How do i handle this situation? (31)
buckeye_guyhamler, Ohio USA2 Threads 11 Posts
Hi all and thanks in advance for the advice. kind of a touchy situation here. i saw a woman's profile that i really liked and i sent her a message. well, it's been 5 weeks since she has logged in and going on 5 weeks since i sent the message. she uses her initials and last name as her user name on this site. i did a search at yahoo on the white pages and it came up with her address and phone number. yes, i know that last sentence will make alot of people look at me like a stalker. i'm just a nice guy who noticed a profile and we have more than a couple things in common. no, i haven't contacted her in any way. is there any way to contact her without me coming off looking like a stalker since she doesn't log in here? thanks again for the help.------ This thread is Archived ------
I would hope that she comes back on the site, if it were me I would feel funny calling...but if you do call let he know how you got the information, she might want to change her name here...or maybe mail her a letter.It's not stalking if you try, it is only stalking if the advances are unwanted by her.jmo
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thx for the reply. i mean if she says no thanks, not interested then i'll leave her alone, not a problem. friend has suggested sending flowers anonymously saying i like your profile on CS and haven't seen you on here. maybe that would get her to login and read the message.
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buckeye_guy: thx for the reply. i mean if she says no thanks, not interested then i'll leave her alone, not a problem. friend has suggested sending flowers anonymously saying i like your profile on CS and haven't seen you on here. maybe that would get her to login and read the message.
That might work, but the flowers might be too much, but than again you never know,,,thanks for helping out ladies..........also I check out your profile and it says to see you picture you can direct them to another site, thats like a red flag, you should put a picture here.------ This thread is Archived ------
that will be rudely
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i put it in my message to her that i have a photo on a different dating site and i even think i told her to search my age and town to find it. i just don't have dig camera or phone that takes pics. :)
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buckeye_guy: i put it in my message to her that i have a photo on a different dating site and i even think i told her to search my age and town to find it. i just don't have dig camera or phone that takes pics. :)
I hear what your saying, but a photo can help you get dates, or in my case make them run away like hell.
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mastic55: I hear what your saying, but a photo can help you get dates, or in my case make them run away like hell.
yeah I don't believe that
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mastic55: I hear what your saying, but a photo can help you get dates, or in my case make them run away like hell.
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i don't know, one friend don't have a camera anymore and the other option i have is to have a friend take my pic at work, which btw is how i got the photo on the other site. plus i don't wanna scare off the girls anyways...need to get back on the treadmill :)
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svetlana38: that will be rudely
I know it could be rude, but what if she likes him, and she is happy to hear from him. If a girl I know named Mary, who I haven't seen since 1972 got in touch with me by mail,phone,internet or smoke signals and said to meet her, I would be there in a heart beat.------ This thread is Archived ------
i don't know, one friend don't have a camera anymore and the other option i have is to have a friend take my pic at work, which btw is how i got the photo on the other site. plus i don't wanna scare off the girls anyways...need to get back on the treadmill and work on that problem i guess :)
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SusieRR: yeah I don't believe that
Thank you.
this feels good------ This thread is Archived ------
buckeye_guy: i don't know, one friend don't have a camera anymore and the other option i have is to have a friend take my pic at work, which btw is how i got the photo on the other site. plus i don't wanna scare off the girls anyways...need to get back on the treadmill :)
can you go the other site.. save the picture to your Pc.. and put it up on CS?
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buckeye_guy: i put it in my message to her that i have a photo on a different dating site and i even think i told her to search my age and town to find it. i just don't have dig camera or phone that takes pics. :)
Oh, come on! Women don't buy that any more!
If you have a pic there, save a copy on your computer and upload it here! Voila!
As for contacting her...if she hasn't logged on CS for 5 weeks already, I would asume she has a good reason not to....chances are she's not in any rush to anser your mail when she does logg back.
And contacting her outside of CS is scarry...that's the easiest way to put yourself on her black list.
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Xtabentun: Oh, come on! Women don't buy that any more!
If you have a pic there, save a copy on your computer and upload it here! Voila!
As for contacting her...if she hasn't logged on CS for 5 weeks already, I would asume she has a good reason not to....chances are she's not in any rush to anser your mail when she does logg back.
And contacting her outside of CS is scarry...that's the easiest way to put yourself on her black list.
If you have a pic there, save a copy on your computer and upload it here! Voila!
As for contacting her...if she hasn't logged on CS for 5 weeks already, I would asume she has a good reason not to....chances are she's not in any rush to anser your mail when she does logg back.
And contacting her outside of CS is scarry...that's the easiest way to put yourself on her black list.
well, i can swear to god honestly say i don't have a cell phone, prepaid cell phone or digital camera. i'm a caveman in that respect i guess. as far as it scaring someone by contacting them outside of this site, i guess that's why i'm here asking for different solutions. i don't want to scare her, but how oh how to contact her?
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Xtabentun: Oh, come on! Women don't buy that any more!
If you have a pic there, save a copy on your computer and upload it here! Voila!
As for contacting her...if she hasn't logged on CS for 5 weeks already, I would asume she has a good reason not to....chances are she's not in any rush to anser your mail when she does logg back.
And contacting her outside of CS is scarry...that's the easiest way to put yourself on her black list.
If you have a pic there, save a copy on your computer and upload it here! Voila!
As for contacting her...if she hasn't logged on CS for 5 weeks already, I would asume she has a good reason not to....chances are she's not in any rush to anser your mail when she does logg back.
And contacting her outside of CS is scarry...that's the easiest way to put yourself on her black list.
hey there i dont know how to transfer pictures from one place to the other so if they dont buy that they must think that everybody is computer literate such as yourself. we cant all be a genius at the computer.
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buckeye_guy: well, i can swear to god honestly say i don't have a cell phone, prepaid cell phone or digital camera. i'm a caveman in that respect i guess. as far as it scaring someone by contacting them outside of this site, i guess that's why i'm here asking for different solutions. i don't want to scare her, but how oh how to contact her?
My only thought would be to wait and see her reaction ....i don't think pushing it would make you any favours.
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Xtabentun: Oh, come on! Women don't buy that any more!
If you have a pic there, save a copy on your computer and upload it here! Voila!
As for contacting her...if she hasn't logged on CS for 5 weeks already, I would asume she has a good reason not to....chances are she's not in any rush to anser your mail when she does logg back.
And contacting her outside of CS is scarry...that's the easiest way to put yourself on her black list.
Do you own whips?If you have a pic there, save a copy on your computer and upload it here! Voila!
As for contacting her...if she hasn't logged on CS for 5 weeks already, I would asume she has a good reason not to....chances are she's not in any rush to anser your mail when she does logg back.
And contacting her outside of CS is scarry...that's the easiest way to put yourself on her black list.
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ladyheart: hey there i dont know how to transfer pictures from one place to the other so if they dont buy that they must think that everybody is computer literate such as yourself. we cant all be a genius at the computer.
It has nothing to do with computer literacy. Redirecting somebody on another site because there is a picture there won't help much the dating chances.
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