I just came across a profile that admied to lying about her age, but was looking for someone honest. Her reasoning was that she would get more attention if she was younger but she is not and realy the fluff of five years for a fourtyeight year old means nothing. Do you have stupid lyes in your profile? have you met someone that misrepresented themselves in their profiles?
The nature of this medium makes it easy but why do people think that this fake reality will continue to the real world? your experences?
For my occupation it says Deep Space Salvage. I don't really do that, but this is just because I haven't got a space ship not because I don't want to do it!!
In a little less than 3 months, I will turn 48 - However, if I do a thread about it, I will actually claim to be celebrating the 9th anniversary of my 39th birthday.
Nov 2, 2008 6:14 AM CST Lets start by lying about our age
KevintWorcester, Home of the sauce, West Midlands, England UK6 Threads433 Posts
KevintWorcester, Home of the sauce, West Midlands, England UK433 posts
lorax111: I just came across a profile that admied to lying about her age, but was looking for someone honest. Her reasoning was that she would get more attention if she was younger but she is not and realy the fluff of five years for a fourtyeight year old means nothing. Do you have stupid lyes in your profile? have you met someone that misrepresented themselves in their profiles?
The nature of this medium makes it easy but why do people think that this fake reality will continue to the real world? your experences?
Oh the lies and deceit that abounds the dating sites, and for what, to create a meeting that when it takes place just destroys any trust that had been built up.
I have meet women who say 48 but are 58, slightly over weight, no very large comes to mind, the ones who state "Kind and caring" but spend the entire first date talking about the vindictive revenge carried out on their ex, the two timers, money seekers, those just wanting an ego boost, I think I have a real talent for finding them I have no problem with age size etc, but I do have a problem with lies. But, ther are the exceptions, the ones who are honest and just as their profile says, so we keep looking and trust that the next is just one of those.
You can look at my picture on my profile and tell I'm not lying. Every bit my age and weight. Why lie about it?? First and foremost I'm not a liar and don't like liars.....secondly, it wouldn't do me any good in the long run.....and last but not least, I'm getting too old to be able to remember lies....lol.
I'm just me....good, bad, or in between. Don't always like it but facts are facts.....
Actually I'm 36 and live in the Trump Towers in New York. I put 66 and changed my location to try and attract the serious ones. I guess the cat is out of the bag now.
When I first started on here... I lied about my age by 5 years, and it was all about the search criteria, didn´t want some 45 year old writing me off because I was 48, and I didn´t want someone who was looking for a sedate settled woman who didn´t have an active and adventurous lifestyle.
Of course the first thing I did when someone contacted me was tell them my real age... and I got tired of explaining... no one seemed to have a problem with it, but I changed it to my real age... I don´t like lies and if someone can´t see beyond the number... they probably wouldn´t suit me anyway.
PILIPALA: I like raisins and currants Trying it make it plausable if i try to alter my age to younger say i'm skinner or anything else no one would believe me
lorax111: I just came across a profile that admied to lying about her age, but was looking for someone honest. Her reasoning was that she would get more attention if she was younger but she is not and realy the fluff of five years for a fourtyeight year old means nothing. Do you have stupid lyes in your profile? have you met someone that misrepresented themselves in their profiles?
The nature of this medium makes it easy but why do people think that this fake reality will continue to the real world? your experences?
I have heard from men with the same reasoning here.
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Do you have stupid lyes in your profile? have you met someone that misrepresented themselves in their profiles?
The nature of this medium makes it easy but why do people think that this fake reality will continue to the real world? your experences?