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Sep 24, 2008 11:58 AM CST Bad News/Good News
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
As some of you already know, my daughter's expecting at the end of October. Last night, she called me & said the baby's breech & she'll need to schedule a c-section. That's the bad news.

The good news is that she asked if I would mind if she schedules the surgery for my birthday! She said she'll be far enough along at that point to have it done.

Some people say give the baby her own birthday. Others think it's a really nice, special thing for my daughter to do.

What do y'all think? dunno
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Sep 24, 2008 12:00 PM CST Bad News/Good News
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
Do whatever's best and healthiest for the baby and your daughter.applause


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Sep 24, 2008 12:03 PM CST Bad News/Good News
kayrachelle
kayrachellekayrachelleElkhart, Indiana USA1 Threads 84 Posts
sweetowen: As some of you already know, my daughter's expecting at the end of October. Last night, she called me & said the baby's breech & she'll need to schedule a c-section. That's the bad news.

The good news is that she asked if I would mind if she schedules the surgery for my birthday! She said she'll be far enough along at that point to have it done.

Some people say give the baby her own birthday. Others think it's a really nice, special thing for my daughter to do.

What do y'all think?



first off, congratulations on becoming being a grandmommy.
hug
but i think it is your daughters decision.
it is truly sweet what she is willing to do.
and i know my niece was born on my birthday and it just made it more fun for all of us.
i think that a grandmother and grandchild sharing a birthday would create a special bond.

once again, congrats.
cheers
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Sep 24, 2008 12:08 PM CST Bad News/Good News
FlowerOfTheSun
FlowerOfTheSunFlowerOfTheSunMalaga, Andalusia Spain7 Threads 1,017 Posts
sweetowen: As some of you already know, my daughter's expecting at the end of October. Last night, she called me & said the baby's breech & she'll need to schedule a c-section. That's the bad news.

The good news is that she asked if I would mind if she schedules the surgery for my birthday! She said she'll be far enough along at that point to have it done.

Some people say give the baby her own birthday. Others think it's a really nice, special thing for my daughter to do.

What do y'all think?


My daughter was born on her paternal grandmother's b/day by coincidence. She was also born by planned C-Section but the date had to be brought forward for medical reasons so she ended up sharing her Nan's b/day!!!!!!

C-sections are not always bad news. Both my kids were born that way. It's one of those things. The goos news about c-sections once mums have recovered from the surgery is that "things down there" are exactely as they were before the birth.

I agree with Kidda on the date thing ... Do it on the date that's best for baby and Mum. May it all go well for both of them!!!

And congrats on soon being a grandma!!!!
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Sep 24, 2008 12:11 PM CST Bad News/Good News
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
This will actually be my third grandchild... but my FIRST granddaughter. So yes, I'm excited! And my sister & sister-in-law both had their children by c-section. I know they're a pretty common procedure. She's just very nervous. And since I never experienced it, I can't help her. But they can. I told her to talk to my sister, who is like her second mom.

Thanks for the congrats!! hug
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Sep 24, 2008 12:11 PM CST Bad News/Good News
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Very sweet of your daughter. Great present, accept it!bouquet
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Sep 24, 2008 12:17 PM CST Bad News/Good News
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
sweetowen: This will actually be my third grandchild... but my FIRST granddaughter. So yes, I'm excited! And my sister & sister-in-law both had their children by c-section. I know they're a pretty common procedure. She's just very nervous. And since I never experienced it, I can't help her. But they can. I told her to talk to my sister, who is like her second mom.

Thanks for the congrats!!


The best news????

You look ENTIRELY too young to be a Grandma!
laugh laugh laugh
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Sep 24, 2008 12:26 PM CST Bad News/Good News
tipaly81
tipaly81tipaly81Moscow, Idaho USA56 Threads 15 Polls 950 Posts
sweetowen: As some of you already know, my daughter's expecting at the end of October. Last night, she called me & said the baby's breech & she'll need to schedule a c-section. That's the bad news.

The good news is that she asked if I would mind if she schedules the surgery for my birthday! She said she'll be far enough along at that point to have it done.

Some people say give the baby her own birthday. Others think it's a really nice, special thing for my daughter to do.

What do y'all think?


Do what's best for the your daughter and her baby. The thought is quite sweet and I see nothing wrong w/ it. In fact, that could be considered the best birthday gift of all. I mean, how would anyone top that?wink wave
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Sep 24, 2008 12:31 PM CST Bad News/Good News
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
WhatUwish4: The best news????

You look ENTIRELY too young to be a Grandma!


