 11:40 AM CST ex girlfriend
tinaferrara
tinaferraratinaferraraedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK13 Threads 210 Posts
well i could,but dont want to look like a interfering aunt,just interested in peoples suggestions,thats all
Sep 1, 2008 11:54 AM CST ex girlfriend
smoky
smokysmokyUnterland, Zurich Switzerland266 Threads 6 Polls 9,412 Posts
tinaferrara: well i could,but dont want to look like a interfering aunt,just interested in peoples suggestions,thats all

Relationships start by being friends. So .... if the relationship ends ... why does the friendship have to end?
Sep 1, 2008 11:56 AM CST ex girlfriend
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
tinaferrara: my nephew who i am very close to, wel his ex has finished with him, but wants to remain friends, why? and is this a good idea?


Because life is to short...peace
Sep 1, 2008 12:04 PM CST ex girlfriend
breezee
breezeebreezeeathens, Attica Greece20 Threads 1,136 Posts
smoky: Relationships start by being friends. So .... if the relationship ends ... why does the friendship have to end?
Because it's not always the decision of both and sometimes even when both agree it's best to separate one or both may not be totally fine with it / may still be feeling a little "attached"...... doesn't always help to remain friends..... sometimes distance is needed to help people move on...... dunno

Just contributing tonight really. I'm not actually in a position to know what I'm talking about. dunno dunno
Sep 1, 2008 12:13 PM CST ex girlfriend
kamelia
kameliakameliaNegotino, Macedonia15 Threads 1 Polls 574 Posts
From my point of view, if you break up or go your separate ways, doesn't mean you have to do it by being bitter and distant. Sometimes the chemistry might be gone, but you still share the friendship. There is nothing wrong with that, unless there are some unresolved feelings from each party involved.
Sep 1, 2008 12:54 PM CST ex girlfriend
shot3743
shot3743shot3743Vidin, Bulgaria26 Threads 1 Polls 573 Posts
Mirodenia: actual friends.


Sorry. Didn't quite understand this bit.
Sep 1, 2008 3:59 PM CST ex girlfriend
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
My ex husband and I maintain a friendship, we are close when we have contact, but we can go for weeks without contact now the children are older.

My ex partner, who is still my business partner, sometimes we are friends, now we are not, as he refuses to speak to me, so when it comes to paying our VAT he will call, shout, that life is crap and that it is all my fault.

Fantastic, American Corporate a**hole.
Sep 1, 2008 4:13 PM CST ex girlfriend
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
Sommerauer71: American Corporate a**hole.


So now we have the annoying ACNE and ACA laugh
Sep 1, 2008 4:21 PM CST ex girlfriend
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
mike69spain: So now we have the annoying ACNE and ACA



We do.

rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 1, 2008 4:47 PM CST ex girlfriend
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
Sommerauer71: We do.


Do you get the feeling we are the only one at home in Europe?

Did they forget to invite us to the party?

drink pouring Lets get pi&&ed and have "funnyer" than them idea
Sep 1, 2008 4:58 PM CST ex girlfriend
FlowerOfTheSun
FlowerOfTheSunFlowerOfTheSunMalaga, Andalusia Spain7 Threads 1,017 Posts
mike69spain: Do you get the feeling we are the only one at home in Europe?

Did they forget to invite us to the party?

Lets get pi&&ed and have "funnyer" than them


Haha! wine Have fun!! Off to bed me!!
Sep 1, 2008 5:02 PM CST ex girlfriend
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
FlowerOfTheSun: Haha! Have fun!! Off to bed me!!


wave Nightie!
Sep 1, 2008 5:12 PM CST ex girlfriend
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
mike69spain: Do you get the feeling we are the only one at home in Europe?

Did they forget to invite us to the party?

Lets get pi&&ed and have "funnyer" than them



Hum.

They are up to something.

Going to bed? Silence, Jan is not here, Lilly, Immanuelle I suspect will be in bed, school tomorrow, Lagoona, Rusty, nope, Elley (swoons).

Yes lets! rolling on the floor laughing
Sep 1, 2008 5:26 PM CST ex girlfriend
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
Sommerauer71: Hum.

They are up to something.

Going to bed? Silence, Jan is not here, Lilly, Immanuelle I suspect will be in bed, school tomorrow, Lagoona, Rusty, nope, Elley (swoons).

Yes lets!


laugh

I have one pair of pourings left in this one. Here you go drink pouring

To Europe by night ! wine
Sep 1, 2008 5:29 PM CST ex girlfriend
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
mike69spain: I have one pair of pourings left in this one. Here you go

To Europe by night !


To Europe

Prost!!!

wine

So Phoenix is on the prowl, election talk in the IF, not been to the UK forums today, all quiet here.

Shall we light that candle?
Sep 1, 2008 5:35 PM CST ex girlfriend
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
Sommerauer71: To Europe

Prost!!!



So Phoenix is on the prowl, election talk in the IF, not been to the UK forums today, all quiet here.

Shall we light that candle?


All too serious. Lets do. I have half an hour to go here and then I will have to force my self offline to get some rest. Early day awaits, I am supposed to look serious too then laugh
Sep 1, 2008 5:43 PM CST ex girlfriend
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
mike69spain: All too serious. Lets do. I have half an hour to go here and then I will have to force my self offline to get some rest. Early day awaits, I am supposed to look serious too then


Me too, I am tired, but a candle is always good, soothing before schlafen.
Sep 1, 2008 5:55 PM CST ex girlfriend
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
Sommerauer71: Me too, I am tired, but a candle is always good, soothing before schlafen.


I have some incense left since last in Sri Lanka, they are super. I like to hide away candles so I never see the flame, just the shimmering of the light on the walls. Very soothing.

Then I play Monjes Buddhistas, such a dreamy composition of music.
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

Stats for this Thread

1,874 Views
29 Comments
by tinaferrara (13 Threads)
Created: Sep 2008
Last Viewed: Apr 3
Last Commented: Oct 2008

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here