So what would you say if someone you met had a scar? ( Archived) (139)

Sep 17, 2008 3:57 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Damn, that's an ugly scar. laugh
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Sep 17, 2008 4:00 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
Indyfella: Damn, that's an ugly scar.


Are you kidding!!!What kinda crap is that unless your only kidding that is!


angel
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Sep 17, 2008 4:03 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
I'd say "funky"!!!....let's go get a snake tattoo on that thing ...you'll have the prettiest scar this side of the Misissippi...


banana
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Sep 17, 2008 4:06 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
howboutu
howboutuhowboutuDecatur, Alabama USA3 Threads 796 Posts
Pain heals..

Chicks dig scars...


Glory lasts forever....


Scars dont bother me....I have a few myself.


But knowing me I would be the idiot to met someone who is
self- conscious about their scar and say something like "Hey thats cool ...how did you get that scar"doh
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Sep 17, 2008 4:09 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
StarliteFantazy
StarliteFantazyStarliteFantazyFantazyLand, Missouri USA33 Threads 2 Polls 3,243 Posts
i have a scar on my hand that grossed my own son out.............it's not that noticeable now to me but to some people it is...................scars on the body don't bother me...............it's scars on the soul that can be hard to work with
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Sep 17, 2008 4:15 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
sweetowen: No, he'd dumped me way before & then we got back together afterward. It wasn't the outward scars that bothered me as much as the hidden scars that became apparent as time went on.


Ah, I hear you. Those are the ones that can be hard to tolerate...esp if they're really still open wounds more than scars. A scar indicates that it has healed over...thereby the wound should no longer hurt.

I have both types of scars, but no open wounds...and all that both types of scars mean is that I've lived. handshake
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Sep 17, 2008 5:09 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
Hannasthe1: Are you kidding!!!What kinda crap is that unless your only kidding that is!



A sense of humor on here is a must... thumbs up
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Sep 17, 2008 5:14 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
I wouldn't say anything,except usual hello.
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Sep 17, 2008 5:26 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
slim1977
slim1977slim1977my heart will always be in, Tennessee USA16 Threads 943 Posts
interesting question........ I have many, in the words of one of my friends, I looks like I layed on top of a hand gernade, I am very self concious about them, I dont go with out a shirt. though I realy dont think of it when it comes to others, they are part of who we are. to be accepted or not, everyone has scars of some type in their life, some visible some not.
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Sep 17, 2008 6:10 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
Lagoona22: I'd say "funky"!!!....let's go get a snake tattoo on that thing ...you'll have the prettiest scar this side of the Misissippi...


Awwww cute!



teddybear
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Sep 17, 2008 6:12 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
howboutu: Pain heals..

Chicks dig scars...Glory lasts forever....Scars dont bother me....I have a few myself.But knowing me I would be the idiot to met someone who is
self- conscious about their scar and say something like "Hey thats cool ...how did you get that scar"




That's me!I'd be like cool scar!
But when it comes to mine im like,
oh no its ugly!

doh

blushing
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Sep 17, 2008 6:14 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
StarliteFantazy: i have a scar on my hand that grossed my own son out.............it's not that noticeable now to me but to some people it is...................scars on the body don't bother me...............it's scars on the soul that can be hard to work with



Very true!
Unfortunatly we can't see those.

teddybear
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Sep 17, 2008 6:15 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
Indyfella: A sense of humor on here is a must...


In that case!rolling on the floor laughing

rolling on the floor laughing laugh rolling on the floor laughing



teddybear
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Sep 17, 2008 6:19 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
slim1977: interesting question........ I have many, in the words of one of my friends, I looks like I layed on top of a hand gernade, I am very self concious about them, I dont go with out a shirt. though I realy dont think of it when it comes to others, they are part of who we are. to be accepted or not, everyone has scars of some type in their life, some visible some not.


Awwwwww i don't mind scars but i think every one else does.



teddybear
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Sep 17, 2008 6:25 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK60 Threads 3 Polls 8,699 Posts
Hannasthe1: What would you think of someone if they had a scar?
And would you date them if it was a big scar, or a little scar,
or would you rather not discuss it?


What scar?? dunno confused

Blimey, I have more than enough to go around. The only one to beat me was my ex boyfriend and I didn't bother about that!!

Its neither here nor there.....
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Sep 18, 2008 7:56 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
MckinneyMemories
MckinneyMemoriesMckinneyMemoriesmckinney, Texas USA15 Posts
Hannasthe1: What would you think of someone if they had a scar?
And would you date them if it was a big scar, or a little scar,
or would you rather not discuss it?
I feel that scars are badges from war,whether it be in physical combat or the battles we face from life(such as surgery,wounds that didn't heal right,or mishaps)I do not expect to go to my grave in perfect condition,but rather scuffed,scarred,bruised to show i actually lived life and was very human.When and if i brought up the others persons scar or scars it would only be because i would want to know what event caused it and then i would in turn explain mine.
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Sep 20, 2008 3:21 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
MckinneyMemories: I feel that scars are badges from war,whether it be in physical combat or the battles we face from life(such as surgery,wounds that didn't heal right,or mishaps)I do not expect to go to my grave in perfect condition,but rather scuffed,scarred,bruised to show i actually lived life and was very human.When and if i brought up the others persons scar or scars it would only be because i would want to know what event caused it and then i would in turn explain mine.





Well i hope other people think a lot like you.



wave



teddybear
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Sep 25, 2008 9:55 PM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
Hannasthe1
Hannasthe1Hannasthe1Wesley Chapel, Florida USA6 Threads 1 Polls 80 Posts
italiancook4u: Listen, you have to pick yourself up! stop beating on yourself. first off to love someone you would have to of spent sometime with them to know you love them. And if that's the case then he accepted that fact. don't dwell on it. If he loves you he will encourage you and tell you how beautiful you make that scare look. You don’t need negative people in your life if you do, get rid of them, fast. TRUST ME!!!!!!!
I Don't really know what your feeling, but I think the real scar is in your heart. You have to stop and think with a clear head and let go.
There are really only two ways to approach life, as a victim or as gallant fighter. you must decide if you want to act or react. deal your own cards or play with a stacked deck. and if you don't decide which way to play with life, it always plays with you.

I can help you!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Oh can you!devil love
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Sep 26, 2008 11:47 AM CST So what would you say if someone you met had a scar?
kayrachelle
kayrachellekayrachelleElkhart, Indiana USA1 Threads 84 Posts
Hannasthe1: What would you think of someone if they had a scar?
And would you date them if it was a big scar, or a little scar,
or would you rather not discuss it?


my ex had a scar along the bottom of his left eye.
i didnt ever think anything of it.
it didnt change how i felt about him.
im not really too shallow though.
like my sisters ex use to make fun of her
because of the scar from her c section.
i guess people do view things differently.
but im sure EVERYONE has at least one scar somewhere.
whether is be physical or emotional.
if you never dated someone cause of a scar, youd die alone.

moping
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