Marriage - your views (16)

Sep 27, 2008 9:27 PM CST Marriage - your views
cazzywazzy
cazzywazzycazzywazzyAlloa, Central, Scotland UK2 Threads 21 Posts
I've never been been married but I did read somewhere that alot of marriages fail because men get married thinking things will stay the same and women get married thinking it will change. this makes sense to me but I was wondering what others thought.
Sep 28, 2008 1:10 AM CST Marriage - your views
lisalee1960
lisalee1960lisalee1960st pauls, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 222 Posts
i wouldnt do it again,but mine was a different set of circumstances to the man above me
Sep 28, 2008 6:01 AM CST Marriage - your views
tinaferrara
tinaferraratinaferraraedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK13 Threads 210 Posts
tried it once and didnt like it
Sep 28, 2008 7:13 AM CST Marriage - your views
mike1937
mike1937mike1937Broadstairs, Kent, England UK11 Threads 554 Posts
lisalee1960: i wouldnt do it again,but mine was a different set of circumstances to the man above me


I respect yours and othe peoples views as I hopefully implied in the last part of my contribution.

BUT - Was it so bad that I do not deserve the normal courtesy of a name ?

wine

Mike Dennis
Broadstairs
Kent UK
Sep 28, 2008 11:46 AM CST Marriage - your views
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
cazzywazzy: I've never been been married but I did read somewhere that alot of marriages fail because men get married thinking things will stay the same and women get married thinking it will change. this makes sense to me but I was wondering what others thought.
<--Never been married professor

<--Never had the slightest bit of interest in marriage professor

<--No plans to get married in the future professor

<--Confirmed Spinster rollers
Sep 28, 2008 12:49 PM CST Marriage - your views
Beenabout
BeenaboutBeenaboutPreston, Lancashire, England UK5 Threads 117 Posts
Agree with Mike-Marriage is a very serious business-it DEMANDS total Commitment and Sacrifice by both parties-If you're not sure or got prefixed ideas-DON'T GO THERE-because the Reality will shatter any fantasy!.
Sep 30, 2008 11:14 AM CST Marriage - your views
lisalee1960
lisalee1960lisalee1960st pauls, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 222 Posts
i will go to bed without supper, didnt know that saying,the man above me,was offensive,slap my wrists mike broadstairs
Sep 30, 2008 3:20 PM CST Marriage - your views
mike1937
mike1937mike1937Broadstairs, Kent, England UK11 Threads 554 Posts
lisalee1960: i will go to bed without supper, didnt know that saying,the man above me,was offensive,slap my wrists mike broadstairs


I would volunteer to be *on top* of or talk to a woman whose face is hidden grin
Oct 1, 2008 12:15 AM CST Marriage - your views
Angel_Diva
Angel_DivaAngel_Divawales, South Glamorgan, Wales UK62 Threads 2 Polls 901 Posts
Mike,

well said that man....see the "old" ( if i may be so bold to say) values are the best ones. I feel that too many babies having babies group think of marriage as in "what can they gain" from it or play at it. Like its a game. certainly isnt and yes im divorced, 25 years ago, had 2 rellies in that time neither worked out but would i do it again...damm right BUT and a very BIG BUT

they would have to prove to me they want what id like and visa verce ,,,no man/woman has the rite to change a person so if u want to change that some one speical in ur life u certainly have the wrong person to think about marrying. Simple really.

i wont change myself nor my family for anyone who is shallow enough to want me too. I dont suffer fools gladly trust me on that one.

So yes marriage is for me but by jolly they better stay faithful !!!!
Oct 1, 2008 12:41 AM CST Marriage - your views
mike1937
mike1937mike1937Broadstairs, Kent, England UK11 Threads 554 Posts
Angel_Diva: Mike, well said that man....see the "old" ( if i may be so bold to say) values are the best ones. I feel that too i wont change myself nor my family for anyone who is shallow enough to want me too. I dont suffer fools gladly trust me on that one. -- So yes marriage is for me but by jolly they better stay faithful !!!!


AaW - Gee - Thanks - There's lovely U are, isn't it - lips wine

Having worked for a few in my time I got used to Diva's in my part time profession and they were not suffered by others or this *fool* gladly when they threw dummies out of the pram - Ant that's just blokes devil

Butt A - Cattain Bertorrelli - He taka de looka ata your profilea ana mugshotsa - You Beeuutifulla Laideee thassa for sure wink
So reada mina baby anna U seea I only wanna one Laidee too.

Itza damna shaama we connecta butta you no wanna de olderbods who have enuffa backing to treata U witha lotsa Lova, plenty kissses n cuddles anna meen it, specially after de dinners ana de wine wine wine wine wine wine lips

Unlessa you messages a me a ina de private ann a we chat teddybear wave
grin
cheers

Mike angel @ Broadstairs
Oct 1, 2008 4:14 AM CST Marriage - your views
lisalee1960
lisalee1960lisalee1960st pauls, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 222 Posts
i dont really understand your comment,mike,you mention me not having the courtesy to use your name,i dont see you having the courtest to use my name???
Oct 1, 2008 4:15 AM CST Marriage - your views
lisalee1960
lisalee1960lisalee1960st pauls, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 222 Posts
courtesy,cant type
Oct 1, 2008 6:16 AM CST Marriage - your views
tinaferrara
tinaferraratinaferraraedinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK13 Threads 210 Posts
think mike is saying you havent put up a pic,neither have i, as im just here for the forums and no longer looking for a date, as i have found my better half,so dont need to advertise.pic or not you havent been rude and are entitled to your opinionthumbs up
Oct 1, 2008 7:15 AM CST Marriage - your views
Seabiscuit
SeabiscuitSeabiscuitPlymouth, Devon, England UK60 Threads 1,644 Posts
I'm not sure on the whole marriage situation to be honest.. Don't know whether it's really needed anymore. But in saying that I WANT to get married one day..
Oct 1, 2008 10:12 AM CST Marriage - your views
lisalee1960
lisalee1960lisalee1960st pauls, Majjistral Malta9 Threads 222 Posts
apology acceptedthumbs up i look at things like this mike, when you give it out you have to take it too!
Oct 1, 2008 11:29 AM CST Marriage - your views
romy999
romy999romy999london, Greater London, England UK1 Threads 98 Posts
i have been married and also lived together, if you are married the law is on your side and you are treated more fairly by society!cheering
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