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Oct 1, 2008 3:20 PM CST Who was your first love?
cmdrgoofy
cmdrgoofycmdrgoofyGrasonville, Maryland USA3 Threads 19 Posts
Mine was an immigrant from Kenya who was in the U.S. studying nursing. Shortly after we met, she was offered a scholarship to a school in Texas and moved there. We kept in touch and later decided to take a trip together. We fell in love on that trip and decided to try a long distance relationship until she finished school and moved back to Maryland. Sadly, the relationship ended less than six months later when she realized that she had made a life for herself in Texas and decided to stay there. Gosh I miss her.
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Oct 1, 2008 3:25 PM CST Who was your first love?
Ray33
Ray33Ray33Paramaribo, Suriname11 Threads 165 Posts
I Guess my first love was my milk bottle...head banger

Have you ever tried mailing her afterwards orso?? Just to see how things are with her? I would of (doesnt mean you are looking for more that that oke)
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Oct 1, 2008 3:26 PM CST Who was your first love?
kamelia
kameliakameliaNegotino, Macedonia16 Threads 2 Polls 704 Posts
cmdrgoofy: Mine was an immigrant from Kenya who was in the U.S. studying nursing. Shortly after we met, she was offered a scholarship to a school in Texas and moved there. We kept in touch and later decided to take a trip together. We fell in love on that trip and decided to try a long distance relationship until she finished school and moved back to Maryland. Sadly, the relationship ended less than six months later when she realized that she had made a life for herself in Texas and decided to stay there. Gosh I miss her.


My first love was a long distance relationship too..we met when I was studying in the US..we ended the relationship too but never ended the friendship.

I am not sorry though..it was just not meant to be and I keep my good memories with me wave
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Oct 1, 2008 3:37 PM CST Who was your first love?
cardsfan24
cardsfan24cardsfan24somewhere in paradise, Illinois USA46 Threads 1 Polls 6,704 Posts
My first love was a beautiful gal in high school, former model too..bonus for me...

She and I were completly inseperable, i learned how to love also the pains of love...When i went to basic training i came back to learn she cheated on me...

It broke me and my heart into pieces...we tried again but i couldnt let myself love her the way i should...so i drank and drank....and drank...

Now, she is married, but the last time i seen her, I was at the bar, and she gave me a huge hug, wanting to really sit down and talk with me, but i couldnt it hurt pretty bad the way we ended....

So the moral of my story is, what doesn't kill ya makes ya stronger. Now, im happy for her and her husband and wish them the best. And learned that the fairy tale i cooked up in my head is just that a figmen of my imagination...
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Oct 1, 2008 3:44 PM CST Who was your first love?
mlj1225
mlj1225mlj1225Moreno Valley, California USA41 Posts
I am proud of you! Healthy of you to be happy for them.....heartbreak is hard, but we learn from it too. It just wasnt meant to be for you and her but you will find who you are looking for.....

Good luck and I appreciate you opening up like that. Its not always easy...

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Oct 1, 2008 3:45 PM CST Who was your first love?
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA344 Threads 5 Polls 11,456 Posts
Mine was during the summer between 10th & 11th grade. We went together for a few months & mutually decided to break up, just before school started back up. I went to the shore (beach) with his family that summer & we had a great time.

We got back together a few times after I graduated. In fact, I was "seeing" him while he was stationed in California in the Navy. He'd write me all the time. Unfortunately, I met my (now) ex-husband while he was out there. When he came home, he wanted to get together at my place & have a few beers. Stupid me... I invited my (now) ex too. That was the end of that.

I ended up getting married, of course, to the wrong guy. When I saw his engagement in the paper, I knew I'd made a huge mistake. Then, my ex & I were walking the dog one day & walked past the church, just as my first love & his new bride were coming out. I left my ex shortly after that. No use in delaying the inevitable.

