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Oct 6, 2008 3:22 PM CST hi, I need some advice
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA132 Threads 34 Polls 603 Posts
There's this girl I like. Her name is Jessica. She's in my lyric writing class. I think she is really cute but I want to get to know her better. I don't know how to approach her. Any helpful tips? thanks.hug
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Oct 6, 2008 3:25 PM CST hi, I need some advice
tipaly81
tipaly81tipaly81Moscow, Idaho USA71 Threads 15 Polls 1,334 Posts
RadioheadFan123: There's this girl I like. Her name is Jessica. She's in my lyric writing class. I think she is really cute but I want to get to know her better. I don't know how to approach her. Any helpful tips? thanks.


What works bestconfused ? Just start up a conversation. Even if others join in, just look and be interested in what she is saying. Ask questions. dunno That's it. Good luck!wave
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Oct 6, 2008 3:30 PM CST hi, I need some advice
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA132 Threads 34 Polls 603 Posts
Thanks. The problem is that I can't carry on a conversation long. I might have a lot of ideas of what to talk about but then somehow I tend to forget them.
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Oct 6, 2008 3:31 PM CST hi, I need some advice
Olsojente
OlsojenteOlsojenteOslo/Zadar, Oslo Norway68 Threads 5 Polls 6,857 Posts
RadioheadFan123: There's this girl I like. Her name is Jessica. She's in my lyric writing class. I think she is really cute but I want to get to know her better. I don't know how to approach her. Any helpful tips? thanks.



Lyric writing class?? Would that be poems??


If yes, write her one... dunno
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Oct 6, 2008 3:38 PM CST hi, I need some advice
tipaly81
tipaly81tipaly81Moscow, Idaho USA71 Threads 15 Polls 1,334 Posts
RadioheadFan123: Thanks. The problem is that I can't carry on a conversation long. I might have a lot of ideas of what to talk about but then somehow I tend to forget them.
confused You are both in a lyric writing class . . . talk about music, writing,poetry, sh!t lyrics. There! You have a topic.

Maybe my advice wont work because I can be a little too blunt to the point of being rude sometimes (a fault I am working on), but you will get to a point where you will burst if you don't say something, so you might as well start talking now. Even if the conversation seems superficial! Talk about anything. Colors, animals, books, words, flowers, paper, pencil vs. pen, hell anything . . . . maybe even hell.

That will give you a foot hold and a better way of aproaching her.
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Oct 6, 2008 3:55 PM CST hi, I need some advice
stevenmature
stevenmaturestevenmatureSomewhere in CA, California USA4 Threads 177 Posts
have a smile on your face and walk up to her and let her know you would love to take her out for coffee and discuss some of the lyrics in class. You gotta take a chance and be confident when you approach her.
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Oct 6, 2008 5:16 PM CST hi, I need some advice
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia77 Threads 1 Polls 26,530 Posts
I'd probably walk up and say 'I'm a bit toeieeee, fancy a nookie' dunno devil











P.S if you get a smack in the mouth don't blame me
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Oct 6, 2008 5:50 PM CST hi, I need some advice
roseofsharon
roseofsharonroseofsharonmanchester, Hampshire, England UK70 Threads 3 Polls 11,702 Posts
RadioheadFan123: There's this girl I like. Her name is Jessica. She's in my lyric writing class. I think she is really cute but I want to get to know her better. I don't know how to approach her. Any helpful tips? thanks.


Well, you both have something in common. Its a starting point. Ask her views on some of your lyrics?? As its something you both enjoy, you should be able to maintain the conversation for longer...??

Good luck!! handshake
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Oct 6, 2008 5:58 PM CST hi, I need some advice
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland13 Threads 8,222 Posts
RadioheadFan123: There's this girl I like. Her name is Jessica. She's in my lyric writing class. I think she is really cute but I want to get to know her better. I don't know how to approach her. Any helpful tips? thanks.

Aww I wish you luck !!
Why not just ask her to join you for a coffee , it would break the ice and you could get to know her as a friend !
Go on you know you want tohug
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Oct 6, 2008 6:01 PM CST hi, I need some advice
RadioheadFan123
RadioheadFan123RadioheadFan123Rochester, New York USA132 Threads 34 Polls 603 Posts
Thanks all of you. That was very helpful. hug cheers
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Oct 6, 2008 6:08 PM CST hi, I need some advice
omurchu2
omurchu2omurchu2Dundalk, Louth Ireland5 Threads 205 Posts
I could say be yourself but i dont know who you are.so how long have you both been in the same class??...are you in any other classes together??...how old is she and you???

But going on a generalisation .....Day 1


why not pretend to trip near her and bump into her gently.... hey it will get you noticed and modestly with a bit of laughter apologise.......


