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Sep 17, 2008 6:55 PM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
Baddabing66
Baddabing66Baddabing66Oceanside, California USA101 Threads 1 Polls 353 Posts
Alot older women have this problem when I tell them I dont want a relationship, either with them or someone else. Older women, its no big deal If I dont want a relationship. Why do you always say "oh you will find somebody". People been telling me that since November 6, 1981.
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Sep 17, 2008 7:03 PM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
everyone has a problem with rejection, not just older womwn. The best way to deal with rejection, is not to place yourself in a position to be rejected.
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Sep 17, 2008 7:06 PM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
Baddabing66
Baddabing66Baddabing66Oceanside, California USA101 Threads 1 Polls 353 Posts
We men respect them when they dont want a relationship, but when we say it; they try to tell us there will be somebody out there for you. I am sick of people saying that. I never tell that to nobody.
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Sep 17, 2008 7:30 PM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA18 Threads 5,214 Posts
Never try to figure out how women think. Just nod and go uh huh a lot. professor
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Sep 17, 2008 7:34 PM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA307 Threads 9 Polls 25,009 Posts
KrazieStill: Never try to figure out how women think. Just nod and go uh huh a lot.



gotta admire your wisdomthumbs up grin
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Sep 17, 2008 7:52 PM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada711 Threads 6,072 Posts
KrazieStill: Never try to figure out how women think. Just nod and go uh huh a lot.


Told you this before lol your not crazy, you got women figured out and yes learn early on to say; Yes ma'm.
That will make a lot of things go a lot smoother.
You know that is what you end of saying anyway huh?
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Sep 17, 2008 8:07 PM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland10 Threads 1 Polls 6,330 Posts
Baddabing66: Alot older women have this problem when I tell them I dont want a relationship, either with them or someone else. Older women, its no big deal If I dont want a relationship. Why do you always say "oh you will find somebody". People been telling me that since November 6, 1981.


Why do you think that women have a problem when they wish something nice for you? Very few people on this planet want to live in isolation. Most need company, preferably a partner or companion. That is a normal and healthy attitude. To want that for someone else shows a caring nature. Why can't you see that, instead of taking the attitude that it has to be a problem with women?
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Sep 17, 2008 8:12 PM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
laura225
laura225laura225Somewhere, New York USA3 Threads 2 Polls 2,657 Posts
gingerb: Why do you think that women have a problem when they wish something nice for you? Very few people on this planet want to live in isolation. Most need company, preferably a partner or companion. That is a normal and healthy attitude. To want that for someone else shows a caring nature. Why can't you see that, instead of taking the attitude that it has to be a problem with women?


thumbs up





Baddabing, would you be here on CS if they were wrong? They wish you find what you are looking for.
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Sep 18, 2008 12:36 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
I don't think it has anything to do with age. It has to do with attitude. So may I ask have you dated these women for a while saying lets do this or that and making it sound like there might be some type of commitment from you? Just curious. Women are very relational creatures by nature or at least most of us are. Best thing is to be very upfront and tell someone hey I just want a friends with benefits situation or I am not ready for anything to develop. Why should an older woman be less inclined to desire a relationship than a younger one? lol.
Obviously that is in some ways a compliment to you. I have found with the guys I dated that were a bit younger that I didn't want a relationship happening.
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Sep 18, 2008 12:48 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
KHD100
KHD100KHD100Edmonton, Alberta Canada165 Threads 3 Polls 4,065 Posts
Baddabing66: Alot older women have this problem when I tell them I dont want a relationship, either with them or someone else. Older women, its no big deal If I dont want a relationship. Why do you always say "oh you will find somebody". People been telling me that since November 6, 1981.


"oh you will find somebody".
Why do you think this simple comment has to do with having a relationship or not? Finding someone one does not mean or lead to a relationship unless you want it.

OLDER WOMEN...hmmm having a problem with your not wanting a relationship.... considering I know more single OLDER women than ones in a relationship .... and the OLDER women I know, enjoy being single having the freedom to live their own lives.

yawn

Someone please educate this poor boy!
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Sep 18, 2008 12:58 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA786 Threads 2 Polls 12,449 Posts
I find older women encourage me to have "elationships" rather than "relationships". As long as everyone's happy, WTF does age have to do with it?doh frustrated frustrated
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Sep 18, 2008 1:35 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA85 Threads 3 Polls 6,177 Posts
Ok, I can't speak for all older women by any means, but I would have absolutely no problem with your not wanting a relationship, with me especially, or anybody else. You don't want a relationship, WGAFF. dunno
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Sep 18, 2008 1:45 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
Baddabing66: Alot older women have this problem when I tell them I dont want a relationship, either with them or someone else. Older women, its no big deal If I dont want a relationship. Why do you always say "oh you will find somebody". People been telling me that since November 6, 1981.



