How should love feel? ( Archived) (27)

Never got to date. We met through work, never had the chance of getting together due to both being extremely busy, but we tried to talk as much as possible to be as close as we could. But it just didn´t happen. I don´t know why, to this day, but it´s ok, at least I know feelings like that are possible and I´ll be in heaven the day I feel like that again.

I think it's the mystery and not knowing what could have been, that makes you feel this way. I don't think it's a bad thing, as long as it doesn't drain a person. I have felt like that numerous times in my life.

I don't think you ever just "Blink" and realise you're in love, it's something that occurs as feelings increase between you and the person of your desire it could take days, weeks, years even, it does not even need that person to respond in the same way.

How you feel, that is too individual to proffer an adequate answer, we all love in our own particular way.

I know what you´re talking about, and no it wasn´t THAT feeling. It really was feeling so many god things and connections with the same person. I´d never felt that. It´s different from what you said.

True love is when you accept and love somebody for who they are, completely and totally, and knowing they feel the same about you. It's a mixture of many things, but it feels wonderful almost all of the time. (Yes, I'm a realist...it's not 100% of the time, or couples who love each other so completely would never have arguments.)

It's getting excited at the end of your work day because you can't wait to see them. It's walking into a crowded room and that person is the only one you can see at first, and the only one they see is you too.

And it's watching the one you love feel pain, and wishing you could take it away...that you could do or say something to take away all of their pain, fear, and anger. And it's loving them enough to let them know it's okay to go because you don't want them to suffer anymore.

That´s romantic (and by that I don´t mean it´s good or bad).
But isn´t that being "in" love?
Isn´t there a difference between loving and being in love?

You can take a stranger home
Never spend a night alone
But you have to face the morning feeling empty inside
Cause you can't pretend it's real
When what you really want to feel
Is the magic of the moment when love can't be denied

When your heart makes a sound like rolling thunder
And your arms are wrapped around an angel from above
And when the earth begins to shake
Cause it can feel the love you make
Oh oh oh that's how you know
When you're in love

I had all but given up
On ever finding love
Until I caught a glimpse of heaven when I looked into your eyes
And your fingers touched my skin
Like a stormy summer wind
Now I'm falling like the rain oh what a sweet surprise

When your heart makes a sound like rolling thunder
And your arms are wrapped around an angel from above
And when the earth begins to shake
Cause it can feel the love you make
Oh oh oh that's how you know
When you're in love

All of God's creation starts to sing in harmony
All I know you can hear it baby, I know you believe

When your heart makes a sound like rolling thunder
And your arms are wrapped around an angel from above
And when the earth begins to shake
Cause it can feel the love you make
Oh oh oh that's how you know when you're in
That's how you know when you're in
That's how you know when you're in love
That's how you know

(Lari White - That's How You Know)