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Sep 26, 2008 10:52 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
I don't.... I learn from the past... I move on, and any lesson's I learn I will use them when appropriate

I'm not one of those that do not forgive... okay i won't forget.. but i don't make it an issue...

I thrive on what today shall bring and look forward to what tomorrow (unknown to me) might bring

Love Life... Live to Love

Whoooooo Hoooooooooooooo banana
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Sep 26, 2008 11:00 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
They say remembering is living again. The past is the past and is long gone, but its always good to enjoy our most beautiful memories.
Anyway, living in the past is not good; its bad for your self esteem and it can make you feel unhappy. The best way to forgot to the past it have a hobby and be with good friends and relatives too.
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Sep 26, 2008 11:01 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Nope i dont live in the past...

but others will ask about the past my past....

and i say that is the past leave it behind...

start forward..teddybear
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Sep 26, 2008 11:02 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
Baddabing66: They say remembering is living again. The past is the past and is long gone, but its always good to enjoy our most beautiful memories.
Anyway, living in the past is not good; its bad for your self esteem and it can make you feel unhappy. The best way to forgot to the past it have a hobby and be with good friends and relatives too.


cheers
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Sep 26, 2008 11:03 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
kissmedeeply: Nope i dont live in the past...

but others will ask about the past my past....

and i say that is the past leave it behind...

start forward..


I wish others would heed your words, Joanne

hug
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Sep 26, 2008 11:04 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Yes i know...

Eric wants to learn from my past...

what hurt me..what has other guys done to me..

But i tell him its the past...

and it can/will hurt us if we go by what has happened...

Past is the Past..

Future is ours and how we make it...

kisses
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Sep 26, 2008 11:05 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
Its nothing wrong to remember the good memories, but like a said before living in the past is not good. Criminals and people with mental problems ten to live in the past, just any therapist.
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Sep 26, 2008 11:09 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
kissmedeeply: Yes i know...

Eric wants to learn from my past...

what hurt me..what has other guys done to me..

But i tell him its the past...

and it can/will hurt us if we go by what has happened...

Past is the Past..

Future is ours and how we make it...

kisses


The reason why Eric wants to know is because he love's you and cares for you.... embrace that and feel lucky for what you have...

Eric has a past too.... maybe you will eventually will want to hear his past

love to you both

Stu
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Sep 26, 2008 11:11 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
We can learn from the past, so we can have a brighter future and present thats part of life.
Tony Soprano lived in the past thats why he wasnt happy.
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Sep 26, 2008 11:11 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
Baddabing66: Its nothing wrong to remember the good memories, but like a said before living in the past is not good. Criminals and people with mental problems ten to live in the past, just any therapist.


If you cannot take the best from the past... it can be difficult to move on... if you dwell on the past and it becomes your future you cannot move on
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Sep 26, 2008 11:12 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
stooie1971: The reason why Eric wants to know is because he love's you and cares for you.... embrace that and feel lucky for what you have...

Eric has a past too.... maybe you will eventually will want to hear his past

love to you both

Stu


Oh stu i have heard about his past..

so has many on herelaugh

He is an open book...

Not that it bugs me...

but when i hear what other women has done to him...

I say pls dont compare me to others...

I am not them..

I am MEteddybear
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Sep 26, 2008 11:16 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
kissmedeeply: Oh stu i have heard about his past..

so has many on here

He is an open book...

Not that it bugs me...

but when i hear what other women has done to him...

I say pls dont compare me to others...

I am not them..

I am ME


Doe's he really understand what he's let himself in for???'

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Sep 26, 2008 11:18 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
svetlana38
svetlana38svetlana38somewhere, California USA8 Threads 103 Posts
I didn’t forget my past, but I do not live in it. I really try to leave it behind me and step forward. The “receipts” how I do that is: changed bad “picture” from past with happy moments which I had.

Now, when I remember my past I do it with smile.
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Sep 26, 2008 11:19 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
svetlana38: I didn’t forget my past, but I do not live in it. I really try to leave it behind me and step forward. The “receipts” how I do that is: changed bad “picture” from past with happy moments which I had.

Now, when I remember my past I do it with smile.


Brilliant answer..... take the good from the past!!!!hug
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Sep 26, 2008 11:19 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Women, "always" ask about a mans past...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Sep 26, 2008 11:20 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
"We do not regret the past, nor wish to shut the door on it." grin
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Sep 26, 2008 11:21 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
Great question Stu.

I had a real problem of letting go of the past. I am just learning how to move forward and live for today.

It is very hard to let go of something you already know...there is comfort from our past even if it is painful. That sounds odd, but facing an unknown future is very daunting.
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Sep 26, 2008 11:21 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
svetlana38
svetlana38svetlana38somewhere, California USA8 Threads 103 Posts
stooie1971: Brilliant answer..... take the good from the past!!!!


blushing wave angel
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Sep 26, 2008 11:26 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
svetlana38
svetlana38svetlana38somewhere, California USA8 Threads 103 Posts
HJFinAZ: "We do not regret the past, nor wish to shut the door on it."


If you do not shut that door, your present will become a past.
Than you will feel sorry because you miss days which could be the greatest day in your life.

wink
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Sep 26, 2008 11:27 AM CST The Past.... can you ever forget it... do you still live in the past
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
mbcasey: Great question Stu.

I had a real problem of letting go of the past. I am just learning how to move forward and live for today.

It is very hard to let go of something you already know...there is comfort from our past even if it is painful. That sounds odd, but facing an unknown future is very daunting.


Who's this posting on here............. thought it was MB!!!..... looks like some geezer from a Catalogue!!!

I know... I have left a relationship and two children.... my son Oliver was 5 yesterday balloons cake party

I will cherish the good times and put the bad times behind me... even though I will never forget them

cheers
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