hollandgirl: Yep that is it exacactly! I am not a chicken so do not "peck me" like one
That is a friendship kiss...I have a couple of close male friends with whom I exchange pecks on the mouth...but that is because friends is all we are. More intimate relationships should have more intimate kisses!
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
druidess6308: I would say that you either need to show by example, taking the lead to turn the kiss into more than a peck, or find another man. There have to be some out there who know how to kiss...you and I are of an age where we shouldn't have to teach anymore!
And yes, I sure do get your drift on what else are they not good at...and from personal experience I'll tell you, if they can't kiss worth a d***, they're not worth going any further along that track I wish you the best finding a man who can kiss...and is worth going further with!
...you and I are of an age where we shouldn't have to teach anymore!
Hmmm you could be just about be my daughter lol See that makes it more difficult for me. The younger ones believe that at my age I ought to know it all. Ha believe me I am still learning myself. I am a good student though.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
You guys ought to tread this thread much more serious! I have only about 30 years left so I am desparate to find another good kisser. To be honest I have known only about 3-4 men in my life who had mastered this art of kissing me the way any woman ought to be kissed. Cause that is really what it is!
I think we do need that kissing school. I be glad to be a student ha ha
hollandgirl: Lol I love to kiss it is, okay one, of my favorite "Sports" But when we get to the kissing point, I can't believe it! The men that I meet, don't know how to kiss. They peck, no jokes guys, like I am a chicken. Lol is that why women are called chickens?
Don't tell me too teach them, as their ego's would not allow it. Ohhhhhhhhhh what problems I am having huh? Tell me is it just me meeting the wrong guys? If they don't even know how to kiss what can I expect well your getting my drift.
Next!
if you think the person you are kissing don't know how to kiss.. i believe that there is no chemistry between the people... no need for art school of kissing.. maybe school of chemistry is needed..
hollandgirl: ...you and I are of an age where we shouldn't have to teach anymore!
Hmmm you could be just about be my daughter lol See that makes it more difficult for me. The younger ones believe that at my age I ought to know it all. Ha believe me I am still learning myself. I am a good student though.
Next!
I hadn't looked at your age on your profile, lol...you and my mom are the same age, so you are old enough to be my mother...but even in the pics that look fairly recent you don't look it.
I'm always willing to mutually teach and learn with someone equally skilled...it's teaching the ones who aren't that I refuse to do!
I agree that kissing, and all else afterward, is an art and always more pleasurable when you find an artist.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
yngathrt664: if you think the person you are kissing don't know how to kiss.. i believe that there is no chemistry between the people... no need for art school of kissing.. maybe school of chemistry is needed..
No no this is now just between you me and the signpost okay? The ones who were not good kissers where okay for the rest, if you get my drift, that was surprising really.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
druidess6308: I hadn't looked at your age on your profile, lol...you and my mom are the same age, so you are old enough to be my mother...but even in the pics that look fairly recent you don't look it.
I'm always willing to mutually teach and learn with someone equally skilled...it's teaching the ones who aren't that I refuse to do!
I agree that kissing, and all else afterward, is an art and always more pleasurable when you find an artist.
I keep on trying, I had hoped as this was my ploy, to have the real good kissers come forward. I did not work. Do I play dead and give up? NO way! Lol I am not That good at pretending. See this is one way to keep young. Good genes and attitude is the secret.(I gpt plenty of attitude) Keeping a sense of humor is also essensial.
hollandgirlOPSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada4,464 posts
hollandgirl: I keep on trying, I had hoped as this was my ploy, to have the real good kissers come forward. I did not work. Do I play dead and give up? NO way! Lol I am not That good at pretending. See this is one way to keep young. Good genes and attitude is the secret.(I gpt plenty of attitude) Keeping a sense of humor is also essensial.
Funny, to me anyway. I have been on IM and guys 50+ telling me but you sound no different then someone much younger. You have forever changed my mind about older women. So happy to have been of service. Shucks how am I supposed to sounds? My voice cracking etc?
Kissing in the laundry room??.....Hollandgirl, where's your fantasy??.....you're missing the point....great kissing starts in the mind...
....oh, btw...are you signing up for that weekend in the Hyatt??...
hollandgirl: Sorry God's gift to us women. I for one have by now become sceptical, so need to see references. You do have those right? Last chance as you need to do laundry? See you are not taking this serious. How can you think of passionate kissing and laundry all in one breath. Should I just give up? No darn it not yet!
hollandgirl: Yeah and you would also like to tell us (I would believe you but thousands may not) that you alone could have populated this planet ALL by your lonely self.NEXT!
Lagoona22: Ok, scratch the weekend at the Hyatt, ok??...
NEXT!!...
OK, if she's not up for it, how about I volunteer in her place. I will gladly report back on whether or not you stand up to your claims. It's the least I can do to help you prove yourself
I was speaking with some of my European colleagues not too long ago about kissing. One was Dutch, the other German. Both men claimed that kissing during lovemaking was not customary for them. Not sure though if this is cultural or just their own personal preference.
The funny thing is they both kiss on cheek as part of every personal greeting (with women they do not work with).
You're on!!....please try to reserve room 305....the rest of the floor has already been booked...
Besame: OK, if she's not up for it, how about I volunteer in her place. I will gladly report back on whether or not you stand up to your claims. It's the least I can do to help you prove yourself
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That is a friendship kiss...I have a couple of close male friends with whom I exchange pecks on the mouth...but that is because friends is all we are. More intimate relationships should have more intimate kisses!