Likeit I did last night......It was a friend Kate..... she needed to talk.... she sounded upset......
Naturally I said yes.... we're friends so I met with her.....
(I won't bore you with the details of the conversation.....)
We went to a bar... had a few drinks.... next thing she's kissing me.............OMG... she's a friend!!!!!
OMG she's a friend........ she smell's incredible.... she's touching me (don't get pervy.... on my leg on my neck on my face etc etc)..... it feels awesome..............
We chat on....... she kisses me again.... this time I'm kissing back...........it was lovely..... she's lovely...OMG she's a friend..........
We sit by the sea..... we discussing what went wrong for her and me.... blah blah blah
I have my arm around her.... she's snuggling up to me....... OMG she's supposed to be a friend...but I'm feeling very comfortable being here.....OMG she's a friend..... naw....
Not anymore...... I feel that this is something special....... she's right there in front of me but I didn't see the signs
Why did she call me..... she has lots of friends to turn to.... Why me
Why were we getting so close.... when I had no idea OMG I thought we were friends....
She has SMS me this morning saying she had a great time......Phew!!!!!!!!!!
She wants to meet with me again!!!!! whoooooooooo hooooooooooooooo
I want to meet her again!!!!!! OMG she's a friend..........
But you need to be friends first.... don't you?
My question is...............if this happened to you, what would you do next?
Dknew: Go with it Stoo, The best relationships are when 2 ppl start out as friends.
She is lovely..............I've only noticed her a friend..... then all of the above happened..... blew me away...
It was so out of the blue!!!!!!!!!!! I'm in shock.... one minute me and my buddy were having a beer ordered a chinese take out watch some movies then.............BAM!!!!!
The phone call....... I met her because she was upset...... we chewed the fat had a few beers... and wham she's kissing me.....
I know this isn't a re-bound thing for her because it went no further than a kiss and a cuddle!!!!!!
thank God!!!!!!
but she's meeting up with me later.... I insisted that we have a serious talk!!!!
I think I'm doing the right thing..... but OMG........ something is changing.....
could she be the one... she's been right in front of my face!!!
Hugz_n_Kissez: Go with it Stoo, The best relationships are when 2 ppl start out as friends.[/quoteI agree...just romance doesn't work...you have to be a friend to each other first and foremost for things to work!!!!!!!!GO FOR IT STOOOOOOOOIIIIIIIIEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!
Here's the thing............. we are good friends....I been to her Father's Birthday Party.... her Brothers Opening Night at his restaurant etc etc
My worry is...... She's a really good friend......lets say that we eventually end up in the sack (sorry... but all new relationships end up with rumpy pumpy)
Lets say we become an item.......... 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, 1 year later............. it goe's pear shaped!!!!!
Oct 24, 2008 6:30 AM CST You get a phone call quite late at night
KevintWorcester, Home of the sauce, West Midlands, England UK6 Threads433 Posts
KevintWorcester, Home of the sauce, West Midlands, England UK433 posts
stooie1971: Here's the thing............. we are good friends....I been to her Father's Birthday Party.... her Brothers Opening Night at his restaurant etc etc
My worry is...... She's a really good friend......lets say that we eventually end up in the sack (sorry... but all new relationships end up with rumpy pumpy)
Lets say we become an item.......... 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, 1 year later............. it goe's pear shaped!!!!!
I'll probably lose a very good friend
What to do?
You and me both know, there are no guaranties in this life.
Lets say in 1 week, 1 month 1 year she meets someone else, and moves to a different state
Stooie, stop thinking and just go with the flow that is inside your body. Maybe you will gain a companion for life. Stop being so damn negative....roll with it brotha!
I have always preferred friends to remain friends . Even the slightest hint of growing affection would scare me and i would run ..
But i do believe the best relationships have a strong foundation of friendship. When you plan to share such a vital part of you with another person , Its essential that you understand each other as people and have the relation of a " friendship " which is unconditional to go on further from there ...
So .. keep your eyes open and be careful and tread smartly. It could be shes soooo upset , this is a passing phase or it could be this is a side of her which she hasnt been able to express ...
Sooooo ..... head on the shoulders and one step forward ..
StressFree: Stooie, stop thinking and just go with the flow that is inside your body. Maybe you will gain a companion for life. Stop being so damn negative....roll with it brotha!
I'm not being negative.......Am I? or Am I?
she's been right in front of me.....I've only ever considered her as a friend!!!!!!!
stooie1971: Here's the thing............. we are good friends....I been to her Father's Birthday Party.... her Brothers Opening Night at his restaurant etc etc
My worry is...... She's a really good friend......lets say that we eventually end up in the sack (sorry... but all new relationships end up with rumpy pumpy)
Lets say we become an item.......... 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, 1 year later............. it goe's pear shaped!!!!!
I'll probably lose a very good friend
What to do?
ive been in the situation and never acted on it, it was a big mistake... he's now with someone else and everytime i see them together i feel silly
so stop thinkin wat if and go for it cause if u dont and this happens its not a nice feelin best of luck
stooie1971: Here's the thing............. we are good friends....I been to her Father's Birthday Party.... her Brothers Opening Night at his restaurant etc etc
My worry is...... She's a really good friend......lets say that we eventually end up in the sack (sorry... but all new relationships end up with rumpy pumpy)
Lets say we become an item.......... 1 day, 1 week, 1 month, 1 year later............. it goe's pear shaped!!!!!
I'll probably lose a very good friend
What to do?
I think you know what to do already Stoo, stop over analyzing .
stooie1971: I'm not being negative.......Am I? or Am I?
she's been right in front of me.....I've only ever considered her as a friend!!!!!!!
But after we talk.... I'll know what to do......
Yes, you have put an emphasis more on the worst case scenario instead of the best case scenario stooie. Be positive man and seize this wonderful opportunity. I'm on your side bro and I wanna see more happiness from anyone on this site. Follow your heart and not other people's thoughts or critiques. Only you know.
StressFree: Yes, you have put an emphasis more on the worst case scenario instead of the best case scenario stooie. Be positive man and seize this wonderful opportunity. I'm on your side bro and I wanna see more happiness from anyone on this site. Follow your heart and not other people's thoughts or critiques. Only you know.
I'm going for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love her as a friend........................ that's halfway there.........
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Naturally I said yes.... we're friends so I met with her.....
(I won't bore you with the details of the conversation.....)
We went to a bar... had a few drinks.... next thing she's kissing me.............OMG... she's a friend!!!!!
OMG she's a friend........ she smell's incredible.... she's touching me (don't get pervy.... on my leg on my neck on my face etc etc)..... it feels awesome..............
We chat on....... she kisses me again.... this time I'm kissing back...........it was lovely..... she's lovely...OMG she's a friend..........
We sit by the sea..... we discussing what went wrong for her and me.... blah blah blah
I have my arm around her.... she's snuggling up to me....... OMG she's supposed to be a friend...but I'm feeling very comfortable being here.....OMG she's a friend..... naw....
Not anymore...... I feel that this is something special....... she's right there in front of me but I didn't see the signs
Why did she call me..... she has lots of friends to turn to.... Why me
Why were we getting so close.... when I had no idea OMG I thought we were friends....
She has SMS me this morning saying she had a great time......Phew!!!!!!!!!!
She wants to meet with me again!!!!! whoooooooooo hooooooooooooooo
I want to meet her again!!!!!! OMG she's a friend..........
But you need to be friends first.... don't you?
My question is...............if this happened to you, what would you do next?