Day 2.......how to get her into bed in 5 moves


devil only kidding on the 2nd part ...keep us updated thumbs up
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Oct 6, 2008 6:35 PM CST hi, I need some advice
wantstrue
wantstruewantstrueeverett, Washington USA8 Threads 45 Posts
Speak from the heart what I mean by that is when you go up to talk to hear dont think about what you are going to say just talk to her like you would talk to anyone els. Dont worry about trying to impress her be yourself show confidence. If you speak from the heart thats were you will be able to let her see the you and you will be able to see the real her. So good luck hope this helpspeace
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Oct 6, 2008 6:38 PM CST hi, I need some advice
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia77 Threads 1 Polls 26,530 Posts
omurchu2: I could say be yourself but i dont know who you are.so how long have you both been in the same class??...are you in any other classes together??...how old is she and you???

But going on a generalisation .....Day 1why not pretend to trip near her and bump into her gently.... hey it will get you noticed and modestly with a bit of laughter apologise.......Day 2.......how to get her into bed in 5 moves only kidding on the 2nd part ...keep us updated
WoW that's original yawn roll eyes
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Oct 6, 2008 7:55 PM CST hi, I need some advice
dillinger
dillingerdillingersexxay town, Fife, Scotland UK31 Threads 970 Posts
I was at a function the other evening and as luck would have it I found myself seated next to the lovely pruscilla and her swishy mane of impudent, fiery red hair.
anyhoo, after watching her daintily maul her way through a leg of venison I realised that the conversation had begun to flag. I began to worry that perhaps the lovely pruscilla would become bored after she'd finished devouring the cake tray and would be lost to me forever, but, do you know what saved the evening from disaster? why, nothing more than a simple bag of glue!
you see, it was while she was wrestling a crate of after 8 mints away from the waiters that I took the opportunity to pull out a little bag and it was while I was inhaling deeply over the glazed cherrys that I caught her staring at me. well, not wishing to appear rude I offered her the bag which she inhaled with some gusto and you know even though she ended up passing out over the fondants with drool on her christian dior blouse and gravy pooling round her manolos, I have never found a woman more attractive. as the effects of the glue took hold of me and I slumped under the table I had time to thank the gods for that modern day marvel, the little bag of glue.
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Oct 6, 2008 9:30 PM CST hi, I need some advice
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta34 Threads 6 Polls 1,618 Posts
Ask her questions related to the class => to what she likes, prefers, is interested in, etc.....
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Oct 6, 2008 9:49 PM CST hi, I need some advice
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA173 Threads 11,394 Posts
RadioheadFan123: There's this girl I like. Her name is Jessica. She's in my lyric writing class. I think she is really cute but I want to get to know her better. I don't know how to approach her. Any helpful tips? thanks.


The best way to do it, at least for me is to just go up to her and say what you feel, she will either be interested, or she won't, just be prepaired for whatever happens.. you will never know until you try..
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Oct 6, 2008 9:59 PM CST hi, I need some advice
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta34 Threads 6 Polls 1,618 Posts
Daniel4021: The best way to do it, at least for me is to just go up to her and say what you feel, she will either be interested, or she won't, just be prepaired for whatever happens..


That would be way too much drama for my taste, LOL... I can just picture that - "you're really cute and I'd like to get to know you better".... rolling on the floor laughing What do you even reply to such a statement? laugh And why not proceed directly to the business (of getting to know her better) by asking something of interest....

But, I'm sure it would work for other women. I just don't have the necessary amount of self-confidence, but am helpful enough to answer the guy's questions.
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Oct 6, 2008 10:04 PM CST hi, I need some advice
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA173 Threads 11,394 Posts
AudrysSis: That would be way too much drama for my taste, LOL... I can just picture that - "you're really cute and I'd like to get to know you better".... What do you even reply to such a statement? And why not proceed directly to the business (of getting to know her better) by asking something of interest....

But, I'm sure it would work for other women. I just don't have the necessary amount of self-confidence, but am helpful enough to answer the guy's questions.


There would be no drama really, nothing wrong with saying something like, hey my name is.. been kind of noticing you, you seem to be a nice person.. would you like to share some poems or something?.. I have a few that I would like your opinion on, would you mind taking a look at them?... What's so bad about that?
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Oct 6, 2008 10:09 PM CST hi, I need some advice
Weimarlady
WeimarladyWeimarladySouth, Xlokk Malta34 Threads 6 Polls 1,618 Posts
Ahh, worded this way, it does sound a bit better. LOL
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Oct 6, 2008 10:34 PM CST hi, I need some advice
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA173 Threads 11,394 Posts
AudrysSis: Ahh, worded this way, it does sound a bit better. LOL


Hey, I do try to be tactful, but still if we don't take chances, we will never know.. you only live once, no sense it letting it pass you by, the older we get the less time we have to live.. that is if we live to see tomorrow, might as well do what we can before out time comes..jmo
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