I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice ( Archived) (75)

Sep 10, 2008 9:09 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
kissmedeeply: Stooie you need a boot to the bum..

Pls let me be the one to do it


Assuming the position... and holding ma breathe!!!
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Sep 10, 2008 9:12 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
Arlene101: Stooie: I had a bad date last wek from someome from the U.S.. You don't sound a thing like him by the way. 1.-- Do Not talk about any ex's or all the material things you might have 2.--Try to keep the conversation mostly being interested in her without sounding like you are asking for a resume. 3.--LISTEN and last but not least 4.--Have fun!!!!!! My date talked about everything he owns and all his websites and where he has been just last year, Phoned a woman when he as next to me watching a movie and never said a please or a thank you for anything. I even had his dog here. Well just have fun and that will be the charm!!!! Good luck although I think you will be fine the way you are.


Thanx... sorry your date was a self satisfied git!!hug
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Sep 10, 2008 9:14 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
Arlene101: OH-BIG ONE--Compliment her shoes no matter what!


Its still very hot out here.. I'm assuming she'll wear sandal's or similiar.... please, please don't be 'Croc's'!!!
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Sep 10, 2008 9:15 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
stooie1971: Thanx... sorry your date was a self satisfied git!!
Thanks, but he didn't get any (you now what) so I didn't lose anything.rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 10, 2008 9:15 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
fireliter: do the turning my phone off bit...


Very good shout there, good buddy.... I'll leave the phone at home!!!cheers

Ooo... I'll need it with me though...what if she's late.... what if she gets cold feet... etc, etc
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Sep 10, 2008 9:16 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
stooie1971: Its still very hot out here.. I'm assuming she'll wear sandal's or similiar.... please, please don't be 'Croc's'!!!
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing OMG then the color is nice.
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Sep 10, 2008 9:16 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
Arlene101: Thanks, but he didn't get any (you now what) so I didn't lose anything.


so....... did he compliment your footwear?
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Sep 10, 2008 9:18 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
Arlene101: OMG then the color is nice.


I must be the only person on the planet that thinks that 'Croc's don't make you look cool...especially with those bloody click on button's and crap....

However... kiddies do look cool in them... and sooooo cute with those bloody click on button's and crap....
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Sep 10, 2008 9:19 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
stooie1971: so....... did he compliment your footwear?
No all he did was compiment himself.laugh laugh
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Sep 10, 2008 9:20 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
stooie1971: I must be the only person on the planet that thinks that 'Croc's don't make you look cool...especially with those bloody click on button's and crap....

However... kiddies do look cool in them... and sooooo cute with those bloody click on button's and crap....
I don't like the look of them either.
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Sep 10, 2008 9:20 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
Arlene101: No all he did was compiment himself.


So he was too busy complimenting his own 'Croc's with all those bloody annoying little 'click-on' buttons....

He sounds a real charmer!!!!
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Sep 10, 2008 9:25 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
stooie1971: So he was too busy complimenting his own 'Croc's with all those bloody annoying little 'click-on' buttons....

He sounds a real charmer!!!!
I am not sur but if I had asked him he would have told me he got to charm snakes on his African Safari.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wink
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Sep 10, 2008 9:25 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
candio
candiocandioYoungstown, Ohio USA20 Threads 568 Posts
stooie1971: I'm asking CS-Land to give some advice for a first date.... Am I being to focused and over doing it.. or Am I okay with this

1. I'll pay for everything. even if she feels obliged to pay her way

2. I'm planning on taking her out for dinner rather than meeting for 'a coffee and a chat'

3. I'll be there early and not late.

4. I am not to expecting anything in return!

5. I'm confident, but i would like to take charge of the evening, not dragging her around but have planned the locations, the meal.. the coffee's or even drinks later, so we won't be sitting there scratching our heads...'wot do we do now?'

6. I'll dress appropriately for the date... She'll know where we are going... and what type of place it will be, so she can dress comfortably too

7. I won't be focusing on myself during the evening, And I won't talk about ex-girlfriends.

8. I'm thinking on the lines of it being like a good meal - when we finish our meals, I was thinking it would be the best time to finish a date.

9. I considering giving her a single Rose (too cheesy?)

10. I'm hoping that should the first date be a success... we'll will arrange to meet again, if it goe's badly..... I'll be back for more advice


Sweetie I think you are on the right track here. I have to agree about the rose. Roses speak a lot. I like the idea of a little bouquet of wildflowers. bouquet Daisys and such.

Not discussing your exes thumbs up definitely a good idea. thumbs up

Good luck and have a great time.heart wings
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Sep 10, 2008 9:26 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
stooie1971: Won't need them.... thats not gonna happen... but sound advice anyway.. thanks


I had you pegged as a smooth operator.
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Sep 10, 2008 9:28 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
candio: Sweetie I think you are on the right track here. I have to agree about the rose. Roses speak a lot. I like the idea of a little bouquet of wildflowers. Daisys and such.

Not discussing your exes definitely a good idea.

Good luck and have a great time.


Thanks...hug
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Sep 10, 2008 9:31 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
diogenes: I had you pegged as a smooth operator.


JMO...... It's not being a smooth operator... it's having little or no expectations....just looking forward to having a great time myself... and hopefully she will too!!!!

should the need arise... which I seriously doubt it.... there are pharmacies!!!!
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Sep 10, 2008 9:37 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
LACali
LACaliLACaliSouthern California, California USA3 Threads 936 Posts
stooie1971: I must be the only person on the planet that thinks that 'Croc's don't make you look cool...especially with those bloody click on button's and crap....

However... kiddies do look cool in them... and sooooo cute with those bloody click on button's and crap....


Yeah, where I live the men wear them. Men and little girls, only the men wear the brighter colors and no snap ons. I don't even have words for how hideous they are on anyone over 6.
Your date is so lucky, I think everything you have planned sounds wonderful. You can always throw her over at the last minute and call me. I could be there in, oh, 48 hours or so...love Have fun.
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Sep 10, 2008 9:38 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
stooie1971: And I'm trying not to be...... Ooo Jo I'm telling Eric!!!!!

Oh contrair my friend..

You are everything what a man shouldnt beroll eyes

hahah i mean SHOULD BE...

You are one in a Million my friend
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Sep 10, 2008 9:44 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
LACali: Yeah, where I live the men wear them. Men and little girls, only the men wear the brighter colors and no snap ons. I don't even have words for how hideous they are on anyone over 6.
Your date is so lucky, I think everything you have planned sounds wonderful. You can always throw her over at the last minute and call me. I could be there in, oh, 48 hours or so... Have fun.


Ooo...........daydream

Only kidding.... thanx anyway hug
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Sep 10, 2008 9:55 AM CST I got a plan for a first date and seeking advice
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
stooie1971: Precisely........'He's everything a man should be'

hee, hee
hug
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