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Oct 26, 2008 10:41 PM CST Expected
samora77
samora77samora77Staten Island, New York USA39 Threads 543 Posts
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What is expected after you say "I LOVE YOU" blushing
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Oct 26, 2008 11:12 PM CST Expected
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
mastic55Long Island, New York USA6,859 posts
Very powerful words, you have to really be honest when you say it. And the rest will follow.
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Oct 26, 2008 11:15 PM CST Expected
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
samora77: What is expected after you say "I LOVE YOU"


In a new relationship,I would like to hear, "I love you too", in return....
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#4
Oct 26, 2008 11:18 PM CST Expected
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
mylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA23,670 posts
mbcasey: In a new relationship,I would like to hear, "I love you too", in return....
Exactly , to hear it back wink applause applause
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#5
Oct 26, 2008 11:22 PM CST Expected
jpunk
jpunkjpunkEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK43 Threads 7 Polls 1,897 Posts
jpunkEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK1,897 posts
samora77: What is expected after you say "I LOVE YOU"



dunno A kiss with the words "I'll be back in a minute, I'm just going out to buy you some beer from the shop up the road" ?????

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


grin head banger cheers
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#6
Oct 26, 2008 11:43 PM CST Expected
shyatfirst
shyatfirstshyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada22 Threads 1,462 Posts
shyatfirstcobourg, Ontario Canada1,462 posts
jpunk: A kiss with the words "I'll be back in a minute, I'm just going out to buy you some beer from the shop up the road" ?????


Bet that works well for ya laugh
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#7
Oct 26, 2008 11:55 PM CST Expected
jpunk
jpunkjpunkEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK43 Threads 7 Polls 1,897 Posts
jpunkEdinburgh, Lothian, Scotland UK1,897 posts
shyatfirst: Bet that works well for ya



I wouldn't expect it , but I'd love to hear it!!!

thumbs up grin
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#8
Oct 27, 2008 12:00 AM CST Expected
lanabyte
lanabytelanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA20 Threads 1 Polls 1,223 Posts
lanabyteCharleston, West Virginia USA1,223 posts
jpunk: A kiss with the words "I'll be back in a minute, I'm just going out to buy you some beer from the shop up the road" ?????

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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#9
Oct 27, 2008 12:59 AM CST Expected
samora77
samora77samora77Staten Island, New York USA39 Threads 543 Posts
samora77OPStaten Island, New York USA543 posts
blushing Thank's guy's -- but "I love you too" is scary and my mouth

went dry. Returing the favor will take a little work.gift lips
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#10
Oct 27, 2008 2:45 AM CST Expected
lint874
lint874lint874Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK3 Threads 1 Polls 414 Posts
lint874Leeds, West Yorkshire, England UK414 posts
samora77: What is expected after you say "I LOVE YOU"


Depends who you say it to:

"Woof, woof" - your pet dog

"I hate you" - angst ridden teenage daughter

"Waaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh" - new born baby

"I love you too. Very much" - beloved partner
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#11
Nov 6, 2008 8:16 PM CST Expected
samora77
samora77samora77Staten Island, New York USA39 Threads 543 Posts
samora77OPStaten Island, New York USA543 posts
The man you spend time with ...
Saying I Love You to a dog --- teenager --- new born --- is different
mumbling
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#12
Nov 6, 2008 8:21 PM CST Expected
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Hugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada25,438 posts
I don't expect anything...other than to be loved in action as well as words...I don't even expect to hear it back...I only want to hear those words when they are meant...not out of an obligation...thumbs up
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Nov 6, 2008 8:24 PM CST Expected
waiting4u
waiting4uwaiting4uGB's Heart, Oregon USA3 Threads 1,869 Posts
waiting4uGB's Heart, Oregon USA1,869 posts
mbcasey: In a new relationship,I would like to hear, "I love you too", in return....



I agree, thats always a good thing conversing
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#14
Nov 6, 2008 8:24 PM CST Expected
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
RedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA8,455 posts
samora77: What is expected after you say "I LOVE YOU"






Love in return, in various forms, that is ... not just words ... even a nod or a smile can be a comforting confirmation. Nothing in particular to be 'expected' ...
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#15
Nov 6, 2008 8:28 PM CST Expected
somechick
somechicksomechickCincinnati, Ohio USA106 Threads 11,116 Posts
somechickCincinnati, Ohio USA11,116 posts
samora77: What is expected after you say "I LOVE YOU"



Although hearing I Love You back is nice. I feel it's also the actions that count more if they're from someone you're in a relationship with.

I think it's the little things that a couple can do for one another that says alot.
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#16
Nov 6, 2008 8:54 PM CST Expected
Lonely1
Lonely1Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada76 Threads 21 Polls 1,858 Posts
Lonely1Ottawa, Ontario Canada1,858 posts
While as a man I am aware of all the things women expect/not expect from their man/spouse:

I do expect to care and provide for my children and family. I know it is my duty to protect them to the best of my ability. I need to set a good example for my children and to show them that I love and appreciate them and my spouse. I do expect to spend quality time with them and to plan vacations together. I want to be a respected member of the community in which I live. More later.

For my spouse, I expect to be able to discuss important issues and make decisions together. I expect to put her first and to not do things that make her doubt my love. In the area of intimacy, I see it as my duty to make every effort to ensure that we both get satisfaction.

I think that you are asking this question in relation to husband and wives, but if it is just a new relationship: Spending time together. Being friends. Getting to know each other. Possible getting married.

teddybear
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#17
Nov 6, 2008 8:54 PM CST Expected
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria12,414 posts
samora77: What is expected after you say "I LOVE YOU"


A bloody good night in the sack...
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#18
Nov 6, 2008 8:58 PM CST Expected
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria12,414 posts
Apologies, that was crass of me.

Why should there be any expectations, love is not about expectations...

It is about sharing, being there, supporting, listening and enjoying it...

I expect nothing, after I have said it, why would I?

I say it, because I mean it.

All I hope is that when I say it, that I feel ok about it...

The rest is up to him.
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#19
Nov 6, 2008 8:59 PM CST Expected
mychelle
mychellemychelleOttawa, Ontario Canada114 Threads 9 Polls 1,685 Posts
mychelleOttawa, Ontario Canada1,685 posts
samora77: What is expected after you say "I LOVE YOU"

I would hope that he respond it by saying i love you too. But most times I hear that he doesn't have to say it because I say it. Well actions speak louder than words so a hug would be nice.
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#20
Nov 6, 2008 9:01 PM CST Expected
samora77
samora77samora77Staten Island, New York USA39 Threads 543 Posts
samora77OPStaten Island, New York USA543 posts
Lonley 1....... I agree with every thing you have said ..except for the part of being..... your duty.....I don't like that word. It's both you responsiblity to ensure satisfaction. THANK'Steddybear
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