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Sep 20, 2008 11:18 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
awwww honeybunch

i have to laff

apparently im an astrologer

i said you needed thsi kind of rythm

hmmmm we shall see


for me instant has fizzled pretty quickly in the past
so i avoid it

if i see a guy and instantly wanna bed him i go the other way


wellllll-now im all sorted but you know
we've discussed it

he sounds as traveled and interesting as you are
which is great-some equanimity i think is the word?

and yes dumdum he is interested
and




i like his style

love you JB
so much
hug


yippppeeee-another grand adventure!!!yay

wear comfortable shoes sounds like it will be a steady strollthumbs up
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Sep 20, 2008 11:22 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
jbibiza: Well I thank you all for your input and for helping me reach a moment of enlightenment.

I think at this point I´ll do a little flirting, show an interest in him and let him take the lead on this. The reality is that I need a strong man as a partner and if he is interested and I have to take the lead... chances are it wouldn´t work out in the long run. So hopefully he comes in again and we´ll see what happens.

Thank you all!!!


Just be yourself JB...he will be dazzled!!!hug
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Sep 20, 2008 11:28 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
mbcasey: Just be yourself JB...he will be dazzled!!!


im thinkin he already is

he just mr cool


be woooed JBapplause
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Sep 20, 2008 11:42 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
mindfful: awwww honeybunch

i have to laff

apparently im an astrologer

i said you needed thsi kind of rythm

hmmmm we shall seefor me instant has fizzled pretty quickly in the past
so i avoid it

if i see a guy and instantly wanna bed him i go the other waywellllll-now im all sorted but you know
we've discussed it

he sounds as traveled and interesting as you are
which is great-some equanimity i think is the word?

and yes dumdum he is interested
and

i like his style

love you JB
so much
yippppeeee-another grand adventure!!!

wear comfortable shoes sounds like it will be a steady stroll


If it is... it will be my first...laugh

It´s always been about passion for me... OMG do you think I might be growing up???uh oh jaw drop

I am quite fascinated by him... his farm is where all the produce for the restaurant comes from... he left the island when he was 16 to travel... he told me that when he left the land it was an oasis... horses, cattle, gardens... when he returned it hadn´t been cared for and had become like a desert, his goal is to bring it back to it´s former glory and to do it all organically. His photography is beautiful and heart stirring, he´s a man with some position but isn´t afraid to get his hands dirty... He´s done and seen so much but is incredibly down to earth. If nothing else he will be a fascinating person to talk with... to hear his stories.
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Sep 20, 2008 11:44 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
Oh.... love you too hun! and soooooooooo happy for you!applause applause (even though you didn´t tell me.....mumbling mumbling laugh hug
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Sep 20, 2008 11:47 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
mbcasey: Just be yourself JB...he will be dazzled!!!



laugh laugh When he saw me yesterday... I was on my last legs after 43 hours of no sleep... working and playing... don´t think I was very dazzling! sigh but thanks hun!lips hug
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Sep 20, 2008 11:48 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA235 Threads 8 Polls 18,996 Posts
its still passionate jb

just different

and deeper
and wider
and broader
and all that sap

im checkin out

catch ya soon

and ps
i was sooo looking forward to your shock
it is worth it if youre a lil bit mad at me the rest of our lives

((giggle))
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Sep 20, 2008 11:51 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
mindfful: its still passionate jb

just different

and deeper
and wider
and broader
and all that sap

im checkin out

catch ya soon

and ps
i was sooo looking forward to your shock
it is worth it if youre a lil bit mad at me the rest of our lives

((giggle))



Nawwww only for a week or two tongue oh and forget about that whole growing up thing... I just read what I wrote and I sound like a 6th grader with a crush on the teacher! laugh

Sleep well and lovely dreams!
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Sep 20, 2008 11:54 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
Shad0cat
Shad0catShad0catKissimmee, Florida USA2 Threads 37 Posts
That is the perfect thing to start with. If he's into you he'll let you know. Just go with it. If you don't ever feel anything fine. If you do even better. I've met guys before that I didn't feel anything for at first, but then later I totally loved.

