Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls??????? ( Archived) (232)

Oct 31, 2008 6:17 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Jewel7
Jewel7Jewel7ooooo, Clare Ireland1 Threads 4 Posts
Im reading a profile & i liking it when i look at the age group the man is looking for 18 to 50 & this guy is 47scold i feel uncomfortable when i see that specially when these guys have daughters of that age..
Lifestages are completely out of sync with such a huge age gap,what u think?
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Oct 31, 2008 6:21 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
jbibiza
jbibizajbibizaCasinos, Valencia Spain94 Threads 4 Polls 4,914 Posts
After the age of 25 or so... I don´t have a problem with large differences in age... people have spent some time being responsible for themselves and I think are pretty much the person they are going to be... but the ages of 18 to 25 a person does so much growing and changing... are still quite vulnerable and yes, I would have a problem with an older man looking to hook up with someone in that age group.
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Oct 31, 2008 6:29 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Each to their own...

I cant worry about other people...

but i quess if its my son or if i had a daughter...

and he was 47 and wanted her if she was 18 or early 20's
i probably would have a problem..

but i quess we have to let everyone make their choice and live
with what they choose..

Happy Halloween everyonewave
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Oct 31, 2008 6:30 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
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I also find it strange, that a man that old would date a 17- 23 year old girl. I know they are considered adults, but what in the world would a man over 30, have in common with a girl that young? What do they talk about?


I guess it's none of my business, but i do find it uncomfortably unorthodox too.


I personally would date a man around 44, despite the different mental inclinations, brought about by experiences.


Nice thread! thumbs up
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Oct 31, 2008 6:42 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Moema
MoemaMoemaBrasilia, Distrito Federal Brazil45 Threads 3 Polls 730 Posts
Yes, nice thread.

I just think it´s pathetic. I thought it was pathetic back when I was 18, I think it´s pathetic now I´m 34, and I will probably think it´s pathetic when I´m 80.

I remember when a girlfriend´s parents got divorced and I was 19 or 20. Her dad all of a sudden started wearing clothes that didn´t befit him, talking slang he didn´t exactly know the meaning of, and try to mingle in with her friends. It was ridiculous, she knew it, everyone felt uncomfortable and she was so embarassed and ashamed she stopped hanging out for MONTHS.

I was completely grossed by his behavior, as I am of drunks´, and I don´t think he ever realized how totally ridiculous he was. Oh and my parents were friends with this couple too, and they too thought it was ridiculous.

I guess a man is just as mature as the woman he´s with...dunno
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Oct 31, 2008 6:44 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
Jewel7: Im reading a profile & i liking it when i look at the age group the man is looking for 18 to 50 & this guy is 47 i feel uncomfortable when i see that specially when these guys have daughters of that age..
Lifestages are completely out of sync with such a huge age gap,what u think?



A 50year old man looking for a 18year old girl ....laugh must be going through the male menopause...or just daft in the head, but some ladies do the same......also daft in the head..roll eyes laugh

...............................cats meow ...............laugh laugh
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Oct 31, 2008 6:45 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Sommerauer71
Sommerauer71Sommerauer71Salzburg, Austria133 Threads 4 Polls 12,414 Posts
I just do not entertain men who are have that age range...

To me it shows a level of who they are and not particularly smart at that...

And I only do smart and intelligent. Have no time for the ones that display immaturity.
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Oct 31, 2008 6:46 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Moema: Yes, nice thread.

I just think it´s pathetic. I thought it was pathetic back when I was 18, I think it´s pathetic now I´m 34, and I will probably think it´s pathetic when I´m 80.

I remember when a girlfriend´s parents got divorced and I was 19 or 20. Her dad all of a sudden started wearing clothes that didn´t befit him, talking slang he didn´t exactly know the meaning of, and try to mingle in with her friends. It was ridiculous, she knew it, everyone felt uncomfortable and she was so embarassed and ashamed she stopped hanging out for MONTHS.

I was completely grossed by his behavior, as I am of drunks´, and I don´t think he ever realized how totally ridiculous he was. Oh and my parents were friends with this couple too, and they too thought it was ridiculous.

I guess a man is just as mature as the woman he´s with...


That's madness...

