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Sep 30, 2008 6:37 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
hollandgirl
hollandgirlhollandgirlSomewhere in Canada. B.C., British Columbia Canada711 Threads 6,072 Posts
I am short ahum petite, sounds already nicer does it not?
The guy that is after me great guns is; 5/3
I wish he would be at least 5/6 or 5/8.

So far I don't know a lot about him but that he thinks
I am the cats meow.
To me this show's he is at least smart because I am!
question? does the fact that his hight or lack of it, make me shallow?
because I wished he was a few inches taller?



dunno dunno dunno
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Sep 30, 2008 6:43 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria164 Threads 4 Polls 19,249 Posts
hollandgirl: I am short ahum petite, sounds already nicer does it not?
The guy that is after me great guns is; 5/3
I wish he would be at least 5/6 or 5/8.

So far I don't know a lot about him but that he thinks
I am the cats meow.
To me this show's he is at least smart because I am!
question? does the fact that his hight or lack of it, make me shallow?
because I wished he was a few inches taller?



No, it does not make you shallow at all...

Truth of the matter is Jenny, he is that height and there is not much you can do about it...
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Sep 30, 2008 6:44 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
spiceygamble
spiceygamblespiceygambleNola, Louisiana USA40 Threads 3 Polls 5,583 Posts
As humans, we are entitled to be attracted to whatever pleases us.
If a shorter man really bothers you, then it might linger as an issue. Who knows, he may have Napoleonic issues. If his person is less important than his personality, see how he fairs. He could be quite a darling.
(Personally, I am 5'2 & no man feels attractive unless he's at least a few over me. It's just how I perceive masculine elements & attractiveness)

To each their own.
wink
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Sep 30, 2008 6:55 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
BarrenPneuma
BarrenPneumaBarrenPneumaGolden Staircase, Ontario Canada121 Threads 4 Polls 2,496 Posts
spiceygamble: As humans, we are entitled to be attracted to whatever pleases us.
If a shorter man really bothers you, then it might linger as an issue. Who knows, he may have Napoleonic issues. If his person is less important than his personality, see how he fairs. He could be quite a darling.
(Personally, I am 5'2 & no man feels attractive unless he's at least a few over me. It's just how I perceive masculine elements & attractiveness)

To each their own.


Maybe if you stopped kicking their little asses young lady they might not be afeared of you so much. Damn I am 6 foot 3 and I am at times terrified of you. Even though you are such a sweetheart and such a wonderful friend.tongue innocent
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Sep 30, 2008 7:28 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada81 Threads 21,310 Posts
BarrenPneuma: Maybe if you stopped kicking their little asses young lady they might not be afeared of you so much. Damn I am 6 foot 3 and I am at times terrified of you. Even though you are such a sweetheart and such a wonderful friend.


Hey hun

That is what Eric says to me..

He fears me...

I am only 5ft2..but he says i scare him to death..

Go figuredunno confused
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Sep 30, 2008 7:30 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
BarrenPneuma
BarrenPneumaBarrenPneumaGolden Staircase, Ontario Canada121 Threads 4 Polls 2,496 Posts
kissmedeeply: Hey hun

That is what Eric says to me..

He fears me...

I am only 5ft2..but he says i scare him to death..

Go figure


It is so often the little ones and the quiet ones we should most often fear. But just to spice it up you just never know who has their shit kickers on and when.
A cute smiling face has the advantage of getting cose enough to make it count.

hug
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Sep 30, 2008 7:31 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada81 Threads 21,310 Posts
BarrenPneuma: It is so often the little ones and the quiet ones we should most often fear. But just to spice it up you just never know who has their shit kickers on and when.
A cute smiling face has the advantage of getting cose enough to make it count.


I have a cute smilegrin
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Sep 30, 2008 7:36 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada818 Threads 5 Polls 8,426 Posts
I had this very experience right here on CS a couple of years ago....we both had read each other's profile saw what the other was looking for and decided we were not it (he was 5'4" my profile said 5'9" and taller, his profile said slim/slender and i am very proud to say that i am neither!! I am very curvy!)...

