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Jul 11, 2009 11:49 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
sultryash
sultryashsultryashBridgetown, Saint Michael Barbados40 Threads 4,836 Posts
buy some good ear plugs and a recliner................dunno rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 11, 2009 11:53 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
seekingasoulmate: You are overthinking everything too much. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who had all of that on their mind. Relaxand let things happen, don't sweat the small stuff. One step at a time


Interesting post. I understand the part about not sweating the small stuff, but what if you were married to a doctor, a lawyer, an accountant, a politician, or even a policeman. They have to think a lot each day.

However, it is easy to forget a birthday, or an anniversary. One can also overlook a slight put down, etc, but if it is consistent? Plus how would you tell if your mate was cheating on you?

I see your point, and I know I am being devils advocate here, but we all have a brain which we should put to use each day.bouquet
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Jul 11, 2009 11:53 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
CuspofMagic
CuspofMagicCuspofMagiclight, South Australia Australia320 Threads 2 Polls 10,696 Posts
"SomeChick" --- not just anychick
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Jul 11, 2009 11:54 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
druidess6308: Most of the men I've been with long term know that something's very wrong when I go into "Yes, Dear" mode. Anyone who truly loves me knows that is not me, and wouldn't want me to be like that. Good luck, Lonely1. And welcome back. I've missed you on here.


Yes, Dear. I missed you too. kiss yay
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Jul 11, 2009 11:57 PM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
CuspofMagic: "SomeChick" --- not just anychick


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Jul 12, 2009 12:02 AM CST How do you keep your 'Love' alive: Despite time, aging, quarrells, sickness.....?
I feel it begins to strenghten with Maturity, some at 25 Yrs old and some at 50, but it is when we BOTH learn selfrespect and live it, and use it, to keep that bond togather and respect each other, So,

One must learn selfrespect, before they can Respect the the other, When they both respect each other, they both do whatever it takes to do MORE than their part, and both give Extra Special attentyion, and dont do things that are going to Damage it..... It Must be given Care, just as a plant, It starts as a seed, then it sproughts and as you give it Sun and water, give it nutrition to grow, and in time, It should produce a wonderful Relationship!!!!!!!wow

But It MUST BE BOTH working at it and never slack up , It Can Flourish, and Be Wonderful..... But many are selfish and take fron it instead of adding .....


Like a Bank account , If you ad and respect it ,and feed it, it will Grow, more, more


If you keep making withdrawls, it will soon be a CLOSED ACCOUNT



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