They say remembering is living again. The past is the past and is long gone, but its always good to enjoy our most beautiful memories. Anyway, living in the past is not good; its bad for your self esteem and it can make you feel unhappy. The best way to forgot to the past it have a hobby and be with good friends and relatives too.
Baddabing66: They say remembering is living again. The past is the past and is long gone, but its always good to enjoy our most beautiful memories. Anyway, living in the past is not good; its bad for your self esteem and it can make you feel unhappy. The best way to forgot to the past it have a hobby and be with good friends and relatives too.
Its nothing wrong to remember the good memories, but like a said before living in the past is not good. Criminals and people with mental problems ten to live in the past, just any therapist.
Baddabing66: Its nothing wrong to remember the good memories, but like a said before living in the past is not good. Criminals and people with mental problems ten to live in the past, just any therapist.
If you cannot take the best from the past... it can be difficult to move on... if you dwell on the past and it becomes your future you cannot move on
I didn’t forget my past, but I do not live in it. I really try to leave it behind me and step forward. The “receipts” how I do that is: changed bad “picture” from past with happy moments which I had.
svetlana38: I didn’t forget my past, but I do not live in it. I really try to leave it behind me and step forward. The “receipts” how I do that is: changed bad “picture” from past with happy moments which I had.
Now, when I remember my past I do it with smile.
Brilliant answer..... take the good from the past!!!!
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
Great question Stu.
I had a real problem of letting go of the past. I am just learning how to move forward and live for today.
It is very hard to let go of something you already know...there is comfort from our past even if it is painful. That sounds odd, but facing an unknown future is very daunting.
HJFinAZ: "We do not regret the past, nor wish to shut the door on it."
If you do not shut that door, your present will become a past. Than you will feel sorry because you miss days which could be the greatest day in your life.
I had a real problem of letting go of the past. I am just learning how to move forward and live for today.
It is very hard to let go of something you already know...there is comfort from our past even if it is painful. That sounds odd, but facing an unknown future is very daunting.
Who's this posting on here............. thought it was MB!!!..... looks like some geezer from a Catalogue!!!
I know... I have left a relationship and two children.... my son Oliver was 5 yesterday
I will cherish the good times and put the bad times behind me... even though I will never forget them
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I'm not one of those that do not forgive... okay i won't forget.. but i don't make it an issue...
I thrive on what today shall bring and look forward to what tomorrow (unknown to me) might bring
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