My first love is now married with 4 kids. I saw him & his brood last summer. He hasn't changed too much, but he doesn't keep himself the way he used to.
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Oct 1, 2008 3:45 PM CST Who was your first love?
kamelia
kameliakameliaNegotino, Macedonia16 Threads 2 Polls 704 Posts
mlj1225: I am proud of you! Healthy of you to be happy for them.....heartbreak is hard, but we learn from it too. It just wasnt meant to be for you and her but you will find who you are looking for.....

Good luck and I appreciate you opening up like that. Its not always easy...


Oh come on..don't just stop by grin share banana
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Oct 1, 2008 3:48 PM CST Who was your first love?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA31 Threads 1 Polls 1,674 Posts
Too long of a story. His name was Dylan and it had all the makings of a country song. laugh With his record, he's probably serving 18 to life now.
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Oct 1, 2008 3:59 PM CST Who was your first love?
mlj1225
mlj1225mlj1225Moreno Valley, California USA41 Posts
You are right....OK, 1st love....

High school - He was a football and baseball player and gorgeous! I was so happy that he asked me to be his girl. ISSUE: He had a girlfriend the previous year who had moved away and they had broken up. She would call him every once in a while to cry and tell him that that she was miserable without him, etc. and that would make him feel bad. Eventually I was forced to realize that he was torn and so decided that it would be best to end it so he could get his head together. I know...so much drama in high school, right? He eventually realized that he had made a mistake but I was able to see him just as a friend after the HORROR of the heartbreak went away....

He played a very pivotal role for me at that time. I was diagnosed with Scoliosis (curvature of the spine) and had to wear a back brace for a year. It was a pretty bad experience AND I had to go through it in high school of all things, but he still cared for me and didnt get freaked at all. That made me feel OK about it and I held my head up high. SO, the break up was pretty hard to deal with. But we remained friends.

To this day, I do still think about him every now and then.
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Oct 1, 2008 4:04 PM CST Who was your first love?
BarrenPneuma
BarrenPneumaBarrenPneumaGolden Staircase, Ontario Canada121 Threads 4 Polls 2,496 Posts
Any Love I have ever shared was eclipsed and made a pale shadow by the only woman who has completely captured my heart and soul. She is everything I could ever have dreamed, to the point that I often wondered if she was even real. Of course I know now that she is more than real and the best blessing my life has ever had. So perfect in fact that just her friendship is more than I have ever have had from any other woman in my life. She will always be the transcendence of Love in my eyes no matter what the future brings.smitten angel
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Oct 1, 2008 5:15 PM CST Who was your first love?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland31 Threads 2 Polls 17,895 Posts
cmdrgoofy: Mine was an immigrant from Kenya who was in the U.S. studying nursing. Shortly after we met, she was offered a scholarship to a school in Texas and moved there. We kept in touch and later decided to take a trip together. We fell in love on that trip and decided to try a long distance relationship until she finished school and moved back to Maryland. Sadly, the relationship ended less than six months later when she realized that she had made a life for herself in Texas and decided to stay there. Gosh I miss her.


My first love was Kenyan too, just like me. laugh


I don't want to talk about him. snooty
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Oct 1, 2008 5:29 PM CST Who was your first love?
My first love was with a redhead (Cindy) when I was 12 years old. She went to all my little league baseball games, we hung out a lot, and did a lot of french kissing and making out.

She was 14 and wanted to speed some things up. I could not hang, I was too embarrassed to do more cause I had not hit puberty yet...so me having no pube hair was pretty embarrassinglaugh So she left me for some 17 year old...oh well...
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Oct 1, 2008 5:40 PM CST Who was your first love?
5tuna
5tuna5tunasouth portland, Maine USA16 Threads 1 Polls 195 Posts
daisy duke ! i love her cut of jeans !love
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Oct 1, 2008 5:42 PM CST Who was your first love?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
I was 14...he was 17...an older man...and yep my guess is he's likely doing time in the big house too...those were my bad boy days!!!!!!!!!


smitten love uh oh grin
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Oct 1, 2008 5:43 PM CST Who was your first love?
bigdaddy007
bigdaddy007bigdaddy007small town, South Dakota USA11 Threads 325 Posts
cardsfan24: My first love was a beautiful gal in high school, former model too..bonus for me...