Now that he has recovered, how is he behaving?drinking
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Oct 31, 2008 6:51 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Moema
MoemaMoemaBrasilia, Distrito Federal Brazil45 Threads 3 Polls 730 Posts
cristina: That's madness...

Now that he has recovered, how is he behaving?


It´s been so many years since I´ve seen him. He´s probably still being pathetic with someone 1/3 his age.

They may even be happier than I am.rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 31, 2008 6:54 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Moema: It´s been so many years since I´ve seen him. He´s probably still being pathetic with someone 1/3 his age.

They may even be happier than I am.


I think you are a script writerlaugh tongue
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Oct 31, 2008 6:56 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lusciousmile: All true!

Me and my sisters walk with our mouths agape, because the malls here are flooded by old men with their really young foreign (mainly thai) girlfriends.

Mind you, these girls don't speak english or finnish. I know several of them who are married. One woman, now a little older than me, told me she first met her now husband, when she was 17, in Thailand. She now speaks a little english and good finnish, but didn't when they first met. She now has two kids and isn't happy at all!!!!I am old enough to make such mistakes ( i guess), which is why i find it sad when a girl much younger than me, gets herself into a life she might regret later.It's really sad!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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Oct 31, 2008 6:56 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
cristina: That's madness...

Now that he has recovered, how is he behaving? drinking



Moema: It´s been so many years since I´ve seen him. He´s probably still being pathetic with someone 1/3 his age.

They may even be happier than I am.



You two are killing me!

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Oct 31, 2008 7:03 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Moema: Oh that´s right. With Unions, laws and all. Let´s not offend the Ladies.


Yeahuh oh

But Poligamy isn'troll eyes
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Oct 31, 2008 7:05 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
Moema
MoemaMoemaBrasilia, Distrito Federal Brazil45 Threads 3 Polls 730 Posts
cristina: Yeah

But Poligamy isn't


I KNOW!!!!
Crappy isn´t it.

Lus, it´s not just the men who are vultures. You think the little b****s don´t know what they´re doing too? Pretty sad. roll eyes frustrated
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Oct 31, 2008 7:06 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
Moema: Oh that´s right. With Unions, laws and all. Let´s not offend the Ladies.


Sweetie, you're from Brazil, and i'm sure you know it happens there too. Do you really blame these young girls for trying to survive? They are kids! What do they know?



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Oct 31, 2008 7:07 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
lusciousmile: Sweetie, you're from Brazil, and i'm sure you know it happens there too. Do you really blame these young girls for trying to survive? They are kids! What do they know?


They know, trust me. Don't say they are being abused...because it's a way for survival.heart beating
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Oct 31, 2008 7:13 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
cristina: They know, trust me. Don't say they are being abused...because it's a way for survival.


Yes, they are trying to survive, i probably would try to do the same, if i had no food or education.


I blame the adult, who unjustly facilitates these girls' irreproachable need to survive. They are worse than scavengers!
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Oct 31, 2008 7:13 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
X_REBEL
X_REBELX_REBELNorth Shore, Auckland New Zealand9 Threads 921 Posts
Jewel7: Im reading a profile & i liking it when i look at the age group the man is looking for 18 to 50 & this guy is 47 i feel uncomfortable when i see that specially when these guys have daughters of that age..
Lifestages are completely out of sync with such a huge age gap,what u think?


As long if she's mentally and emotionally mature i don't see problems with that...btw. what 40 year old woman wouldn't love to have a 18 year old stud? laugh
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Oct 31, 2008 7:15 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
X_REBEL: As long if she's mentally and emotionally mature i don't see problems with that...btw. what 40 year old woman wouldn't love to have a 18 year old stud?


hahah well this woman wouldntthumbs down grin
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Oct 31, 2008 7:20 AM CST Men over 40 looking for 18 year old girls???????
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
I have 18-99 on mine! It is hard to draw a line because each person is different and one year outside your line......maybe. The same is true for many other things.....one inch too tall....?.....wrong size....etc....any line excludes someone and may offend.....so....leave them wide open and handle each one as they come.

As far as age for me.....there is too young and I will not pursue them because it is best for them. I will be a father/friend to them and try to help.....but I will not be a lover. Some guys and women feel that anything legal if fair game.....I am not that way and I don't find it right!




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