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Oct 20, 2008 8:33 PM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago368 Threads 7 Polls 6,888 Posts
I've been on a few dating sites and it's always the same thing _ I seem to get the wierdos. I'm a single mom just jumping back into the dating pool, and I'm finding more sharks than angel fish. You meet a great guy who seems normal, looks nice and before you know it the transformation from nice to downright sleezy. I've met the men who want you to watch them play with themselves on webcam. The ones who can only seem to talk only about sex. Now I'm no prude but where are all the decent single guys who are REALLY here to meet a decent woman. Your thoughts anyone? About to throw in the towel.help
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Oct 20, 2008 8:45 PM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
Well, at least I know I'm not alone. I've had the ones who want to IM, and when you do, they only want to talk about sex...they suddenly disappear when you refuse. Yep. Been there.

The scammers are wonderfully romantic....they'll tell you immediately how much they love you.

I've not run into the webcam ones yet...so, thank you, that's a first question...do you have one? No thanks, then...laugh My luck that's what they'd want to do...and if I'm not into IM cybersex, I'm definitely not into it on webcam! doh

Hang in there...I have faith (though not substantiated by personal experience yet) that there are some nice, normal, decent guys out there. Unfortunately, they're all here on the forums and live too far away, or are already spoken for and too far away. But, there are success stories from here of people who met on the forums and managed to turn it into a marriage or LTR (long term relationship). So, I have faith because of them.

Hang out in the forums...that's where it seems to happen, and at the worst, you'll laugh and have fun.

handshake comfort hug wave cswelcome
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Oct 20, 2008 9:04 PM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
MysticErf
MysticErfMysticErfTampa, Florida USA8 Threads 1 Polls 241 Posts
tainogirl: About to throw in the towel.


Don't do that! There are plenty of us who will let you know we're weirdos from the get-go!
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Oct 20, 2008 9:06 PM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
mindfful
mindffulmindffulChicago, Illinois USA307 Threads 9 Polls 25,009 Posts
MysticErf: Don't do that! There are plenty of us who will let you know we're weirdos from the get-go!


the erf speaks truly missus


wave

theres a small tight faction of sisterhood here-if you are a good judge of character

these women can be invaluable

nice ta meet ya

wave


MF
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Oct 20, 2008 11:13 PM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
tainogirl
tainogirltainogirlTrincity,West Indies,, Trinidad and Tobago368 Threads 7 Polls 6,888 Posts
Thanks for all the encouragement guys but after dealing with webcam m**turbators, scammers and those who e-mail me their private parts and oh yes yesterday one of these IM me and wanted to have me listen to him moan, I tried to tell him politely, no thanks. He persisted then acted disappointed because I didn't care for his moan fest. I'll give it a month but it's been pretty bleakdunno
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Oct 20, 2008 11:19 PM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
MysticErf
MysticErfMysticErfTampa, Florida USA8 Threads 1 Polls 241 Posts
Hey, at least you get attention! I(and I'm willing to bet many guys) get absolutely bupkiss from ladies.
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Oct 20, 2008 11:35 PM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
Ouchh
OuchhOuchhharrison, Arkansas USA10 Threads 176 Posts
Im not a weirdo. hello tainogirl wave
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Oct 20, 2008 11:49 PM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
<<<<< 1st class weirdo....grin


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Oct 21, 2008 12:03 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
weirdo is a subjective term! If it weren't for weirdos there would be no dating sites. A large portion of the population think that dating through the internet is weird in and of it'self
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Oct 21, 2008 1:29 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
morgan5
morgan5morgan5chelmsford, Essex, England UK100 Threads 13,444 Posts
tainogirl: Thanks for all the encouragement guys but after dealing with webcam m**turbators, scammers and those who e-mail me their private parts and oh yes yesterday one of these IM me and wanted to have me listen to him moan, I tried to tell him politely, no thanks. He persisted then acted disappointed because I didn't care for his moan fest. I'll give it a month but it's been pretty bleak
Alot of us have experienced this you could try what i did

Turn off your IM

If you get mail your uncomfortable with don't reply, just block them

Don't give out your msn until you feel sure the guy's ok


Good luck




















































hug hug hug hug hug
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Oct 21, 2008 1:33 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA786 Threads 2 Polls 12,449 Posts
The world is full of eye-dee-ten-tees...(ID10Ts)dunno
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Oct 21, 2008 1:37 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
shot3743
shot3743shot3743Vidin, Bulgaria36 Threads 3 Polls 822 Posts
Hi I don't have enough bandwidth for the webcam to work with Skype!

