Moema: It does happen in Brazil and I´ve seen it so often I don´t believe they´re innocent victims or naive at all. For lower class and even not so unfavoured it is "normal" to be supported by a man, and they are encouraged by their mothers, aunts and gradnmothers to find "the best deal" on their little flower. They actually think all they need to do is make a baby and live on child support for the rest of their lives. I know a few who are actually factories: 4 or 5 children from different fathers, and guess what, they DO make a living on it, and they DON´T want to be married. They just want to know they won´t have to study or work at all. Now how naive is that?
On the other hand, I´ve seen girls really strive, and reach hig education levels, have their own jobs and even support their parents, coming from low class and difficult conditions.
I´m sorry. I don´t believe in culprits and victims. Everyone gets what they go for and live how they choose, even with difficulties. I´ve been through many of them myself, and I didn´t try for a free ride.
Was trying not to make a big deal about it, The male teachers do serious prison time for this kind of offense.. while the women usually walk away??????
When a man does it, it is Illegal. when a woman does it.. it is a sickness
Myself.. no use for a mate so young (20 or more years younger)
ummm well.............. maybe once a month would be ok
rasgumby: Was trying not to make a big deal about it, The male teachers do serious prison time for this kind of offense.. while the women usually walk away??????
When a man does it, it is Illegal. when a woman does it.. it is a sickness
Myself.. no use for a mate so young (20 or more years younger)
ummm well.............. maybe once a month would be ok
It is treated as the offence, which is an adult taking advantage of a minor.
There is no gender issue here or in the UK when it comes to that.
Jewel7: Im reading a profile & i liking it when i look at the age group the man is looking for 18 to 50 & this guy is 47 i feel uncomfortable when i see that specially when these guys have daughters of that age.. Lifestages are completely out of sync with such a huge age gap,what u think?
I have seen exactly the same....... I look at and read a lot of profiles.. and a heck of a lot of women are looking for guys just as young.. This tells me that they have issues and I just pass it by.
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seen alot of women go for guy's way younger, they feel flattered for the attention