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Sep 12, 2008 5:02 PM CST is it posssible??
Tamarory
TamaroryTamaroryPlymouth, Devon, England UK23 Threads 2 Polls 503 Posts
does anyone think its possible to fall in love without meeting somebody in person?? if you do.. how long do you think you would had to have been talking to the person to realise it??
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Sep 12, 2008 5:07 PM CST is it posssible??
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Tamarory: does anyone think its possible to fall in love without meeting somebody in person?? if you do.. how long do you think you would had to have been talking to the person to realise it??



Yes I do..provided that both people are being themselves and are open and honest with each other...it's a more intimate way of getting to know each other on-line and of having conversations that you might not talk about right away when meeting in person...I don't think you can put a time frame on it...every person and couple is different...wine
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Sep 12, 2008 5:08 PM CST is it posssible??
Anything is possible, but don't make any commitments over the internet. I think you can create a strong bond by just conversing, whether it should be taken further or not is a little more difficult to answer. I would always suggest getting to know someone in person on a daily basis before committing. You are going to run into flaws, and hard times that you may not be able to experience over the internet.
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Sep 12, 2008 5:13 PM CST is it posssible??
Possible?Yes I think it is.However I think it is unlikley to happen.More infatuation is what I'd think.Cyberspace anyone can be anyone.Anyone can behave anyway.I am very careful myself.You follow your head and then your heart.Hope all works out for you both.bouquet
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Sep 12, 2008 5:14 PM CST is it posssible??
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
You can feel something special.
If we don't really know the person, we are in love with what the person conveys. What the person really is can only be ascertained by regular personal contact.
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Sep 12, 2008 5:16 PM CST is it posssible??
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
Tamarory: does anyone think its possible to fall in love without meeting somebody in person?? if you do.. how long do you think you would had to have been talking to the person to realise it??


Who knows and who can tell - its such a difficult area, all of this love stuff throws us all for sixers all the flippin time - for sure, this online stuff opens now horizons for many of us, many of us are needy or disillusiond and looking for any glimmer of hope which may shine from any of the darkest corners which we may search in this endless quest for fulfillment - basically, its a flippin minefield laugh
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Sep 12, 2008 5:16 PM CST is it posssible??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
6 Commandments..

1. Do not build walls, for they are dangerous. Learn to transcend them.

2. Live in the moment, for each one is precious and not to be squandered.

3. Take care of yourself, first & foremost.

4. Drop the ego, be real and watch what happens.

5. All things are possible, all the time.


6. Maintain Universal Flow. When someone gives, it is an act of generosity to receive. For in giving there is something gained..

"love", is a choice..cheers
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Sep 12, 2008 5:18 PM CST is it posssible??
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
HJFinAZ: 6 Commandments..

1. Do not build walls, for they are dangerous. Learn to transcend them.

2. Live in the moment, for each one is precious and not to be squandered.

3. Take care of yourself, first & foremost.

4. Drop the ego, be real and watch what happens.

5. All things are possible, all the time.

6. Maintain Universal Flow. When someone gives, it is an act of generosity to receive. For in giving there is something gained..

"love", is a choice..



wave wink hug teddybear


I believe love is a choice...BUT I don't believe we can choose who we love....wink
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Sep 12, 2008 5:22 PM CST is it posssible??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: BUT I don't believe we can choose who we love....


I do! I believe having love for all is the simplest way and I keep things simple..grin

DIDN'T say I like everybody..devil
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Sep 12, 2008 5:29 PM CST is it posssible??
HJFinAZ: I do! I believe having love for all is the simplest way and I keep things simple..

DIDN'T say I like everybody..




Pat I agree we do have a choice of who we love.
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Sep 12, 2008 5:30 PM CST is it posssible??
somechick: Pat I agree we do have a choice of who we love.



And that we can choose who we love and don't love.
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Sep 12, 2008 5:35 PM CST is it posssible??
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
I have some experience with this. I think you can fall in love being here, on the phone and IM'ing.

BUT, you are never really sure until you meet in person.
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Sep 12, 2008 5:35 PM CST is it posssible??
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway51 Threads 5 Polls 5,070 Posts
Not in my world...


wine
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Sep 12, 2008 5:43 PM CST is it posssible??
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Tamarory: does anyone think its possible to fall in love without meeting somebody in person?? if you do.. how long do you think you would had to have been talking to the person to realise it??


Yes, for kids in nursery school. danceline
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Sep 12, 2008 5:44 PM CST is it posssible??
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
lusciousmile: Yes, for kids in nursery school.


Not with their classmates of course, they've met those in person.


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Sep 12, 2008 5:47 PM CST is it posssible??
brokenspirit
brokenspiritbrokenspiritLittlespot, Nebraska USA41 Threads 603 Posts
When we learn to love the person we see in the mirror each day at our worst or best or in between, then we can love those we talk to, come in contact with or just type words on the computer. However, true, long lasting, forever love, is complex. To meet the person will give you a better chance to know them on the inside as well as the outside. Pretty and handsome packages are not always that once they are opened.
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Sep 12, 2008 5:56 PM CST is it posssible??
DangerouslySweet
DangerouslySweetDangerouslySweetNorthwestern, Arizona USA12 Threads 764 Posts
lusciousmile wrote:Yes, for kids in nursery school.

lusciousmile: Not with their classmates of course, they've met those in person.



If I find out my grandson is online withany of you while he is supoosed to be learnin' his ABC's, you're gonna be in DEEP DOODOO!!!!!

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Sep 12, 2008 6:00 PM CST is it posssible??
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
DangerouslySweet: lusciousmile wrote: Yes, for kids in nursery school.

If I find out my grandson is online withany of you while he is supoosed to be learnin' his ABC's, you're gonna be in DEEP DOODOO!!!!!



Activity Based Costing is done in college (accounting). Is he mixing up his classes again? uh oh


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Sep 12, 2008 6:02 PM CST is it posssible??
AutumR
AutumRAutumRover looking a meadow, Louth Ireland14 Threads 883 Posts
~~~It depends on the idividuals involved, how true they are being to each other and themselves, same as it would be meeting someone the "regular" way. You can meet someone and be attracted to them, get caught up in that attraction and realize later "What the hell was I tinking." This way you learn alot about each other before you ever meet and have a good strong starting point.


wine
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Sep 12, 2008 6:06 PM CST is it posssible??
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yes I do..provided that both people are being themselves and are open and honest with each other...it's a more intimate way of getting to know each other on-line and of having conversations that you might not talk about right away when meeting in person...I don't think you can put a time frame on it...every person and couple is different...


Good answer! I'll second it! (Or third it if someone beat me to seconding it...haven't read all the way through yet.)

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