Anyhow, we were introduced by another member who used to follow my posts here on the forums, thought our PERSONALITIES would match and hooked us up....

We were together for a year, one of the best years of my life...and to this day he is still one of the greatest loves of my life...other circumstances caused us to go our separate ways, but height was NOT one of them.....
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Sep 30, 2008 7:36 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
how big is his heart? How big is his soul? Once you learn this, maybe his stature won't count!!
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Sep 30, 2008 7:36 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaIbiza, Balearic Islands Spain133 Threads 6 Polls 7,679 Posts
kissmedeeply: Hey hun

That is what Eric says to me..

He fears me...

I am only 5ft2..but he says i scare him to death..

Go figure



laugh laugh I´m only 5´3" and used to own a bar filled with Irish contractors, construction workers, pipefitters.... and they all claimed to be terrified of me... what is it about us short gals that inspires such fear???laugh laugh
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Sep 30, 2008 7:38 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada81 Threads 21,310 Posts
jbibiza: I´m only 5´3" and used to own a bar filled with Irish contractors, construction workers, pipefitters.... and they all claimed to be terrified of me... what is it about us short gals that inspires such fear???


It must be where we can kicked or reachgrin

Morning sweetiehug
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Sep 30, 2008 7:50 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaIbiza, Balearic Islands Spain133 Threads 6 Polls 7,679 Posts
kissmedeeply: It must be where we can kicked or reach

Morning sweetie


laugh you could be right... You must be getting soooooo excited! I am so happy for you, you guys really sound like you´ve found happiness and fulfilment in one another.
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Sep 30, 2008 7:51 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada81 Threads 21,310 Posts
jbibiza: you could be right... You must be getting soooooo excited! I am so happy for you, you guys really sound like you´ve found happiness and fulfilment in one another.


Thank you...

He is a great guy..

hug
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Sep 30, 2008 8:03 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA61 Threads 5 Polls 6,345 Posts
kissmedeeply: Hey hun

That is what Eric says to me..

He fears me...

I am only 5ft2..but he says i scare him to death..

Go figure



Probably he knows your aim is true when you get riledlaugh hole giggle
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Sep 30, 2008 8:06 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA61 Threads 5 Polls 6,345 Posts
I once went out with a nurse and he was the same height as I was, I only felt awkward when he seemed uncomfortable about it, and you could tell. To me? it is not how tall they are it is how they carry themselves, besides who says short men can't be fun? or masculine? they put their britches on the same way weather they are short or tall, it is all in the eye of the beholder,,,and I mean that. No you are not being shallow you have preferences and that is your right, but if you are not interested in him other than friendship because of this then I would let him know, that way he won't go on thinking there may be more at a later date,,,good luckwave
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Sep 30, 2008 8:12 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada81 Threads 21,310 Posts
irishlass45: Probably he knows your aim is true when you get riled


Morning sweetielaugh
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Sep 30, 2008 8:14 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
constanza
constanzaconstanzaLA, California USA30 Threads 1 Polls 6,489 Posts
It's your life, your taste, your prerogative...no explanations, certainly no apologies... wink
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Sep 30, 2008 8:23 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
irishlass45
irishlass45irishlass45Texas USA, Texas USA61 Threads 5 Polls 6,345 Posts
kissmedeeply: Morning sweetie



Good Morning Lady Jo, I say from my hiding holehole laugh
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Sep 30, 2008 8:32 AM CST Am I shallow?.......
If your not comfortable,he may pick up on it.Then you may be missing out on a great guy.It's your choice as your the 1 who must enjoy herself or not.Another can't tell you what to do.Just the fact that your asking others says something.
Good morning allwave
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Sep 30, 2008 1:37 PM CST Am I shallow?.......
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada81 Threads 21,310 Posts
irishlass45: Good Morning Lady Jo, I say from my hiding hole


Ohhh girlfriend..you dont have to hide from me...roll eyes
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