Best of luck to you.
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Sep 20, 2008 11:58 PM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
jbibiza: When he saw me yesterday... I was on my last legs after 43 hours of no sleep... working and playing... don´t think I was very dazzling! but thanks hun!


I will tell you this once JB...you have no reason to doubt your outer beauty.

And you have every reason to celebrate your inner beauty.

He will be a lucky man indeed!! Just remember to have fun!!hug
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Sep 21, 2008 12:08 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
mbcasey: I will tell you this once JB...you have no reason to doubt your outer beauty.

And you have every reason to celebrate your inner beauty.

He will be a lucky man indeed!! Just remember to have fun!!



Only once....? crying




















You are a charmer Ken... thank you!hug
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Sep 21, 2008 12:12 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
jbibiza: Well I thank you all for your input and for helping me reach a moment of enlightenment.

I think at this point I´ll do a little flirting, show an interest in him and let him take the lead on this. The reality is that I need a strong man as a partner and if he is interested and I have to take the lead... chances are it wouldn´t work out in the long run. So hopefully he comes in again and we´ll see what happens.

Thank you all!!!


Why don't YOU take the lead??? Believe it or not, some of us guys are shall we say, "a little slow at getting it"....sigh

Personally, the biggest turn on I have ever had in life is when a certain young attorney handed me her business card with her home number on the back. It simply said, "take me to dinner, you will not regret it"..grin

I didn't...............wow
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Sep 21, 2008 12:14 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Yes, she was a redhead.....rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 21, 2008 12:16 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
jbibiza: Only once....? You are a charmer Ken... thank you!


that charming crap is for the birds...I was just being honest!!grin hug
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Sep 21, 2008 12:18 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
HJFinAZ: Why don't YOU take the lead??? Believe it or not, some of us guys are shall we say, "a little slow at getting it"....

Personally, the biggest turn on I have ever had in life is when a certain young attorney handed me her business card with her home number on the back. It simply said, "take me to dinner, you will not regret it"..

I didn't...............


Oh Pat...sorry you missed getting screwed by a lawyer...laugh

You are right though...some men need a 2x4 over the head to "get the message"...like me....
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Sep 21, 2008 12:23 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
hmmm not that i can give great advice cos i would be just like you .. i think uh oh

But i think personally you should continue chatting and be friends and like he dropped the idea that u guys would make a good couple etc .. he will do it again if he is really interested. Then you wont feel awkward and his interest will be confirmed plus it will all be very cute and romantic giggle

Sometimes i think guys just say things .. some of them .. Soooooo enjoy the company and see how things go ..

wave
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Sep 21, 2008 12:23 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
mbcasey: Oh Pat...sorry you missed getting screwed by a lawyer...

You are right though...some men need a 2x4 over the head to "get the message"...like me....


Who said I "missed" it??wink

BTW, she was not the only lawyer that screwed me..sigh

And on top of all that, when I moved to AZ in 99, I went into business with an attorney..frustrated frustrated frustrated
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Sep 21, 2008 12:24 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
mbcasey: Oh Pat...sorry you missed getting screwed by a lawyer...

You are right though...some men need a 2x4 over the head to "get the message"...like me....


::Dumps a BIG CAKE on Kens head :: sppllatt !!

giggle
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Sep 21, 2008 12:26 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
riyablossom: ::Dumps a BIG CAKE on Kens head :: sppllatt !!


NO, NO!!!!!!!!! Let's eat the cake....crying
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Sep 21, 2008 12:27 AM CST I´m useless at this whole "dating" thing....
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
HJFinAZ: Who said I "missed" it??

BTW, she was not the only lawyer that screwed me..

And on top of all that, when I moved to AZ in 99, I went into business with an attorney..




Have you recouped from your business adventure with the lawyer yet??
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