Need your advise my friends! (43)
HJFinAZ: NO, he is NOT a good catch.... And he cannot be "caught", he no longer take the "bait"...
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linsamraj: hjf----I LIKE THE NEW PIC......HOPE YOUR DOING WELL
Thank you... I am far from being "well"...
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More "advice"... Move to Arizona, quickly....
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ASMILE4U: I have clicked with a gentleman that is so up my alley in conversation, life and humor. We have been talking on the phone and he text messages me everyday on set hours. He keeps telling me that he wants to build a foundation as a friend and then proceed. LOL- The guy is a character and for some reason tells me about how many women want him and I am lucky he is not playing me like those girls.
I honestly think he is married or committed to someone because we have not met at all and its going on one month!
I know what I have to do...just want to hear your input!!!
I'm happy you know what you have to do with this guy, the nerve of him....I'll wait for you mail.I honestly think he is married or committed to someone because we have not met at all and its going on one month!
I know what I have to do...just want to hear your input!!!
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id tell him straight out if ye dont wanna meet then stop with the txts n calls see how he responds to that i had a guy like that a few weeks ago note how i said HAD its not fair of him to keep u hangin on ur a good lookin girl u dont need someone like him playin head games with ye cos that my dear is wot he's doin
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Indyfella: You promised you wouldn't tell.
Shame on you.............
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ModestlyAwesome: When it comes to this sort of thing, trust your gut. It's usually right.
Agreed
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lucky200761: Why do all that....obviously the guy is trying to take it really really slow. Talking on the phone is probably deemed as "safe" for the guy, eventually he will come to you( most likely as a friend at first); but im speaking because thats the way i can be sometimes...
A good point.
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ASMILE4U: Yes, he lives 10 minutes away, I have his last name, I know where he works etc.
I just think he is just playing around with peoples feelings. He always keeps telling me he is a ugly guy,and I thought that maybe he was insecure, but you know what...If he doesnt want to meet..then something is wrong and I am not waiting.
Thanks!!
I just think he is just playing around with peoples feelings. He always keeps telling me he is a ugly guy,and I thought that maybe he was insecure, but you know what...If he doesnt want to meet..then something is wrong and I am not waiting.
Thanks!!
Yep he is player....good luck
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If he lives ten minutes away...
And the two of you have "clicked" (at least on your side).....
Why would he not want to meet face to face?
If all the women want him, but he doesn't want to meet you...something is rotten.
Become busy, don't answer his calls for a while and see what happens.
If you do talk to him, tell him that you want meet and date people in person and don't have time for hours on the phone.
You're a busy, popular girl.
Don't let him waste your time
And the two of you have "clicked" (at least on your side).....
Why would he not want to meet face to face?
If all the women want him, but he doesn't want to meet you...something is rotten.
Become busy, don't answer his calls for a while and see what happens.
If you do talk to him, tell him that you want meet and date people in person and don't have time for hours on the phone.
You're a busy, popular girl.
Don't let him waste your time
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ASMILE4U: I have clicked with a gentleman that is so up my alley in conversation, life and humor. We have been talking on the phone and he text messages me everyday on set hours. He keeps telling me that he wants to build a foundation as a friend and then proceed. LOL- The guy is a character and for some reason tells me about how many women want him and I am lucky he is not playing me like those girls.
I honestly think he is married or committed to someone because we have not met at all and its going on one month!
I know what I have to do...just want to hear your input!!!
I honestly think he is married or committed to someone because we have not met at all and its going on one month!
I know what I have to do...just want to hear your input!!!
Sorry...but the part about the "gentleman that is so up my alley" kind of stopped me...
But once past that, I'd modestly suggest that you drop him as you would a radioactive scorpion (one can only imagine what dreadful powers it might impart?).
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There are plenty of those.
Pressure him to meet. Before you fall in love, get into his life as a friend. If he's not a webdating maniac, he won't mind! Jerk!
You're pretty, don't fall for sweet words...you can't be a natural needy who believe in flatter words like i've seen here are you?
He must be willing to know you by meeting you, go to his house and office. Meet his secretary!
Pressure him to meet. Before you fall in love, get into his life as a friend. If he's not a webdating maniac, he won't mind! Jerk!
You're pretty, don't fall for sweet words...you can't be a natural needy who believe in flatter words like i've seen here are you?
He must be willing to know you by meeting you, go to his house and office. Meet his secretary!
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ASMILE4U: Yes, he lives 10 minutes away, I have his last name, I know where he works etc.
I just think he is just playing around with peoples feelings. He always keeps telling me he is a ugly guy,and I thought that maybe he was insecure, but you know what...If he doesnt want to meet..then something is wrong and I am not waiting.
Thanks!!
I just think he is just playing around with peoples feelings. He always keeps telling me he is a ugly guy,and I thought that maybe he was insecure, but you know what...If he doesnt want to meet..then something is wrong and I am not waiting.
Thanks!!
Exactly, stop the contact before it's too late!
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Thank you all for your input!! I no longer will be accepting his phone callsa and texts and emails. That is true abou the "gentleman" thing..he is scum and does not deserve that name!! LOL
I have moved on and see what CS can bring me!!!
P.S. I will be in AZ in a couple weeks!!!
I have moved on and see what CS can bring me!!!
P.S. I will be in AZ in a couple weeks!!!
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HJFinAZ: Thank you... I am far from being "well"...
.........i wasnt gonna say it
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One of three things! He is involved, He is just that way or TELL HIM TO GET HIS BIG HEAD OUT OF OWN BUTT!! Good luck and be careful. Trust you gut and it sounds like it's already talkin to you. But you know that already my lady!!
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P.S. I will be in AZ in a couple weeks!!!
HOORAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
P.S. I will be in AZ in a couple weeks!!!
HOORAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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mindfful: .........i wasnt gonna say it
I have "Charlie" to remind me on a regular basis thank you..
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HJFinAZ: I have "Charlie" to remind me on a regular basis thank you..
i have you to remind ME
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Why do all that....obviously the guy is trying to take it really really slow. Talking on the phone is probably deemed as "safe" for the guy, eventually he will come to you( most likely as a friend at first); but im speaking because thats the way i can be sometimes...