She and I were completly inseperable, i learned how to love also the pains of love...When i went to basic training i came back to learn she cheated on me...

It broke me and my heart into pieces...we tried again but i couldnt let myself love her the way i should...so i drank and drank....and drank...

Now, she is married, but the last time i seen her, I was at the bar, and she gave me a huge hug, wanting to really sit down and talk with me, but i couldnt it hurt pretty bad the way we ended....

So the moral of my story is, what doesn't kill ya makes ya stronger. Now, im happy for her and her husband and wish them the best. And learned that the fairy tale i cooked up in my head is just that a figmen of my imagination...


I hear you loud and clear brother. If i change just a few words in your post i could call it my own. Good moral of the story i might add....cheers handshake
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Oct 1, 2008 5:49 PM CST Who was your first love?
5tuna
5tuna5tunasouth portland, Maine USA16 Threads 1 Polls 195 Posts
cardsfan24: My first love was a beautiful gal in high school, former model too..bonus for me...

She and I were completly inseperable, i learned how to love also the pains of love...When i went to basic training i came back to learn she cheated on me...

It broke me and my heart into pieces...we tried again but i couldnt let myself love her the way i should...so i drank and drank....and drank...

Now, she is married, but the last time i seen her, I was at the bar, and she gave me a huge hug, wanting to really sit down and talk with me, but i couldnt it hurt pretty bad the way we ended....

So the moral of my story is, what doesn't kill ya makes ya stronger. Now, im happy for her and her husband and wish them the best. And learned that the fairy tale i cooked up in my head is just that a figmen of my imagination...
drinking its unbelievable how much i drank after me and my first love split ! its amazing what the power of the va*ina's can do to a man !drinking
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Oct 1, 2008 5:51 PM CST Who was your first love?
cmdrgoofy
cmdrgoofycmdrgoofyGrasonville, Maryland USA3 Threads 19 Posts
Ray33: I Guess my first love was my milk bottle...

Have you ever tried mailing her afterwards orso?? Just to see how things are with her? I would of (doesnt mean you are looking for more that that oke)


Yeah, we stayed good freinds and have been in touch since.
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Oct 1, 2008 5:53 PM CST Who was your first love?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
My first real love, who still has a special place in my heart, was a man I met in the Army, at the Defense Language Institute in Monterey, CA. I was 18, he was 22...3 yrs and 364 days older than me (rolling on the floor laughing ). Leo w/Aquarius ascendant which really screwed him up since they're polar opposites, and it showed in his personality. But, dang, we had a blast! Later, we met up again at Ft Wuachuca, AZ...and then I didn't see him again for many years. Four years later he called me from England, found me after I moved from NH to PA, so somehow he accessed my military records (this is long before internet)...and he visited me for a weekend, then I travelled to Buffalo to visit him. That was the last I ever saw of him. He invited me to move there with him as a friend & roommate because he didn't want a committed relationship. I told him I couldn't do that without a committment.

I would love to see him again, just to see how he's doing...and if the sex can still be mind-blowing between us. devil rolling on the floor laughing Seriously, I'd just love to find him to know if he's still alive.
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Oct 1, 2008 5:57 PM CST Who was your first love?
cmdrgoofy
cmdrgoofycmdrgoofyGrasonville, Maryland USA3 Threads 19 Posts
kamelia: My first love was a long distance relationship too..we met when I was studying in the US..we ended the relationship too but never ended the friendship.

I am not sorry though..it was just not meant to be and I keep my good memories with me


We kept the freindship too. In the three months since we broke up (yes my story was that recent) we've been writing to each other once or twice a week, just not everyday like before. And we don't take trips to see each other anymore.

It wasn't meant to be for us either, but I think I need to find my second love before I can say I'm not sorry it ended.
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Oct 1, 2008 6:40 PM CST Who was your first love?
omurchu2
omurchu2omurchu2Dundalk, Louth Ireland5 Threads 205 Posts
Suzi quatro......corrrrrr then .......blondie then kim wilde (kids in america).....heart wings heart wings
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