Won't talk about sex either!

Hang in there - there are some mature individuals out there!

You have to kiss some frogs to find that prince!
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Oct 21, 2008 2:10 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
Olivedrab
OlivedrabOlivedrabhonolulu, Hawaii USA1 Posts
I'm in agreement with Mrogan5, only have contact through e-mail at first and if they are not weird then move on to IM. First sign of weirdness block them and also consider reporting them to the site administrator. It is hard enough trying to find someone that is decent let alone sift through the nut jobs. I just went through this with a woman who after one conversation wanted me to delete my profile, so her and I could concentrate on each other.doh
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Oct 21, 2008 2:14 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
Olivedrab: I'm in agreement with Mrogan5, only have contact through e-mail at first and if they are not weird then move on to IM. First sign of weirdness block them and also consider reporting them to the site administrator. It is hard enough trying to find someone that is decent let alone sift through the nut jobs. I just went through this with a woman who after one conversation wanted me to delete my profile, so her and I could concentrate on each other.



Yes it certainly pays to give it some time doesn't it...and I guess when someone is looking for something other than finding an actual relationship...it doesn't take long to show...and yes let it happen in e-mail first so the block button is right handy...Oh and I see you didn't take her up on the offer of deleting your profile....I guess one e-mail to some seems like 50.....grin
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Oct 21, 2008 2:16 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
yoursuperman
yoursupermanyoursupermanLynchburg, Virginia USA38 Threads 4 Polls 1,088 Posts
maybe you looking on the wrong side of the pond.
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Oct 21, 2008 3:02 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
SaxonKing
SaxonKingSaxonKingHolland, Ohio USA2 Threads 11 Posts
In response to: I'm finding


When ever I get in to a rut, be it at work or dating. I often take a step back and look at what it is that I am doing!

If I keep getting the same problem, it is because I keep doing the same thing!

The only thing that any of the "unique" women I have dated have in common, is the fact that I chose to date them!frustrated

Changing what I was doing and how I did it made all the difference in the world!

Saxon King
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Oct 21, 2008 3:06 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada82 Threads 3 Polls 34,865 Posts
SaxonKing: When ever I get in to a rut, be it at work or dating. I often take a step back and look at what it is that I am doing!

If I keep getting the same problem, it is because I keep doing the same thing!

The only thing that any of the "unique" women I have dated have in common, is the fact that I chose to date them!

Changing what I was doing and how I did it made all the difference in the world!

Saxon King



I agree...Good advice....wave wink hug teddybear
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Oct 21, 2008 3:27 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
SaxonKing
SaxonKingSaxonKingHolland, Ohio USA2 Threads 11 Posts
God, please save me from myself!
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Oct 21, 2008 5:14 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
tainogirl: Thanks for all the encouragement guys but after dealing with webcam m**turbators, scammers and those who e-mail me their private parts and oh yes yesterday one of these IM me and wanted to have me listen to him moan, I tried to tell him politely, no thanks. He persisted then acted disappointed because I didn't care for his moan fest. I'll give it a month but it's been pretty bleak
Keep it Onsite!
Don't let those Weirdos lure you Offsite.
Keep it here on CS,until you have some Idea what you're dealing with.
I usually delete messages I get here with E-Mail Addys,unless I have corresponded with the Person here for some time.conversing wave
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Oct 21, 2008 7:44 AM CST God save me from weirdos on dating sites
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada818 Threads 5 Polls 8,426 Posts
Don't throw in the towel!! If you do that then there will be one less "decent" person on the sites and eventually all that will be left is the idiots....laugh

We've all been where you are at one point or another T-Girl...be persistant with what YOU want, and ignore the ones that are using the internet to get their rocks off....roll eyes (eventually they get arms spasms or their mom catches them "at it")

If it helps there are just as many "players" in real life as there are on the internet....dunno

Stick around in the forums for a bit...sometimes their "personality" which comes through in their answers is what catches your eye rather than their appearance and well written profile....
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