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Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack? ( Archived) (46)

Oct 23, 2008 2:23 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
pianolover
pianoloverpianoloverJinzhou, Liaoning China14 Threads 24 Posts
I have a lady friend who is my age,36 years old. She has a boyfriend who is much older than her. He did heart surgeries three time this year and was almost died. She will marry him this year, but all of her family and friends disagree, beacuse of this man has a very serious heart problem.
What do you think of her facing problem?
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Oct 23, 2008 2:25 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia77 Threads 1 Polls 26,530 Posts
I think if she loves him and wants to Marry him then she should.

If she has a week, a year, or a few years. She will have her memories for a lifetime.
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Oct 23, 2008 2:41 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
ModestlyAwesome
ModestlyAwesomeModestlyAwesomePhoenix, Arizona USA3 Threads 2 Polls 543 Posts
sxc666: I think if she loves him and wants to Marry him then she should.

If she has a week, a year, or a few years. She will have her memories for a lifetime.


I agree. Finding true love is hard to do, and if you have it you should go for it, even if there's a high chance it will be ended shorter than it should. That's another thing, who knows if he will pass on soon or not? My grandfather had 2 strokes within a few years and lived another 15 years or so afterward (He passed on a few months ago from old age). This man could live a lot longer than people are guessing, and even if he doesn't I say that just makes the time they do have that much more precious. thumbs up
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Oct 23, 2008 3:52 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland31 Threads 2 Polls 17,895 Posts
pianolover: I have a lady friend who is my age,36 years old. She has a boyfriend who is much older than her. He did heart surgeries three time this year and was almost died. She will marry him this year, but all of her family and friends disagree, beacuse of this man has a very serious heart problem.
What do you think of her facing problem?



If they love each other, then why not!

We are all going to die anyway. thumbs up
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Oct 23, 2008 4:09 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
scorpiosiren
scorpiosirenscorpiosirendrogheda, Louth Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 1,943 Posts
i think its really up to ur friend,not her friends r family.
u know u cant stop loving someone cos there ill,it makes u love them more.
heart disease is very treatable these days
if she is more than willing n wants to marry him why not its her life she can do as she pleases.
i hope they live happily ever after...............
and may i add its not a problem its life ye jst deal with it:
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Oct 23, 2008 4:42 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
If she really loves him I see no reason why she shouldn't marry him.

I think it should be up to your friend of whether she marries her boyfriend. It shouldn't matter to her what her family and friends think cause it's her life not theirs.
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Oct 23, 2008 5:32 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
nash_node
nash_nodenash_nodeOita, Kyushu Japan7 Threads 44 Posts
is the guy rich ? first marriage and no kids before through legal or illegal means??? tongue

On a more serious thought, if she really loves him.. then it's their business and other "on-lookers" should mind their own damn business.
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Oct 23, 2008 5:36 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA319 Threads 14 Polls 9,166 Posts
I had bypass surgury 9 years ago, Does that mean I shouldn't want to meet someone and get married ? frustrated
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Oct 23, 2008 5:48 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
ladyinwaiting
ladyinwaitingladyinwaitingAmwaj Island, Bahrain21 Threads 288 Posts
Tis better to have loved ad lost than never having loved at all - shakespeare
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Oct 23, 2008 5:49 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
ladyinwaiting
ladyinwaitingladyinwaitingAmwaj Island, Bahrain21 Threads 288 Posts
Tis better to have loved AND lost than never having loved at all - shakespeare
correction
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Oct 23, 2008 5:56 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA1,208 Threads 1 Polls 18,965 Posts
If she knows all the cost and loves him enough to deal with it. Then its her life. Then man is very lucky to find a true love. many men that are healthy never find it. If he loves her as much,he will do what is best for her.
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Oct 23, 2008 6:09 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
Cary0608
Cary0608Cary0608Mandaluyong City, Metro Manila Philippines3 Threads 387 Posts
you guys are a bunch of closet romantics!very mad


























grin
she probably knows what she's doing and if marrying this person is what she really wants to do, by all means, let her. Time is our best gift to someone we care about and yeap, there're the memories to consider.
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Oct 23, 2008 9:02 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
pianolover
pianoloverpianoloverJinzhou, Liaoning China14 Threads 24 Posts
thanks for all your answers! my friends.
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Oct 23, 2008 9:05 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia147 Threads 2 Polls 14,452 Posts
pianolover: I have a lady friend who is my age,36 years old. She has a boyfriend who is much older than her. He did heart surgeries three time this year and was almost died. She will marry him this year, but all of her family and friends disagree, beacuse of this man has a very serious heart problem.
What do you think of her facing problem?


Surely it is between the two people concerned.

Personally, to experience even the briefest time with someone whom you dearly love, is worth ever so much more than spending a lifetime with someone you can't bear to be with, or even worse, feel completely indifferent. JMOdunno

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Oct 23, 2008 9:09 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
yes....I have had three serios heart attacks! open heart surgery, acute pancreatitis and been under hospice care twice. And I am not even taking heart medication today.

Mean while..a 23 year old, locally, was crossing the street in a crosswalk, when a car turned a corner and didn't stop for the pedestrian in the crosswalk, and was killed.


Moral of the story...when it's your time to go...you're going!!

Enjoy life while it is available
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Oct 23, 2008 9:10 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
shipoker58
shipoker58shipoker58Las Vegas, Nevada USA35 Threads 4,332 Posts
BTW...all heart attacks are "serious"....loltongue
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Oct 23, 2008 9:14 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
Life insurance, bank accounts, stock portfolios, real estate, etc..devil

I have had 9 heart attacks and 3 heart surgeries, so what??confused


dunno
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Oct 23, 2008 9:15 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
Now where is that 22yo redhead with big boobies???devil
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Oct 23, 2008 9:35 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia147 Threads 2 Polls 14,452 Posts
HJFinAZ: Life insurance, bank accounts, stock portfolios, real estate, etc..

I have had 9 heart attacks and 3 heart surgeries, so what??


Lucky for you, neither of them want you HJ head banger
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Oct 23, 2008 9:37 AM CST Should this woman marry a man who already had three serious heart attack?
venere08: Lucky for you, neither of them want you HJ


I can't be had... No problem..grin
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