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devlish_angel23hemet, California USA1 Threads 8 Postsi have a question.im a young mother my daughter isnt with me full-time but i am wondering do any of you believe in...............if its meant to be it will be??? i cant seem to understand why my heart is aching but im one with a past never been the party hardy type but like to have fun...but alone come on now thats no fun....whats with the meant to be thing i cant comprehend it help......lol[................the past i lived was quite the party thing im young but already ready to settle down damn life sucks alone doesnt it?
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devlish_angel23: damn life sucks alone doesnt it?
Actually, no it does not. My experience is, I could not live or love another until I learned to live with and love me..
At your age young lady, you have a big wonderful life ahead of you..
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I concur with Pat....
Don't worry about it. You are a lovely woman and it will happen for you.
Don't worry about it. You are a lovely woman and it will happen for you.
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Parenthood changes people. Even if you don't have your daughter full time, you've had her, and that changes your body chemistry, and thus your brain chemistry...emotions, goals, thoughts, they all tend to change after giving birth. Its a natural metabolic change that dates back to prehistoric times.
Women are built to nurture, and Mother Nature enforces her design...and they aren't built to nurture alone. Their subconscious senses something missing. Deny it all you want, its in our DNA.
Meant to be? Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes we just don't knw what those reasons are...
Hope this helps...
Women are built to nurture, and Mother Nature enforces her design...and they aren't built to nurture alone. Their subconscious senses something missing. Deny it all you want, its in our DNA.
Meant to be? Everything happens for a reason. Sometimes we just don't knw what those reasons are...
Hope this helps...
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I have the same problem, dont feel so alone..... there are others
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mbcasey is on all the forums,whats your deal man?????
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MB is known for his fast fingers
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Well not neccessarily i mean being single has it's ups and downs just like the party lifestyle. You can't tell me everytime you partied it was always on the up and up never a downer....if so then damn maybe i haven't partied enough.
Just keep on te forums hun, because a lot of good people are here..and a lot of friends to be made...you gotta crawl before walk
Just keep on te forums hun, because a lot of good people are here..and a lot of friends to be made...you gotta crawl before walk
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thsnk you but like i said young with a past i wont explain but i really need someone ya know life is nothing without someone to atleast talk to
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devlish_angel23: thsnk you but like i said young with a past i wont explain but i really need someone ya know life is nothing without someone to atleast talk to
We all have a past, so don't worry about it angel.
You are a young, beautiful woman who will soon be swamped with IMs, flowers, mails, etc. etc. Somewhere in that flood, hopefully, you will find someone to talk to. In the meantime, hang around the forums and enjoy.
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devlish_angel23: i have a question.im a young mother my daughter isnt with me full-time but i am wondering do any of you believe in...............if its meant to be it will be??? i cant seem to understand why my heart is aching but im one with a past never been the party hardy type but like to have fun...but alone come on now thats no fun....whats with the meant to be thing i cant comprehend it help......lol[................the past i lived was quite the party thing im young but already ready to settle down damn life sucks alone doesnt it?
You like to have 'fun' - you feel robbed of your youth by becoming a mother.
Life wasn't that much 'fun' when you could have 'fun' though - was it?
You'll be happier when you nolonger want just 'fun' and being a party animal. You'll learn to really enjoy some of the simpler things in life that are not 'fun' but real and lasting.
It's hard being young - it can also be hard being old..... try not to regret the recent past too much.
Realise that what appears to be important to you now won't be so important in the future........ there is no point in wanting to get old before your time, but there is no time like the present in deciding what you really want in life! -
You DO realise that being alone sucks, but you'll become a better person once you've got to know yourself better - and getting to know yourself better will, unfortunately, include spending some time alone with yourself and your thoughts!
Good luck!
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Like a few people mention, you have to learn to likethen love yourself first.You can see if there are any singles groups in your area. Its a good way to meet new friends. You could also join a civic organization like Jaycees. YOU MEET NEW FRIENDS AND HELP THE CUMMUNITY YOU LIVE.YOU WOULD SERVE THE CUMMUNITY ANF FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOURSELF.MAYBE A CHURCH GROUP A;SO.HOPE EVERTHING TURNS OUT OUT GREAT FOR YOU AND GET HAPPY ABOUT YOUSELF.
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Hang in there angel! You will do just great. Its awful to be alone when you are going through tough times but it will pass and you will come out stronger emotionally and mentally. If you really need to talk, just mail me.
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devlish_angel23: thank you i really am grateful you all have responded thank you so much i am just torn up with many issues i cannot explain thank you you dont know how much it means to me
Just try to go with the flow, darlin. Life has a lot of ups and downs. Learn from your mistakes and gain insite from the mistakes of others. You're young, beautiful, and will fall/find love again. Time has a way of making all things easier.
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devlish_angel23: i have a question.im a young mother my daughter isnt with me full-time but i am wondering do any of you believe in...............if its meant to be it will be??? i cant seem to understand why my heart is aching but im one with a past never been the party hardy type but like to have fun...but alone come on now thats no fun....whats with the meant to be thing i cant comprehend it help......lol[................the past i lived was quite the party thing im young but already ready to settle down damn life sucks alone doesnt it?
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You just have to look foward to the future. there is no since looking back to the past. whats done is done and now you have to try to give your daughter the best life there is. If that means that you have to do it alone you have to find a place in your heart where that is okay with you. i believe that things do happen for a reason but if your waiting for something to happen then its all going to pass you by. Untill your happy to be with yourself you cant fully be happy with someone else.
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Well, hun first off, I would try to get the custody of my Child back, then worry about me being alone or with someone LAST...
WE all F#ck up, but priorities are priorities
WE all F#ck up, but priorities are priorities
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Sometimes we are not content with what we have at the moment even though it may seem great to others. I think it is a human charateristic to always want something else. Time changes all things. Try to let your inner self be content with your situation and realize that your "human side" is just that . . . . human.
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