You're a year younger then me and if I was looking for someone I wouldn't want a relationship with you.

I don't hit on younger men then myself.
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Sep 18, 2008 1:59 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
Baddabing66
Baddabing66Baddabing66Oceanside, California USA101 Threads 1 Polls 353 Posts
You are right; you are not my type.
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Sep 18, 2008 2:12 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
deon29
deon29deon29geraldton, Western Australia Australia6 Posts
older woman all oer the world have this problem as they cannot except the fact that they are at an age that they connot chose who they want also, most want to hold onto their youth and think having a younger toyboy does give the opion that they are still young and attractive.
Most woman who divorce are looking for whatever they missed in their early life and want to catch up on what they missedas a younger person,I find it amazing that woman who are 55 to 60 still looking for men who are 35 to 45 maybe they think that they can get better enjoyment with sex as the older guy starts to fade out in time so why not make the most of what you have while you can.
Also I see so many older men who marry young woman and soon find that they are an idiot for doing so as there is no way the older guy can keep up with his younger wife so she must look for ways to meet younger men,so what is the difference.
They are all making a terrible mistake but will not except the truth of their age.

A guy from Australia
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Sep 18, 2008 2:14 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA4 Threads 1,810 Posts
deon29: older woman all oer the world have this problem as they cannot except the fact that they are at an age that they connot chose who they want also, most want to hold onto their youth and think having a younger toyboy does give the opion that they are still young and attractive.
Most woman who divorce are looking for whatever they missed in their early life and want to catch up on what they missedas a younger person,I find it amazing that woman who are 55 to 60 still looking for men who are 35 to 45 maybe they think that they can get better enjoyment with sex as the older guy starts to fade out in time so why not make the most of what you have while you can.
Also I see so many older men who marry young woman and soon find that they are an idiot for doing so as there is no way the older guy can keep up with his younger wife so she must look for ways to meet younger men,so what is the difference.
They are all making a terrible mistake but will not except the truth of their age.

A guy from Australia


thumbs down thumbs down thumbs down Sorry dude. Think your WAY off base here.
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Sep 18, 2008 2:20 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA85 Threads 3 Polls 6,177 Posts
woody636: Sorry dude. Think your WAY off base here.
Ya think? roll eyes laugh
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Sep 18, 2008 2:21 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
woody636
woody636woody636Elgin, Illinois USA4 Threads 1,810 Posts
alabamabebe: Ya think?


Just a tad!!! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wave
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Sep 18, 2008 11:37 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
There are so many exceptions to all these generalizations out there. loll Yeah there are some older men that might date someone younger then they experience that they don't have enough commonality and start dating peeps their own age. Same with women they might go out with someone of a different age category older or younger find out it doesn't work at times then date their own age.
A lot of people have given up on dating especially online. I am interested in peoples interactions especially men and women so have done some reading. There are a lot of single people not even looking anymore. Maybe they figure when the right person comes along cool until then they will live their lives. Age doesn't always play into things. I have met people where there was quite an age spread but it worked for them they were a good "fit". Isn't that what it's about that people would like someone who complements them?
Whether people use sex only, friendships, activity partners or relationships on some level most of us are trying to connect.
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Sep 18, 2008 11:52 AM CST Why do older women have a problem when a younger man tells them, they dont want a relationship?
FlowerOfTheSun
FlowerOfTheSunFlowerOfTheSunMalaga, Andalusia Spain9 Threads 1,390 Posts
Baddabing66: We men respect them when they dont want a relationship, but when we say it; they try to tell us there will be somebody out there for you. I am sick of people saying that. I never tell that to nobody.



I think you will find that there are plenty of "older" women out there (and here) who get contacted by younger men offering them a relationship and not all of those younger men take no for an answer because in their mind "older woman" equals desperate ... doh

In the past, I have also noticed on many men over 50's profiles, on this site and others, that they are looking for women age from 18 to 35/40 ish doh

Another thing I have noticed is that men over 40 who find themselves still single or divorced but have yet no children are looking for much younger partners ... may be to allow for the possibility or still having children dunno

Whatever!!!

Everyone has a reason for looking for who they're looking for, be it to massage their ego or some other need/reason ...
Each to their own!!! And good luck!!!
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