So what would you say if someone you met had a scar? ( Archived) (139)

Sep 8, 2008 9:41 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
HJFinAZ: No, it was removed long ago. My right foot on the other hand is full of pins & staples from a surgery. I am still trying to figure out why I don't set off the metal detectors in airports, just to create a little excitement..


I think its cute that you can joke but i get selfconscious about
a lot of things i find rong with me...angel
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Sep 8, 2008 9:42 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
Hannasthe1: I think its cute that you can joke but i get selfconscious about
a lot of things i find rong with me...


And i'm wondering do you have problems dating?angel
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Sep 8, 2008 9:43 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
stooie1971: A Pellet?.......


A little larger, but not a whole lot..mumbling
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Sep 8, 2008 10:01 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
Claayer: and hopefully I will find someone that wont care about my Spaghetti junction tummy.. LOL


Yea but your really pretty and maderma a scar cream that pregnant people use that you can buy at cvs wallgreens should take care of that.

Trust me i've talked to doctors and every thing about my scar short of sergery.But i'm starting to think its not that bad who i'm i kidding i still think my scar looks the worst!blushing blushing crying angel
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Sep 8, 2008 10:16 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
Hannasthe1: What would you think of someone if they had a scar?
And would you date them if it was a big scar, or a little scar,
or would you rather not discuss it?



I don't date scars,

I date women.

bouquet
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Sep 8, 2008 10:19 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
If someone had a scar I'd love & accept them anyway.

To me it's more important what's on the inside then what's on the outside.
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Sep 8, 2008 10:27 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
scars don't bother me as I have a few myself and 1 very large one.
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Sep 8, 2008 10:32 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
confused should be about the person shouldn't it?? i have a scar from a car accident, if someone has a

problem with it there not worth my time
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Sep 8, 2008 11:36 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
angelface51
angelface51angelface51somewhere, Arkansas USA1 Threads 121 Posts
?Have you tried Derma blend its been around for years.It's water proof so you can swim.
A model who was knifed by a stalker endorses it. I worked with severely scaed children birth hmarks are coved
it's light.nongreaylips hug angel
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Sep 8, 2008 11:56 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
angelface51: ?Have you tried Derma blend its been around for years.It's water proof so you can swim.
A model who was knifed by a stalker endorses it. I worked with severely scaed children birth hmarks are coved
it's light.nongreay


But does it get ri of the scar?I thought it was make up.?dunno
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Sep 8, 2008 11:59 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK87 Threads 8,237 Posts
Hannasthe1: But does it get ri of the scar?I thought it was make up.?
scars fade in time and make up does help. But your beautiful for who you are and if someones can not see that there not worth having in your life hug bouquet
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Sep 8, 2008 11:59 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
Ocee35: I don't date scars,

I date women.

Yes but women want to look good for the one they love or even like.blushing angel
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Sep 8, 2008 11:59 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I would say "hello"....

I would date them...question is...would they date me???laugh
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Sep 8, 2008 12:01 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
I opened this thread last night after watching the Elephant Man for the first time ever - Im afraid I laughed............... wave
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Sep 8, 2008 12:01 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
morgan5: scars fade in time and make up does help. But your beautiful for who you are and if someones can not see that there not worth having in your life



Awwwww i think that was very kind of you.
And if i thought more like that i'd be good to go.blushing angel
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Sep 8, 2008 12:07 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
trish123: I opened this thread last night after watching the Elephant Man for the first time ever - Im afraid I laughed...............


I am not an animal!!!!

Well, maybe I am....devil
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Sep 8, 2008 12:13 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
Hannasthe1: Yes but women want to look good for the one they love or even like.



Very true, and I appreciate that greatly...grin
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Sep 8, 2008 12:16 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
mbcasey: I am not an animal!!!!

Well, maybe I am....


Ya know - I thought too late that may sound cruel but it really wasnt meant that way - what I meant was that after what Mr Merrick went through, a scar seems hardly an issue - but I know thats wrong cos its all down to individual perceptions - nothing cruel intended............ blushing
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Sep 8, 2008 12:20 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
trish123: Ya know - I thought too late that may sound cruel but it really wasnt meant that way - what I meant was that after what Mr Merrick went through, a scar seems hardly an issue - but I know thats wrong cos its all down to individual perceptions - nothing cruel intended............


I never thought your comment was cruel. I was making a joke myself.

I have many scars on my back...cancer related. John Merrick had nothing to cover up his outer deformities. But nothing could cover his caring heart, and that's what counts.hug
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Sep 8, 2008 12:25 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
candio
candiocandioYoungstown, Ohio USA20 Threads 568 Posts
Hannasthe1: What would you think of someone if they had a scar?
And would you date them if it was a big scar, or a little scar,
or would you rather not discuss it?


A scar is just a mark on the outside. It is the person I would be interested in not the wrapping. In order to get to know someone you need to get beyond the wrapping, the outside to see what is in the heart. I have dated a man that had a carburetor explode in his face. He suffered first, second and third degree burns on his face, neck, chest and hands. I didn't see the scars on the outside as I got to know him. Unfortunately the scars on the outside were more beautiful than the soul on the inside.
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