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marriage vs living together (14)

Sep 3, 2008 6:15 AM CST marriage vs living together
tinaferrara
tinaferraratinaferraraedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK17 Threads 278 Posts
well after the marriage i had,i would never try it again,lol
Sep 3, 2008 11:03 AM CST marriage vs living together
pat123
pat123pat123london, Greater London, England UK8 Threads 124 Posts
me neither,once bitten twice shy
Sep 3, 2008 11:53 AM CST marriage vs living together
romy999
romy999romy999london, Greater London, England UK1 Threads 123 Posts
sadly in this country, if you live together, you never have the same rights as people who are married, especially if one partner dies. in 2008, there still is so much unfairness displayed towards couples who decide to live together. doh
Sep 3, 2008 1:38 PM CST marriage vs living together
silverfox
silverfoxsilverfoxbangor, Gwynedd, Wales UK3 Threads 154 Posts
i would no , iv never marred and never lived with a woman how sad that maby one day if i can find somone love
Sep 4, 2008 1:48 AM CST marriage vs living together
romy999
romy999romy999london, Greater London, England UK1 Threads 123 Posts
silverfox, i know a man, who never married or had children and found a lovely lady in his 50s, she had two grown up daughters, they are happy and together, now. dont give up.wave
Sep 4, 2008 2:09 PM CST marriage vs living together
silverfox
silverfoxsilverfoxbangor, Gwynedd, Wales UK3 Threads 154 Posts
aww thankyou i wont give up , suppos to meet few women but they never turned up iv spent lot of money travling but given up lol
Sep 4, 2008 5:16 PM CST marriage vs living together
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK231 Threads 6 Polls 19,911 Posts
silverfox: aww thankyou i wont give up , suppos to meet few women but they never turned up iv spent lot of money travling but given up lol


oh that is worse than despicable to not turn up - everybody has mobiles at least nowadays - the least they could do is phone you very mad
Sep 4, 2008 6:16 PM CST marriage vs living together
jojo69
jojo69jojo69Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK22 Threads 1 Polls 2,351 Posts
I would never marry again. After such a volotile marriage I had, I don't think I would ever live with anyone either.

I made such a bad judgement on my last partner (ex hubby) I don't think I could trust my judgement again. I have 3 kids and is no way I will ever subject them to that kind of enviroment again. I was a crap mum back then for letting them even hear the slightest slap thier mom received. Least I can do now is make sure the rest of thier childhood is happy!!

I am just greatful that the chap I am in touch with right now for over a yr and have met and am due to meet again in matter of days, totally understands me, my views and feelings!
Sep 4, 2008 6:36 PM CST marriage vs living together
silverfox
silverfoxsilverfoxbangor, Gwynedd, Wales UK3 Threads 154 Posts
aww that must have been a night mere for you ,i wish you well with your new man in your life
Sep 4, 2008 6:44 PM CST marriage vs living together
jojo69
jojo69jojo69Birmingham, but from Liverpool, West Midlands, England UK22 Threads 1 Polls 2,351 Posts
silverfox: aww that must have been a night mere for you ,i wish you well with your new man in your life


Thank you. I was not looking for sympathy, if anything living through what I did, has made me stronger and ironically enough, more confident (Obviously not at the time!) lol

And so long as this chap doesn't want anything more from me than the odd meeting and dinner and...... lol And does not want to get too serious with me, everything will be just great between us!

I wish you lots of luck in your quest for happiness too.

handshake Jo
Sep 4, 2008 6:58 PM CST marriage vs living together
silverfox
silverfoxsilverfoxbangor, Gwynedd, Wales UK3 Threads 154 Posts
thankyou i will try lol
Sep 5, 2008 12:15 PM CST marriage vs living together
anglophile
anglophileanglophileChattown, Washington USA5 Threads 974 Posts
jojo69: I would never marry again. After such a volotile marriage I had, I don't think I would ever live with anyone either.

I made such a bad judgement on my last partner (ex hubby) I don't think I could trust my judgement again. I have 3 kids and is no way I will ever subject them to that kind of enviroment again. I was a crap mum back then for letting them even hear the slightest slap thier mom received. Least I can do now is make sure the rest of thier childhood is happy!!

I am just greatful that the chap I am in touch with right now for over a yr and have met and am due to meet again in matter of days, totally understands me, my views and feelings!



Out of bad experiences comes strength. Trust your instinct which is even stronger now. You'll be able to read people better having been through that ugly experience. You also have more confidence than before, so you'll put up with less crap from men. giggle.
Sep 5, 2008 2:25 PM CST marriage vs living together
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK231 Threads 6 Polls 19,911 Posts
anglophile: Out of bad experiences comes strength. Trust your instinct which is even stronger now. You'll be able to read people better having been through that ugly experience. You also have more confidence than before, so you'll put up with less crap from men. giggle.


I so much agree thumbs up

once you come through the immediacy of it all, its amazing how much stronger you become and grow into a person in your own worth daisy
Sep 16, 2008 11:52 AM CST marriage vs living together
Trubrit
TrubritTrubritCastellon, Valencia Spain10 Posts
I met my wife at school and we married at 23 and had 2 wonderful kids and were blissfully happy but sadly in 1998 she was diagnosed with cancer and she died in my arms just a few months later. 10 years on and I would marry tomorrow but finding a women who is interested in me as a person and not what I have (which is nothing , except my sanity) is proving impossible.
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