when u take it slow (36)
kkitty4u: something real strange happened and well i will try and explain as best as i can so this makes sense.
OK u meet someone and u talk 4 a long time and u get comfortable with them r u with me so far.
well then one day u want to plan a surprise visit and u say u want to go to the place they told you they hang out at all the time and they say um ah well wouldn't this be better and i thought u were not ready yet well u get the idea right and then they just hang up on u just like it was a little kid I am laughing about this so please don't think that I am heart broken
I just think that after u reach a certain age OK still lmao sorry after a certain age u can do better than that am I right ?
OK u meet someone and u talk 4 a long time and u get comfortable with them r u with me so far.
well then one day u want to plan a surprise visit and u say u want to go to the place they told you they hang out at all the time and they say um ah well wouldn't this be better and i thought u were not ready yet well u get the idea right and then they just hang up on u just like it was a little kid I am laughing about this so please don't think that I am heart broken
I just think that after u reach a certain age OK still lmao sorry after a certain age u can do better than that am I right ?
UMMMMMMMMMM Yeah...he obviously couldn't think of a quick enough lie on his feet to justify his behaviour so he figured not saying anything obviously was the best way to go....UMMMMMMMM....Yes very mature indeed...I don't think I've seen behaviour like that since high school....
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I have taken it slow for a yr now...tonight I approached the subject of selling my place and getting an apartment. He says well I have an apartment that I can rent downstairs (this is true). I asked how much and he says.........oh I was just joking!! hahaha....fact is I can barely live in the winter-I currently help him put up vegetables for the winter, bring in his wood that he cut, clean his house/carpents and stuff....tell me, please...am I wasting my time with this guy or what? Do men feel differently about things than women? So, Kitty I have an idea what you are talking about, yes...........
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oops sorry the thread tittle well this makes me wonder about taking it slow
and what I mean by that is if a guy will take it nice and slow with ya maybe he is full of shi+
and maybe the ones that want to meet u right away r serious
and what I mean by that is if a guy will take it nice and slow with ya maybe he is full of shi+
and maybe the ones that want to meet u right away r serious
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UMMMMMMMMMM Yeah...he obviously couldn't think of a quick enough lie on his feet to justify his behaviour so he figured not saying anything obviously was the best way to go....UMMMMMMMM....Yes very mature indeed...I don't think I've seen behaviour like that since high school....[/quote
yeah I guess I needed to feel young again
seeing i am gonna be forty soon
yeah I guess I needed to feel young again
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kkitty4u: oops sorry the thread tittle well this makes me wonder about taking it slow
and what I mean by that is if a guy will take it nice and slow with ya maybe he is full of shi+
and maybe the ones that want to meet u right away r serious
and what I mean by that is if a guy will take it nice and slow with ya maybe he is full of shi+
and maybe the ones that want to meet u right away r serious
I have no clue.......
I just don't know anymore....I felt like a complete idiot after the conversation I had.......------ This thread is Archived ------
It's rough when reality threatens to steamroll our facades,
I feel kinda bad for the guy.
I feel kinda bad for the guy.
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Ocee35: It's rough when reality threatens to steamroll our facades,
I feel kinda bad for the guy.
I feel kinda bad for the guy.
yeah cuz he dont know what he missed out on
and you better agree with me
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loves2steppin: I have taken it slow for a yr now...tonight I approached the subject of selling my place and getting an apartment. He says well I have an apartment that I can rent downstairs (this is true). I asked how much and he says.........oh I was just joking!! hahaha....fact is I can barely live in the winter-I currently help him put up vegetables for the winter, bring in his wood that he cut, clean his house/carpents and stuff....tell me, please...am I wasting my time with this guy or what? Do men feel differently about things than women? So, Kitty I have an idea what you are talking about, yes...........
PLEASE don't take this as a rude comment because I have been there for six years until Feb. of this year. "Why buy the milk when the cow is free"
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loves2steppin: I have no clue....... I just don't know anymore....I felt like a complete idiot after the conversation I had.......
oh dont ever feel that way look at it as entertainment 
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kkitty4u: yeah cuz he dont know what he missed out on
and you better agree with me
and you better agree with me
Ya....that's what I meant.
Seriously I hadn't thought of it that way,
but you make a good point...
his loss.
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Arlene101: PLEASE don't take this as a rude comment because I have been there for six years until Feb. of this year. "Why buy the milk when the cow is free"
6 YEARS? were you the one that broke it off or him?
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loves2steppin: I have taken it slow for a yr now...tonight I approached the subject of selling my place and getting an apartment. He says well I have an apartment that I can rent downstairs (this is true). I asked how much and he says.........oh I was just joking!! hahaha....fact is I can barely live in the winter-I currently help him put up vegetables for the winter, bring in his wood that he cut, clean his house/carpents and stuff....tell me, please...am I wasting my time with this guy or what? Do men feel differently about things than women? So, Kitty I have an idea what you are talking about, yes...........
Not Kitty, not a man either, but was this a question?
Wow you could hire yourself out as live in house keeper and do a lot better. Have free room and board te boot.
You have spoiled this guy!
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loves2steppin: I have no clue....... I just don't know anymore....I felt like a complete idiot after the conversation I had.......
I don't think it depends on fast or slow...I think it depends on the person...some are afraid to commit and moving in together is a big commitment...even though it sounds like you're there most of the time...he still sees himself as having his freedom obviously so there is less of a commitment than actually living together...I guess it's how he treats you otherwise that is the most important...outside of this one conversation...in order for you to decide if you're wasting your time or not!!!!!
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kkitty4u: oops sorry the thread tittle well this makes me wonder about taking it slow
and what I mean by that is if a guy will take it nice and slow with ya maybe he is full of shi+
and maybe the ones that want to meet u right away r serious
and what I mean by that is if a guy will take it nice and slow with ya maybe he is full of shi+
and maybe the ones that want to meet u right away r serious
At least with the faster ones you would sooner know where your standing and not wasting a lot of time.
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loves2steppin: I have no clue....... I just don't know anymore....I felt like a complete idiot after the conversation I had.......
I LET him walk on me and now I don't and he now wants me . I knew that would happen as soon as I was ready to walk. Oh well his loss!------ This thread is Archived ------
Yeah I would wonder about a guy who doesn't really want to meet. What's he got to hide? And the ones who have nothing but a cell phone, or don't want you to come see them. Been there done that. Bottom line, believe nothing till you've seen for yourself.
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Ocee35: Ya....that's what I meant.
Seriously I hadn't thought of it that way,
but you make a good point...
his loss.
Seriously I hadn't thought of it that way,
but you make a good point...
his loss.
even though I made ya
it still feels good
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hollandgirl: At least with the faster ones you would sooner know where your standing and not wasting a lot of time.
yep so true lmao ------ This thread is Archived ------
loves2steppin: 6 YEARS? were you the one that broke it off or him?
Mein a way--I started dating and then all kinds of interest in me sparked up. I have been around long enough to know that would happen. I even told him several times that I treated him toooooo well and sure enough when I stopped he was a whole lot interested.------ This thread is Archived ------
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OK u meet someone and u talk 4 a long time and u get comfortable with them r u with me so far.
well then one day u want to plan a surprise visit and u say u want to go to the place they told you they hang out at all the time and they say um ah well wouldn't this be better and i thought u were not ready yet well u get the idea right and then they just hang up on u just like it was a little kid I am laughing about this so please don't think that I am heart broken
I just think that after u reach a certain age OK still lmao