Only curious about women not answering emails. (31)

Feb 16, 2009 10:45 AM CST Only curious about women not answering emails.
pesh121
pesh121pesh121Manila, Metro Manila Philippines30 Threads 2 Polls 435 Posts
blueriver30: I had a similar thing happen to me, a guy voted my pics 10's(when I had them up). I emailed him several times and I didn't here form him. I saw later he voted 10 on everyones photos. I also emailed a man and told him I liked his pics, he viewed me than blocked me.


Its so weird!!we both experience same thing.maybe this men are just here to rate photos.doh
Feb 16, 2009 11:12 AM CST Only curious about women not answering emails.
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada129 Threads 3 Polls 2,495 Posts
CasualChuck: Ok...just out of curiousity..why do many women never return a simple Hello? In their profiles they say love to chat..they are in the same town or close..but do not reply. Anyways...jsut curious..most of my replies come from those 75 to 100 miles away..lol..no one likes to chat with those in their home town or surrounding area..humm...Just a thought. Have a good day all...no a great day!!


It works both ways. Women have asked the same question. If I get an email from someone that it shows they did not look at my profile, (mostly from certain countries, or the photo used is from another completely profile), they do not get a response.

If the person says they love me, and want to get to know me more, they are blocked. My profile states "not looking" and that I'm engaged. If the moron can not respect that, they are blocked. grin
Feb 16, 2009 11:15 AM CST Only curious about women not answering emails.
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada129 Threads 3 Polls 2,495 Posts
KHD100: It works both ways. Women have asked the same question. If I get an email from someone that it shows they did not look at my profile, (mostly from certain countries, or the photo used is from another completely different profile), they do not get a response.

If the person says they love me, and want to get to know me more, they are blocked. My profile states "not looking" and that I'm engaged. If the moron can not respect that, they are blocked.
Feb 17, 2009 6:15 PM CST Only curious about women not answering emails.
ShareTheFire
ShareTheFireShareTheFireBarrhead, Alberta Canada1 Threads 73 Posts
Happily4sure: Send me an email, and I will answer it, and I don't live that far away. I like meeting new people, I mean, how is anyone ever going to find their one and only if they don't speak with each other, if only to have a new friend.


confused sigh
Feb 18, 2009 11:24 PM CST Only curious about women not answering emails.
zaphodb2100
zaphodb2100zaphodb2100Mount Hope, Ontario Canada3 Posts
I'm thinkin' that it just comes down to common courtesy, or lack of it. If a person makes an effort to send me an email - even if I am not interested I will respond. It's just being polite. I guess some people are just too busy, and I think the lack of response says more about a person’s character than a 1000 word email.
Feb 19, 2009 1:59 PM CST Only curious about women not answering emails.
gemery
gemerygemeryWilliams Lake, British Columbia Canada5 Threads 509 Posts
CasualChuck: Ok...just out of curiousity..why do many women never return a simple Hello? In their profiles they say love to chat..they are in the same town or close..but do not reply. Anyways...jsut curious..most of my replies come from those 75 to 100 miles away..lol..no one likes to chat with those in their home town or surrounding area..humm...Just a thought. Have a good day all...no a great day!!


I have to agree that this happens to almost all of us at one time or other on both sides of the fence.

I usually will answer except in some cases. Those being;

1. You write to tell me how much you liked my profile and didn't look at it.

2. You are outside my age range that I have posted on my profile. READ THE DAMN THING WILL YA!!! I AM NOT LOOKING FOR CASUAL ENCOUNTERS WITH 25 YEAR OLDS!!!!

3. You will only be contacted through MSN or Yahoo.

4. You send me your email in your first message. Ask for money. Give me some kind of hard luck story.

5. Or you live half way around the world. I do LDR'S within some kind of reason.

Maybe other people have their own lists that result in silence. However, if a person does say they are looking to chat or make new friends, then hell...at least acknowledge it.

Just my thoughts. grin

geo
Feb 19, 2009 4:16 PM CST Only curious about women not answering emails.
gordy22222
gordy22222gordy22222whitehorse, Yukon Territory Canada22 Threads 3 Polls 938 Posts
hahahahahahahahahahah,,,a i have no character i am oneprofessor
Feb 21, 2009 11:38 AM CST Only curious about women not answering emails.
babyoh150
babyoh150babyoh150cambridge, Ontario Canada2 Threads 23 Posts
i agree. say more than just Hello.
a little about what you liked in the profile would be good. somewhere to start a conversation. I will usually send a message back if not interested in anyway...location / interests etc. i also believe it is just common curtisy to do so
curvychick: Hey Casual

ok, I cannot answer for the women whom you HAVE emailed but I can speak for me!

If someone takes the time out to say hello, I will do the same....maybe thru a flower instead of an email... it's common courtesy for me!

however, if the emailing persists and he writes again, I will simply tell him the truth!@ for example, thank you but I am looking for someone whom lives in my city currently....or that I am not interested but thanks for the email just the same.

Some of us are not on here for chit chat...some of us are on here for the simple reason of finding that "rocking chair love" that we all want..... and they figure why make small talk when we have already assumed it "ain't going anywhere"

OR, many of us only have access at work (such as I) and so, our time is lmited (break, lunch hour, etc).....

Pre-Judgement, it happens every day I guess......

Don' think that all women are the same...cause we are not.... just as all men aren't from the same cloth!

I wish you much luck...and as posted by someone previous to me, don't just write hello! IF her profile interested you, say so in your email and ask if she would be interested in chatting....maybe you OPENING the line of communication will give you most responses!

good luck to you!

cheers

Curvy
Feb 21, 2009 11:45 AM CST Only curious about women not answering emails.
babyoh150
babyoh150babyoh150cambridge, Ontario Canada2 Threads 23 Posts
i try to make first contact. Don't have much luck. If i get a reply and they say they want to talk i never hear from them again...i don't get it. I am who i say I am and just want to meet the right guy to settle down with.
sometimes you have to bite the bullet and just send a message or 12 lol.dunno heart beating
Mar 1, 2009 2:45 PM CST Only curious about women not answering emails.
kinsman1951
kinsman1951kinsman1951Fort Macleod, Alberta Canada3 Threads 23 Posts
seems that replies are not forthcoming I would appreciate a reply if i send an email or flower even if its to tell me take a hike then you know where you stand
Mar 3, 2009 6:18 AM CST Only curious about women not answering emails.
babyoh150
babyoh150babyoh150cambridge, Ontario Canada2 Threads 23 Posts
maybe we should ask the programmers of this site to add a button with a pre written section for how to say your not interested. They use them for introductions. Maybe a section for easy let downs as well would be helpful. confused
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