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Sep 18, 2008 10:46 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
Ocee35: Lots of imagination, and plausible deniabilty.
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Sep 18, 2008 10:46 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
jbibiza: I´m with you Ken, if you love someone it just is... Bit like the thread I posted before about why do people say relationships are hard work. If two people love each other then life is competition to see who can make the other happiest... it´s about giving and sharing and accepting.


thumbs up

it comes natural without working at it.

Even during the toughest times, you know you still love that person very much...that is the beauty of it!!
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Sep 18, 2008 10:49 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
mbcasey: it comes natural without working at it.

Even during the toughest times, you know you still love that person very much...that is the beauty of it!!



Thats why I don´t understand people who break up when they get in a fight... the on again off again kind of relationships. If we argue or you do something to upset me... then yeah I´m mad at you but it will pass and it doesn´t change that I love you.

I only break off a relationship when the love I thought would be there isn´t.
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Sep 18, 2008 10:50 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Really, if any of us had the answer to that question would we be here?

All I know is it takes two people trying, one can't make it work by themselves.
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Sep 18, 2008 10:51 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
jbibiza: Thats why I don´t understand people who break up when they get in a fight... the on again off again kind of relationships. If we argue or you do something to upset me... then yeah I´m mad at you but it will pass and it doesn´t change that I love you.

I only break off a relationship when the love I thought would be there isn´t.


maybe we are hopeless romantics...
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Sep 18, 2008 10:55 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
mbcasey: maybe we are hopeless romantics...



laugh laugh That´s the funny thing.... I really don´t consider myself to be very romantic, I hate when I start getting that "ick factor" from a guy...

I like kindness and generosity and to know that he thinks of me.... but I´ve never been much for the "planned romantic gesture" I don´t like gestures, I like spontaneous bursts
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Sep 18, 2008 10:58 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
jbibiza: I only break off a relationship when the love I thought would be there isn´t.
When I break up it's over, no going back. By the time I decide a relationship is over it's been dead so long it's starting to stink!
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Sep 18, 2008 11:02 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
alabamabebe: When I break up it's over, no going back. By the time I decide a relationship is over it's been dead so long it's starting to stink!


.....laugh


I'm the same way Bebe.

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Sep 18, 2008 11:03 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
alabamabebe: When I break up it's over, no going back. By the time I decide a relationship is over it's been dead so long it's starting to stink!



laugh laugh I don´t let it linger quite so long.... but if I end a relationship it´s for good reason and there´s no going back!
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Sep 18, 2008 11:05 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
I think it is called the "C" word. Something most these days as being much easier than working thru life's problems...dunno
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Sep 18, 2008 11:06 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
F E A R = F*** Everything And Run..........grin
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Sep 18, 2008 11:08 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
jbibiza: I don´t let it linger quite so long.... but if I end a relationship it´s for good reason and there´s no going back!
I was talking about my marriages, nowadays I don't wait for the corpse to start rotting. laugh
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Sep 18, 2008 11:09 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
HJFinAZ: I think it is called the "C" word. Something most these days as being much easier than working thru life's problems...
What ? As in , Cee . You . Next . Tuesday.
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Sep 18, 2008 11:09 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
HJFinAZ: I think it is called the "C" word. Something most these days as being much easier than working thru life's problems...


.... and that would be the "big" C word as opposed to the "little" c work.....grin
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Sep 18, 2008 11:11 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
alabamabebe: I was talking about my marriages, nowadays I don't wait for the corpse to start rotting.


I woke up the day after my wedding and said "oh my god.... what have I done" and let it drag out for 2 years.

It´s quite sad really, I´ve loved 4 men in my life and none of them was my ex-husband.
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Sep 18, 2008 11:14 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
By taking it one day at a time realizing you are in it together and not enemies.
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Sep 18, 2008 11:58 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Dawn7z: By taking it one day at a time realizing you are in it together and not enemies.
That only works if you are in it together.
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Sep 19, 2008 12:01 AM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
keytone
keytonekeytonePortland, Oregon USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,686 Posts
How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?



well,,,I would say that love is alive. it is timeless.
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Sep 19, 2008 12:02 AM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
keytone: How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
well,,,I would say that love is alive. it is timeless.
Awww that is lovely Bettis teddybear
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Sep 19, 2008 12:07 AM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
keytone
keytonekeytonePortland, Oregon USA36 Threads 3 Polls 1,686 Posts
livinglarge: Awww that is lovely Bettis
thanks,,,but I really thought I was "invisible" thanks for the relpy.
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