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Nov 2, 2008 12:07 PM CST Guy says something that's a mood killer....
MysticalUnicorn
MysticalUnicornMysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada26 Threads 1 Polls 259 Posts
So you've never had sex with a guy yet.And you're kissin him softly/slowly....down his body. Rubbing him gently, basically being sweet & taking you're time.........then in the heat of the moment he says "I really want to f*** you right now......." and you're mood is lost....... happened to me last night. His comment actually hurt. I haven't said anything about it though. It just made it feel so much like...."f***ing" or "casual" type sex, and I never done that & don't want to be that. He could of got to go all the way with me, yet, he opened his mouth........now I guess we wait longer until I get more 'feeling' about it.
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Nov 2, 2008 12:11 PM CST Guy says something that's a mood killer....
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
Don't blame you...and that would be a turn off for me, too, if I wanted (and especially, was giving) more than fu**ing. Yes, it would hurt...a lot.


hug
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Nov 2, 2008 1:33 PM CST Guy says something that's a mood killer....
letitroll
letitrollletitrollphoenix, Arizona USA23 Threads 4 Polls 464 Posts
MysticalUnicorn: So you've never had sex with a guy yet.And you're kissin him softly/slowly....down his body. Rubbing him gently, basically being sweet & taking you're time.........then in the heat of the moment he says "I really want to f*** you right now......." and you're mood is lost....... happened to me last night. His comment actually hurt. I haven't said anything about it though. It just made it feel so much like...."f***ing" or "casual" type sex, and I never done that & don't want to be that. He could of got to go all the way with me, yet, he opened his mouth........now I guess we wait longer until I get more 'feeling' about it.



Wow...... maybe you might want to rethink this guy......

JMO
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Nov 2, 2008 3:27 PM CST Guy says something that's a mood killer....
MysticalUnicorn
MysticalUnicornMysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada26 Threads 1 Polls 259 Posts
His reply was he thought it was what I wanted to hear to let me know I was turning him on, that he didn't mean for it to offend me. He still doesn't "get it". Why it bothered me, but at least he knows it did.
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Nov 2, 2008 3:31 PM CST Guy says something that's a mood killer....
tgwstw
tgwstwtgwstwCork, Ireland132 Threads 6 Polls 6,544 Posts
That's not too bad, at least you know that he wanted you....

Just wait til you are ready and you should be upfront and honest about it. That was next time he will keep his mouth shut and appreciate that you are bestowing all this loveliness upon him.
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Nov 2, 2008 4:10 PM CST Guy says something that's a mood killer....
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK72 Threads 1 Polls 18,570 Posts
MysticalUnicorn: So you've never had sex with a guy yet.And you're kissin him softly/slowly....down his body. Rubbing him gently, basically being sweet & taking you're time.........then in the heat of the moment he says "I really want to f*** you right now......." and you're mood is lost....... happened to me last night. His comment actually hurt. I haven't said anything about it though. It just made it feel so much like...."f***ing" or "casual" type sex, and I never done that & don't want to be that. He could of got to go all the way with me, yet, he opened his mouth........now I guess we wait longer until I get more 'feeling' about it.



Shame....wink
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Nov 2, 2008 4:12 PM CST Guy says something that's a mood killer....
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
MysticalUnicorn: His reply was he thought it was what I wanted to hear to let me know I was turning him on, that he didn't mean for it to offend me. He still doesn't "get it". Why it bothered me, but at least he knows it did.


hug I do understand why he said it, though...and in that context it would be fine later in the relationship. Still a bad blunder that early on...and some guys never get it.

hug
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