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Oct 9, 2008 10:12 PM CST What are men looking for?
GreenEyedBlonde1
GreenEyedBlonde1GreenEyedBlonde1La Mirada, California USA1 Threads 23 Posts
Why is it when you meet a guy for lunch or what-ever he expects you to be slim, young, and like a model, but, they end up being, real short, hugh stomach and balding. What is wrong with these guys? We older women can't look like we did when we were in our 20's. Why do these guys lie about what they look like but yet they are searching for a young honey. Go figure!! I think they are truly living in a total fantasy world.doh I'm going to be 62 in a couple of weeks and my friends say I look maybe 50.........excuse me are we chopped liver??? Let's hear from all of you older ladies, what are your views on this?
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Oct 9, 2008 10:31 PM CST What are men looking for?
CHIP398
CHIP398CHIP398Huntley, Illinois USA21 Threads 27 Posts
You look pretty nice to me .From what Iv'e seen on these posts and from the ladies profiles most men want hotties.These men who tell about who their not don't want to lose out on something .I do tell the truth and I think because of that I'm mostly ignored.I'm not saying all men tell an untruth but those that do are giving all us honest guys a bad rep.Most people may not agree with me but isn't a big part of maybe finding that right person is by being honest .Ido put all of it in my profile perhaps you'll check it out and tell me if you like it .Have a good week Like everyone here says it takes time to find the right soulmate .When it does happen you'll know .It may be when you least expect it.It will happen .Chip398
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Oct 9, 2008 10:41 PM CST What are men looking for?
loves2steppin
loves2steppinloves2steppinConcord, New Hampshire USA20 Threads 1,729 Posts
GreenEyedBlonde1: Why is it when you meet a guy for lunch or what-ever he expects you to be slim, young, and like a model, but, they end up being, real short, hugh stomach and balding. What is wrong with these guys? We older women can't look like we did when we were in our 20's. Why do these guys lie about what they look like but yet they are searching for a young honey. Go figure!! I think they are truly living in a total fantasy world. I'm going to be 62 in a couple of weeks and my friends say I look maybe 50.........excuse me are we chopped liver??? Let's hear from all of you older ladies, what are your views on this?


You look good for 62! Not being a man, I don't know their views and the way my luck with men is I am not going to comment........
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Oct 9, 2008 10:44 PM CST What are men looking for?
cherokeemoon2
cherokeemoon2cherokeemoon2grove, Oklahoma USA15 Threads 545 Posts
GreenEyedBlonde1: Why is it when you meet a guy for lunch or what-ever he expects you to be slim, young, and like a model, but, they end up being, real short, hugh stomach and balding. What is wrong with these guys? We older women can't look like we did when we were in our 20's. Why do these guys lie about what they look like but yet they are searching for a young honey. Go figure!! I think they are truly living in a total fantasy world. I'm going to be 62 in a couple of weeks and my friends say I look maybe 50.........excuse me are we chopped liver??? Let's hear from all of you older ladies, what are your views on this?
Boy did u ever get it right.I am 67 and people think Iam much younger.I was engaged to a 53 yr old and broke it off in Aug,All he wanted was a financial partner.Hes already married LOL poor woman.But we cant seem to win for losing.Much older tan me arent interested,or arent breathing lol.I hate being alone and have so much to offer,but men cant seem to see that for the age.U indeed look much younger.I dont know what the answer is. thumbs up
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Oct 9, 2008 10:47 PM CST What are men looking for?
blackorchids4u
blackorchids4ublackorchids4uwyandotte, Michigan USA4 Threads 310 Posts
no siko beachsrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 9, 2008 10:49 PM CST What are men looking for?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
GreenEyedBlonde1: Why is it when you meet a guy for lunch or what-ever he expects you to be slim, young, and like a model, but, they end up being, real short, hugh stomach and balding. What is wrong with these guys? We older women can't look like we did when we were in our 20's. Why do these guys lie about what they look like but yet they are searching for a young honey. Go figure!! I think they are truly living in a total fantasy world. I'm going to be 62 in a couple of weeks and my friends say I look maybe 50.........excuse me are we chopped liver??? Let's hear from all of you older ladies, what are your views on this?

I dunno what it is, but I'm 28 and am constantly getting hit on by guys in their 40s/50s. No one my own age! doh
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Oct 9, 2008 10:51 PM CST What are men looking for?
cherokeemoon2
cherokeemoon2cherokeemoon2grove, Oklahoma USA15 Threads 545 Posts
lanabyte: I dunno what it is, but I'm 28 and am constantly getting hit on by guys in their 40s/50s. No one my own age!
Well I know that feeling in reverse.20 yr olds with a granny fanasy laugh
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Oct 9, 2008 10:56 PM CST What are men looking for?
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
cherokeemoon2: Well I know that feeling in reverse.20 yr olds with a granny fanasy

Men are weird. Will we ever understand them? dunno
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Oct 9, 2008 11:03 PM CST What are men looking for?
cherokeemoon2
cherokeemoon2cherokeemoon2grove, Oklahoma USA15 Threads 545 Posts
lanabyte: Men are weird. Will we ever understand them?
I seriously doubt it. wave handshake
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Oct 9, 2008 11:09 PM CST What are men looking for?
rasgumby
rasgumbyrasgumbyMoberly, Missouri USA99 Threads 10 Polls 4,665 Posts
Thank God most men want something different..
Otherwise we would all be chasing the same woman.

