Why Stay Married !!! (59)
samora77Staten Island, New York USA39 Threads 543 PostsYou don't live together anymore -- don't even live in the same house-- not even the same country --But there is a daughter --A young lady as a matter of fact. But for years not together... So Why Stay Married ??...Can you love her to that extent with no interest in you on her part.?? I need to understand this............
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people shouldn't stay married if they are not hgappy, period. I dated a woman for awhile, I knew her when her husband and her were together. After three years, I just assumed they were divorced. I've seen him with another woman and a child. After "dating" a while, she informrd me they were still married. End of relationship!!..LOL
The perfect solution to the high divorce rate in America is to not get married in the first place!!
The perfect solution to the high divorce rate in America is to not get married in the first place!!
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shipoker58:
The perfect solution to the high divorce rate in America is to not get married in the first place!!
The perfect solution to the high divorce rate in America is to not get married in the first place!!
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I would like to have the commitment of mariage again someday and it be as good as my last.
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I will not enter the whole marriage scenario again. It does work for some, me personally, I don't feel its something I want or need at this stage in my life 
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lucky200761: ....but one can only hope to get a life partner
exactly, no need for marriage if you have a life partner.------ This thread is Archived ------
If a man and woman buy horse....then they don't feed it, they don't doctor it, they don't groom it, they don't walk it......they don't do all the things needed to have a horse. But instead wait for the horse to do everything. Should they have ever bought the horse? No! They did not fully understand the cost of ownership of a horse. They had the money and the notion.....but not the maturity of knowing how to own a horse. So they shoot the horse!!!!
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AND GO LOOKING FOR A BETTER HORSE!!!!!!
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RillyNiceGuy: If a man and woman buy horse....then they don't feed it, they don't doctor it, they don't groom it, they don't walk it......they don't do all the things needed to have a horse. But instead wait for the horse to do everything. Should they have ever bought the horse? No! They did not fully understand the cost of ownership of a horse. They had the money and the notion.....but not the maturity of knowing how to own a horse. So they shoot the horse!!!!
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RillyNiceGuy: AND GO LOOKING FOR A BETTER HORSE!!!!!!
NOPE if it's that ones fault. 
they need to learn some things first then. If it was the other one, YEP find a better one.------ This thread is Archived ------
I need to understand this..........
Need or want? From the info provided, only you can know the answer..
Need or want? From the info provided, only you can know the answer..
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RillyNiceGuy: AND GO LOOKING FOR A BETTER HORSE!!!!!!
Thanks I like that idea
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I'm gatherering information --ship I agree .. but My feeling is that as of right now I want a certain commitment -- not marrige But....------ This thread is Archived ------
samora77: I'm gatherering information --ship I agree .. but My feeling is that as of right now I want a certain commitment -- not marrige But....
Ask for what you want, celebrate the no..
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But they go looking! Its dumb to look for a better marriage until each learn what is needed to be married! Thats what I mean!
mylifewithu: NOPE if it's that ones fault. they need to learn some things first then. If it was the other one, YEP find a better one.
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samora77: Thanks I like that idea
They think another horse is whats needed....nope! They need to learn and find another one that has learned also. To get anothe horse only get another horse shot!
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Staying married looks good on your C.V.
Because really,God forbid you go in for a job interview in your mid 30's and tell the person who's interviewing you've never been married.
They'll say,''What's wrong with YOU.....mid 30's and NEVER MARRIED!"
Because really,God forbid you go in for a job interview in your mid 30's and tell the person who's interviewing you've never been married.
They'll say,''What's wrong with YOU.....mid 30's and NEVER MARRIED!"
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thewall2: Staying married looks good on your C.V.Because really,God forbid you go in for a job interview in your mid 30's and tell the person who's interviewing you've never been married.
They'll say,''What's wrong with YOU.....mid 30's and NEVER MARRIED!"
They'll say,''What's wrong with YOU.....mid 30's and NEVER MARRIED!"
its crazy! if you don't drink...it a bad thing. if you don't steal your a dummy, if your honest...your a fool. Kinda crazy!
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samora77: I'm gatherering information --ship I agree .. but My feeling is that as of right now I want a certain commitment -- not marrige But....
We all could use a roll in the hay.------ This thread is Archived ------
RillyNiceGuy: But they go looking! Its dumb to look for a better marriage until each learn what is needed to be married! Thats what I mean!
I understand, cause I have had a few men go looking for better or more exciting or water ever the excuse while still married. For me, I have to be divorced , then gotten past my pain, Before I can even consider dating again. I can't understand people who cheat the concept is beyond me, I guess.
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