AAAWWW Thanks!! hug hug

Honestly, she did make me a young grandmother.
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Sep 24, 2008 12:36 PM CST Bad News/Good News
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
sweetowen: AAAWWW Thanks!!

Honestly, she did make me a young grandmother.


Well, as one who had her kids MUCH later in life, I can only say there are advantages and disadvantages to both ends of the spectrum.
hug
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Sep 24, 2008 12:37 PM CST Bad News/Good News
WhatUwish4
WhatUwish4WhatUwish4St. Augustine, Florida USA2 Threads 7,986 Posts
You take what you're given!
wine
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Sep 24, 2008 12:48 PM CST Bad News/Good News
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
WhatUwish4: Well, as one who had her kids MUCH later in life, I can only say there are advantages and disadvantages to both ends of the spectrum.


You're sooo right! When she was little & my friends would call me to go out... of course I couldn't, usually.

Now, she's grown & gone & my FRIENDS have small kids! But my best friend is divorced & shares custody. So, when she has the kids, I just hang out at her house (the kids love it cuz I cook all the time!) & when she doesn't have the kids.... well, we ARE called "Thelma & Louise"!! thumbs up
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Sep 24, 2008 12:52 PM CST Bad News/Good News
JimNastics
JimNasticsJimNasticsKingston, New Jersey USA116 Threads 1 Polls 731 Posts
Congratulations ! A double reason to celebrate.
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Sep 24, 2008 12:54 PM CST Bad News/Good News
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Congratulations!!

JMO, have the baby 1 day before your birthday. That way, she gets to have her own day AND she can celebrate with you the next day!! applause
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Sep 24, 2008 12:56 PM CST Bad News/Good News
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
mbcasey: Congratulations!!

JMO, have the baby 1 day before your birthday. That way, she gets to have her own day AND she can celebrate with you the next day!!


It'd be better 1 day AFTER my bday cuz I took the next day off.... for recuperation.....

But my grandmother's birthday was on October 18th. That'd be kinda special too.
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Sep 24, 2008 12:56 PM CST Bad News/Good News
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
sweetowen: As some of you already know, my daughter's expecting at the end of October. Last night, she called me & said the baby's breech & she'll need to schedule a c-section. That's the bad news.

The good news is that she asked if I would mind if she schedules the surgery for my birthday! She said she'll be far enough along at that point to have it done.

Some people say give the baby her own birthday. Others think it's a really nice, special thing for my daughter to do.

What do y'all think?

Its really lovely IMO
Best wishes to your daughter applause
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Sep 24, 2008 12:59 PM CST Bad News/Good News
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
sweetowen: It'd be better 1 day AFTER my bday cuz I took the next day off.... for recuperation.....

But my grandmother's birthday was on October 18th. That'd be kinda special too.


There ya go...A kids' dream...birthday celebrations back to back days!!
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Sep 24, 2008 3:58 PM CST Bad News/Good News
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA289 Threads 5 Polls 8,850 Posts
mbcasey: There ya go...A kids' dream...birthday celebrations back to back days!!


It WOULD be nice & an honor. But would it be taking away from her special day?
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Sep 30, 2008 11:45 AM CST Bad News/Good News
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
sweetowen: As some of you already know, my daughter's expecting at the end of October. Last night, she called me & said the baby's breech & she'll need to schedule a c-section. That's the bad news.

The good news is that she asked if I would mind if she schedules the surgery for my birthday! She said she'll be far enough along at that point to have it done.

Some people say give the baby her own birthday. Others think it's a really nice, special thing for my daughter to do.

What do y'all think?


AAwww I think it's really nice.. heart wings

Also.. a Caesarean is usually a nice safe option to give birth.. look at all the celebs.. they have it ALL..

the best docs etc too.. and they CHOOSE to have a C section.

So don't worry about that.. nice and safe nice a quick..

A non squished baby face/head.. a nice perfectly round one.. and a non exhausted mum. thumbs up thumbs up

Oo hey.. did you know it's called that because Caesar was born that way.. well... so I heard.. but don;t hold me to it.. giggle

Anyhooo wave hug
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Sep 30, 2008 11:52 AM CST Bad News/Good News
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
sweetowen: As some of you already know, my daughter's expecting at the end of October. Last night, she called me & said the baby's breech & she'll need to schedule a c-section. That's the bad news.

The good news is that she asked if I would mind if she schedules the surgery for my birthday! She said she'll be far enough along at that point to have it done.

Some people say give the baby her own birthday. Others think it's a really nice, special thing for my daughter to do.

What do y'all think?


What difference does it make what "others" think? What do and your daughter want to do?dunno
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