Don't know if she would be the happiest or most miserable woman in the world????rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 10, 2008 3:25 AM CST What are men looking for?
Karma3
Karma3Karma3Somewhere, Tamil Nadu India84 Threads 588 Posts
lanabyte: I dunno what it is, but I'm 28 and am constantly getting hit on by guys in their 40s/50s. No one my own age!


Mid-life crisis??confused
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Oct 10, 2008 4:05 AM CST What are men looking for?
micheldeprince
micheldeprincemicheldeprinceliverpool, Cheshire, England UK260 Threads 829 Posts
love is admire....so let it be age and size......
come come come
clicks
princebouquet
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Oct 10, 2008 4:15 AM CST What are men looking for?
The_Kansan
The_KansanThe_KansanKnoxville, Tennessee USA303 Threads 1 Polls 3,395 Posts
Unfortunately, it works both ways. I've never even considered being anything but completely truthful - and thank God I've met the only woman for me (right here on CS!) - yet I met a woman for coffee (about 3 years ago) who had claimed to be "5'8", 135lbs., soft spoken and conservative" and in fact was 5'1", 240lbs., swore loudly and often and openly wished that John Hinckley had "finished the job" on President Reagan." (After 20 minutes I excused myself to go to the men's room and escaped through a side door.)

Who's to bless and who's to blame? dunno
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Oct 10, 2008 4:16 AM CST What are men looking for?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
GreenEyedBlonde1: Why is it when you meet a guy for lunch or what-ever he expects you to be slim, young, and like a model, but, they end up being, real short, hugh stomach and balding. What is wrong with these guys? We older women can't look like we did when we were in our 20's. Why do these guys lie about what they look like but yet they are searching for a young honey. Go figure!! I think they are truly living in a total fantasy world. I'm going to be 62 in a couple of weeks and my friends say I look maybe 50.........excuse me are we chopped liver??? Let's hear from all of you older ladies, what are your views on this?



I'l tell you what......guys are so critical of women.......and when you take a good look at them you ask yourself why do I bother.......they really dont see themselves....they are blinded to all their physical and mental faults......conversing
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Oct 10, 2008 4:24 AM CST What are men looking for?
The_Kansan
The_KansanThe_KansanKnoxville, Tennessee USA303 Threads 1 Polls 3,395 Posts
stefonline: I'l tell you what......guys are so critical of women.......and when you take a good look at them you ask yourself why do I bother.......they really dont see themselves....they are blinded to all their physical and mental faults......



...Not all of us... handshake
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Oct 10, 2008 4:25 AM CST What are men looking for?
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
The_Kansan: Unfortunately, it works both ways. I've never even considered being anything but completely truthful - and thank God I've met the only woman for me (right here on CS!) - yet I met a woman for coffee (about 3 years ago) who had claimed to be "5'8", 135lbs., soft spoken and conservative" and in fact was 5'1", 240lbs., swore loudly and often and openly wished that John Hinckley had "finished the job" on President Reagan." (After 20 minutes I excused myself to go to the men's room and escaped through a side door.)

Who's to bless and who's to blame?



I think it is a matter of two people who meet and just click.

This is why I do not 'date' as such, I would become despondent at having to endure such things.

It will be a person who really blows my skirt up that I meet from here, wherever he lives.

So far that has not happened. Although, I have come across some wonderful people.... Just nobody who turns me on enough for me to want to go and meet them...
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Oct 10, 2008 4:28 AM CST What are men looking for?
DboySlim
DboySlimDboySlimstrovolos, Nicosia Cyprus1 Posts
I don't have much to contribute but I like your observation. Most men are self centered and think only from their own point of view. Even when he has a stomach like a toad, a head shining like a mirror and he is looking like he just wrestled with the Devil, his ideal date is still Paris Hilton. Maybe he has not look in the mirror for ages or what else can explain his ignorance as to how he really looks.
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Oct 10, 2008 4:32 AM CST What are men looking for?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
The_Kansan: ...Not all of us...



I know not you.....hug
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Oct 10, 2008 4:36 AM CST What are men looking for?
lostintherain
lostintherainlostintherainAuckland, New Zealand1 Threads 5 Posts
what are men looking for?
if they know what they are looking for, they won't be looking until now
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Oct 10, 2008 4:43 AM CST What are men looking for?
stefonline
stefonlinestefonlineDublin, Ireland136 Threads 9,702 Posts
lostintherain: what are men looking for?
if they know what they are looking for, they won't be looking until now



Are they blinded
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