Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect? ( Archived) (33)

Oct 29, 2008 10:26 AM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
stooie1971: It has nothing to do with having delusions

If you have a need for other people to like and admire you, and yet you tend to be critical of yourself. While you have some personality weaknesses you are generally able to compensate for them. You have considerable unused capacity that you have not turned to your advantage. At times you have serious doubts whether you have made the right decision or done the right thing.

That's what the Barnum effect is too many on here.... You read the post and threads of many on here

IMHO.... that's what I've spotted going on in here for a few weeks....

PS: this not a personal attack on any one person.. it's just an observation



I see.....I still don't have it then...wave wink grin


I took it as seeing yourself in things that were being said that were not about you...yet denying those things exist at all when it comes to you....wink
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Oct 29, 2008 10:28 AM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
stooie1971: Okay I'll help you out.....

The Barnum effect is the name given to a type of subjective validation in which a person finds personal meaning in statements that could apply to many people.

The Barnum effect is an expression that seems to have originated with psychologist Paul Meehl, in deference to circus man P. T. Barnum's reputation as a master psychological manipulator who is said to have claimed
"We have something for everybody."
i thaught it was Peter Bailey?confused ......ooops....oh no....that was ''its a wonderful life''...........rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 29, 2008 10:33 AM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
jlw45: i thaught it was Peter Bailey? ......ooops....oh no....that was ''its a wonderful life''...........



George Bailey even !!

professor





rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 29, 2008 10:34 AM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
livinglarge: George Bailey even !!
rolling on the floor laughing ......oh yea, thats right...rolling on the floor laughing ........wait, was'nt peter bailey the little brother?confused .............rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 29, 2008 10:36 AM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
jlw45: ......oh yea, thats right... ........wait, was'nt peter bailey the little brother? .............



dunno

Yikes I cant remember ,

PMSing don't you know !


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 29, 2008 10:40 AM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
jlw45
jlw45jlw45Moyers, Oklahoma USA66 Threads 1 Polls 15,566 Posts
livinglarge: Yikes I cant remember ,

PMSing don't you know !
rolling on the floor laughing ....lol....i did'nt know that effected the memory?.......rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 29, 2008 10:48 AM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
livinglarge
livinglargelivinglargein a good place, Kildare Ireland10 Threads 5,879 Posts
jlw45: ....lol....i did'nt know that effected the memory?.......


very mad very mad very mad

it affects EVERYTHING
professor professor professor


rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 29, 2008 11:01 AM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
stooie1971: first beers on me


cheers

And then the rest on me?? laugh
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Oct 29, 2008 4:15 PM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
katiecharlyn
katiecharlynkatiecharlyndublin, Georgia USA8 Threads 2,748 Posts
wave hey stu!!!teddybear


hug kiss bouquet
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Oct 29, 2008 4:17 PM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
stooie1971: Ooh I did turn up earlier being a friend..... and was insult and shat!!!! on...... so I left........seem's I have now friends in real life and non in CS-Land

DINK DANK DOO!!!!!


We still have that beer though... laugh

beer
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Oct 29, 2008 4:58 PM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain34 Threads 6 Polls 4,110 Posts
mike69spain: We still have that beer though...


I guess not dunno
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Oct 29, 2008 5:24 PM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
stooie1971: It has nothing to do with having delusions

If you have a need for other people to like and admire you, and yet you tend to be critical of yourself. While you have some personality weaknesses you are generally able to compensate for them. You have considerable unused capacity that you have not turned to your advantage. At times you have serious doubts whether you have made the right decision or done the right thing.

That's what the Barnum effect is too many on here.... You read the post and threads of many on here

IMHO.... that's what I've spotted going on in here for a few weeks....

PS: this not a personal attack on any one person.. it's just an observation


I did a thread that sounded like that recently on here...might be one of the ones you're referring to in the past few weeks...but it was really being tongue-in-cheek and laughing at myself publicly. I don't need "validation" from anyone else to feel that a decision I make is the right one...I listen to my heart and intuition, and act accordingly. The rest I leave to the Divine.

hug cheers
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Oct 30, 2008 11:29 AM CST Okay Admit It..... Who's got the Barnum Effect?
stooie1971
stooie1971stooie1971Las America's, Canary Islands Spain116 Threads 3 Polls 2,672 Posts
mike69spain: We still have that beer though...


Our lager
Which art in barrels
Hallowed be thy drink
Thy will be drunk, (I will be drunk)
At home as it is in the tavern
Give us this day our foamy head
And forgive us our spillage
As we forgive those who spill against us
And lead us not into incarceration
But deliver us from hangovers
For thine is the beer, the bitter, and the lager
Barmen
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