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Sep 18, 2008 9:03 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
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Sep 18, 2008 9:05 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
DIVORCE
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Sep 18, 2008 9:05 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland13 Threads 8,222 Posts
Oh I don't bother .................. just move on !!!
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Sep 18, 2008 9:06 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA217 Threads 10,073 Posts
You don't keep love, it's like a heart , its beating or its not no matter what.heart wings
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Sep 18, 2008 9:06 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland13 Threads 8,222 Posts
mastic55: You don't keep love, it's like a heart , its beating or its not no matter what.
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Sep 18, 2008 9:08 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
Always keep it at the forefront and remember that nothing is worth losing it....smitten smitten smitten
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Sep 18, 2008 9:10 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland10 Threads 1 Polls 6,330 Posts
How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?

It's a state of mind that you both have to have.wine
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Sep 18, 2008 9:10 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge: Oh I don't bother .................. just move on !!!


I am sure that if you were truly in love you would try to keep it.scold
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Sep 18, 2008 9:12 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland13 Threads 8,222 Posts
Lonely1: I am sure that if you were truly in love you would try to keep it.
No way ... love is like a bus .............. wait 5 minutes and another one comes along grin
I am kinin of course , but if love broke down , I wouldn't try to flog a dead horse handshake
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Sep 18, 2008 9:12 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland13 Threads 8,222 Posts
livinglarge: No way ... love is like a bus .............. wait 5 minutes and another one comes along
I am kinin of course , but if love broke down , I wouldn't try to flog a dead horse
Yikes ....Kidding doh
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Sep 18, 2008 9:12 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
gingerb: How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?

It's a state of mind that you both have to have.


You both have to be on the same page. I have tried and am still trying to figure this out my self.
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Sep 18, 2008 9:13 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
gingerb: How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?

It's a state of mind that you both have to have.


Yes I agree...if it's not mutual...then it won't work...eventually someone gives up....wave wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Sep 18, 2008 9:13 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
KrazieStill
KrazieStillKrazieStillChardon, Ohio USA18 Threads 5,214 Posts
Great SEX professor
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Sep 18, 2008 9:15 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge: No way ... love is like a bus .............. wait 5 minutes and another one comes along
I am kinin of course , but if love broke down , I wouldn't try to flog a dead horse


Still not sure if you have any idea what you are talking about. It is true that love dies if it is not maintained. But it seems that you are scared to do what it takes to get over the hill. JMO
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Sep 18, 2008 9:15 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
KrazieStill: Great SEX



Hell, I can do that without her!!rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 18, 2008 9:17 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland13 Threads 8,222 Posts
Lonely1: Still not sure if you have any idea what you are talking about. It is true that love dies if it is not maintained. But it seems that you are scared to do what it takes to get over the hill. JMO

cheering cheering Oh Doctor Ruth , I have never meet you , but please tell me what I really want , what I really mean ............. I'm only 40 , you know ............. how am I supposed to know laugh laugh laugh handshake
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Sep 18, 2008 9:20 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge: Oh Doctor Ruth , I have never meet you , but please tell me what I really want , what I really mean ............. I'm only 40 , you know ............. how am I supposed to know


Wellllllll............

After 40 years of marriage.......I think I would still give her a rose....

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Sep 18, 2008 9:21 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland13 Threads 8,222 Posts
Lonely1: Wellllllll............

After 40 years of marriage.......I think I would still give her a rose....
Haha now you are the one who doesn't know what you are talking about laugh laugh laugh laugh handshake
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Sep 18, 2008 9:23 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
Being loving and sharing love keeps love alive. Being loving and sharing love means:

When each person learns to take responsibility for their own feelings rather than making the other person responsible for their feelings of worth, lovability, security, happiness, joy or pain.
When each person has their own and their partner’s highest good at heart. when we both support our own and our partner’s joy and well being. Both of us are considerate of the other person without giving ourselves up.
When each person chooses to be honest and authentic about how we feel and what we want and don’t want. That we are each willing to speak our truth without blame or judgment.
That each person stays open to learning about our own and our partner’s wants, needs, and fears, especially in conflict.
I think what keeps love alive is each person’s willingness to do whatever inner work is necessary to keep the heart open to loving and learning. Controlling behavior is motivated by fear – of loss of self and loss of other, of engulfment and rejection, of smothering and abandonment.

When each person is willing to do the inner work necessary to heal these fears, they are able to keep their hearts open more and more of the time. Love flows freely when hearts are open to loving and learning.


JMO
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Sep 18, 2008 9:24 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA319 Threads 14 Polls 9,166 Posts
If I knew this I'd still be in KY dunno
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