How do you hide your pain ? ( Archived) (166)

Sep 20, 2008 11:03 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA262 Threads 10 Polls 7,077 Posts
For me I use humor.
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Sep 20, 2008 11:06 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
I shut people off

Keep them in the dark and far away from mewave
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Sep 20, 2008 11:06 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
kissmedeeply: I shut people off

Keep them in the dark and far away from me



Me too...I need to be alone to figure things out for myself...wink hug teddybear hug bouquet
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Sep 20, 2008 11:07 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Me too...I need to be alone to figure things out for myself...


yes and for Eric he wants to talk it out right then

but if i am angry i may say something i might regret...

so its time for me that i needkiss hug teddybear bouquet
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Sep 20, 2008 11:08 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
I don't hide it. I share it.

As long as I'm hurting, everyone else should too.

Spread the love...devil

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Sep 20, 2008 11:08 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
kissmedeeply: yes and for Eric he wants to talk it out right then

but if i am angry i may say something i might regret...

so its time for me that i need



Yep..I'm the same...you really don't want to hear what I have to say when I'm upset....roll eyes uh oh dunno doh grin
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Sep 20, 2008 11:09 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
I clam up and afraid to open up when I know I should.

I just shut people out.
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Sep 20, 2008 11:09 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yep..I'm the same...you really don't want to hear what I have to say when I'm upset....
thumbs up teddybear hug bouquet
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Sep 20, 2008 11:11 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Hugz_n_Kissez: Yep..I'm the same...you really don't want to hear what I have to say when I'm upset....



Far too many expletives....devil roll eyes grin
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Sep 20, 2008 11:25 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA30 Threads 2,969 Posts
*****How do you hide your pain ?







I usually bury her in the back yard!!tongue
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Sep 20, 2008 11:28 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
A closed door never healed a sick heart. professor

angel
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Sep 20, 2008 11:29 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
shipoker58: *****How do you hide your pain ?

I usually bury her in the back yard!!
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You must be running out of real estate. thumbs up
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Sep 20, 2008 11:30 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
jetdevil2001
jetdevil2001jetdevil2001Tashkent, Uzbekistan6 Threads 1 Polls 406 Posts
shipoker58: *****How do you hide your pain ?

I usually bury her in the back yard!!


Do the same, stand straight as if there is nothing, the worst is to expose your weakness to your enemy
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Sep 20, 2008 11:30 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
shipoker58: *****How do you hide your pain ?

I usually bury her in the back yard!!


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Sep 20, 2008 11:32 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Come to CS and whine...uh oh
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Sep 20, 2008 11:33 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Helloo Dan.. :waves:

Depends on a few things really..

Who I'm with... where.. etc..

I can usually mask it pretty well with humour.. Even when something really bad has happened.. I am pretty good at shutting it away until I am on my own..

That and silence... for a big talker.. I'm and even bigger 'thinker'

I have noticed too.. that only the people that know me the best can see when I am faking, and sometimes no matter how hard I try to laugh it off and mask it.. they know. haha grrrr

In my marriage I learned very well HOW to hide it and let everyone think everything was fine.

Also, in my job.. I have to be a certain TYPE of person to do my job well.. so any upset I have, has to switch off immediately I walk throo the door.. and I CAN do that.. even if inside my heart is breaking and I swear I can barely breathe.. haha



wave hug
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Sep 20, 2008 11:34 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
Indyfella
IndyfellaIndyfellaindianapolis, Indiana USA152 Threads 8 Polls 18,150 Posts
I go to political threads on CS.
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Sep 20, 2008 11:34 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
Claayer: Helloo Dan.. :waves:

Depends on a few things really..

Who I'm with... where.. etc..

I can usually mask it pretty well with humour.. Even when something really bad has happened.. I am pretty good at shutting it away until I am on my own..

That and silence... for a big talker.. I'm and even bigger 'thinker'

I have noticed too.. that only the people that know me the best can see when I am faking, and sometimes no matter how hard I try to laugh it off and mask it.. they know. haha grrrr

In my marriage I learned very well HOW to hide it and let everyone think everything was fine.

Also, in my job.. I have to be a certain TYPE of person to do my job well.. so any upset I have, has to switch off immediately I walk throo the door.. and I CAN do that.. even if inside my heart is breaking and I swear I can barely breathe.. haha


Awww...claire. You're a trooper. comfort kiss grin
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Sep 20, 2008 11:34 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
p_seg
p_segp_segCentral, Xlokk Malta340 Threads 4,497 Posts
kissmedeeply: I shut people off

Keep them in the dark and far away from me


same here. I isolate myself till I had enough time to calm down and ponder on a solution.
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Sep 20, 2008 11:36 AM CST How do you hide your pain ?
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
shipoker58: *****How do you hide your pain ?

I usually bury her in the back yard!!


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