apologies ( Archived) (39)

Yeah well I'm Canadian and you bashed me by saying Canada sucks...so GROW the F up...You probably have never even crossed the border before in your young life....you want people to stop bashing you...then I suggest you do the same..otherwise..you get what ya give...and I agree...1/2 hearted apologies that contain another bash...aren't apologies at all!!!!!!!

I never said it was right, he is learning and we all fall down when we are learning...

It was not an apology, he thinks it was, we all have different ideas on what an apology is, it just so happens that we see it was not one...

I have youngsters everyday, from all over the world, they say and do stupid things, that are not right, but we do not throw them out, we educate them to be better people and to meet the expectations of what a civilsed world is all about...

And there are many adults that say and do stupid things, without any apology... Intelligence and social graces are things that we learn all the time...

And you my dear, all the very best for tomorrow...

And of course, the rest of your lives together...

It's hard to phrase an apology well, in a way that feels sincere and reflects your thoughts.

But first rule I suggest should be to serve it alone, with nothing else mixed into it, as it will damage the message.

I understand this one has been accepted, so we are only talking hypothesis here.

Good night fellows

There are many ways of attracting attention upon ourselves. One of them is being unpleasant. Another is being extremely nice (I´ve seen "nice" people here be extremely unpleasant and arrogant through "politeness" and "class", if you know what I mean). The more attention a behavior gets, the more it is reinforced.
Why not just let it go?

Ah, and the guy is 24. - He had not too much exercise in this yet, wait with the mob just a bit yet. He's moving in the right direction, he started a thread with his apology, that’s walking into the spotlight.

I am 39, I am not completely out of a brain and I did a mistake much worse than him…

My last post stands still, but I vote for lenience due to inexperience.

Now… Good night again

read new thread only had month. Iknow nothing about canada and had no right to say it sucks. No more stupid a**hole threads from me. If you cant see it as a well meant apology oh well. At least i know i meant it. Canda rules all others.

Kewwwllllllllll...and I wasn't really offended...I just wanted to show you that bashing in an apology was not a good way to go...so .... and let's all just start over....

Ah please chad, you don't always have to suck up what others expect you to say or think, you have the right to say what you want...if a place sucks, then it does. You just have to learn to say it with more diplomacy and if you make a statement to be able to back it up...Changing your opinion over this thread is the worst thng you could do.

That deserves a nod, for those words...