cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
So, many find it difficult to date someone who already has children. Is it because they don't want the ex around them? What if it's an adopted child, would it make a difference?
relationships are difficult within themselves. Throw in a couple or evemn one offspring and there is a whole new set of problems. Discipline being a major source of contention. "Replacement" issues being another. Just not worth the effort
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
shipoker58: relationships are difficult within themselves. Throw in a couple or evemn one offspring and there is a whole new set of problems. Discipline being a major source of contention. "Replacement" issues being another. Just not worth the effort
kissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada15,139 posts
cristina: So, many find it difficult to date someone who already has children. Is it because they don't want the ex around them? What if it's an adopted child, would it make a difference?
cristina: So, many find it difficult to date someone who already has children. Is it because they don't want the ex around them? What if it's an adopted child, would it make a difference?
Thoughts folks? Please be deep
It would not be fair to your kids. adopted or otherwise to have them hang around an "Old Fart" like me. Would you really want those kids corrupted?
cristina: So, many find it difficult to date someone who already has children. Is it because they don't want the ex around them? What if it's an adopted child, would it make a difference?
Thoughts folks? Please be deep
This is a tricky one, Cristina. I love kids and would love to have had more. But with women deciding what to do with their bodies and me preferring to throw the little swimmers out in a Trojan, rather than have them ruin the act, I don't have as many as I wish I had.
If I fall in love with a woman with kids, I would welcome them as long as we can get along. There are too many issues here to state, but I am sure this thread will offer more scenarios.
I really feel for women with kids who are single. I never wanted to let any of my offspring's grow up without me around, so I have been very careful over the years.
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
HJFinAZ: It would not be fair to your kids. adopted or otherwise to have them hang around an "Old Fart" like me. Would you really want those kids corrupted?
It's hard when you're a single mom. I have two teenage sons who currently live with their dad, but for me it's important for a man to accept them...esp as this could always change.
I have no problem dating men with children. I'm not looking to take over as their mother, but would try to be friends.
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
Lonely1: This is a tricky one, Cristina. I love kids and would love to have had more. But with women deciding what to do with their bodies and me preferring to throw the little swimmers out in a Trojan, rather than have them ruin the act, I don't have as many as I wish I had.
If I fall in love with a woman with kids, I would welcome them as long as we can get along. There are too many issues here to state, but I am sure this thread will offer more scenarios.
I really feel for women with kids who are single. I never wanted to let any of my offspring's grow up without me around, so I have been very careful over the years.
That's very sweet of you, being careful over the years. Maybe only those who already have children accept better their partner having kids as well. Interesting i see profiles of people who have children and ask for people who don't. Perhaps is for economic reasons
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
druidess6308: It's hard when you're a single mom. I have two teenage sons who currently live with their dad, but for me it's important for a man to accept them...esp as this could always change.
I have no problem dating men with children. I'm not looking to take over as their mother, but would try to be friends.
cristina: So, many find it difficult to date someone who already has children. Is it because they don't want the ex around them? What if it's an adopted child, would it make a difference?
Thoughts folks? Please be deep
Hiya sweetie... ..long time...
Well I am going to look into adoption and fostering....I adore kids.. and man or not I want to have the opportunity to give some kid/s the chance of a good life.. if a guy doesn't like it....well he can look elsewhere..
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Aries01: Hiya sweetie... ..long time...Well I am going to look into adoption and fostering....I adore kids.. and man or not I want to have the opportunity to give some kid/s the chance of a good life.. if a guy doesn't like it....well he can look elsewhere..
Wow...that is terrific Aries...a very worthy cause...
cristinaOPLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
Aries01: Hiya sweetie... ..long time...Well I am going to look into adoption and fostering....I adore kids.. and man or not I want to have the opportunity to give some kid/s the chance of a good life.. if a guy doesn't like it....well he can look elsewhere..
That's right girl. You said he may take a hike right? Yeah, take a hiiiiiiike!
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Is it because they don't want the ex around them?
What if it's an adopted child, would it make a difference?
Thoughts folks? Please be deep