Guy says something that's a mood killer.... (7)
MysticalUnicornHamilton, Ontario Canada26 Threads 1 Polls 259 PostsSo you've never had sex with a guy yet.And you're kissin him softly/slowly....down his body. Rubbing him gently, basically being sweet & taking you're time.........then in the heat of the moment he says "I really want to f*** you right now......." and you're mood is lost....... happened to me last night. His comment actually hurt. I haven't said anything about it though. It just made it feel so much like...."f***ing" or "casual" type sex, and I never done that & don't want to be that. He could of got to go all the way with me, yet, he opened his mouth........now I guess we wait longer until I get more 'feeling' about it.
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Don't blame you...and that would be a turn off for me, too, if I wanted (and especially, was giving) more than fu**ing. Yes, it would hurt...a lot.
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MysticalUnicorn: So you've never had sex with a guy yet.And you're kissin him softly/slowly....down his body. Rubbing him gently, basically being sweet & taking you're time.........then in the heat of the moment he says "I really want to f*** you right now......." and you're mood is lost....... happened to me last night. His comment actually hurt. I haven't said anything about it though. It just made it feel so much like...."f***ing" or "casual" type sex, and I never done that & don't want to be that. He could of got to go all the way with me, yet, he opened his mouth........now I guess we wait longer until I get more 'feeling' about it.
Wow...... maybe you might want to rethink this guy......
JMO
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His reply was he thought it was what I wanted to hear to let me know I was turning him on, that he didn't mean for it to offend me. He still doesn't "get it". Why it bothered me, but at least he knows it did.
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That's not too bad, at least you know that he wanted you....
Just wait til you are ready and you should be upfront and honest about it. That was next time he will keep his mouth shut and appreciate that you are bestowing all this loveliness upon him.
Just wait til you are ready and you should be upfront and honest about it. That was next time he will keep his mouth shut and appreciate that you are bestowing all this loveliness upon him.
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MysticalUnicorn: So you've never had sex with a guy yet.And you're kissin him softly/slowly....down his body. Rubbing him gently, basically being sweet & taking you're time.........then in the heat of the moment he says "I really want to f*** you right now......." and you're mood is lost....... happened to me last night. His comment actually hurt. I haven't said anything about it though. It just made it feel so much like...."f***ing" or "casual" type sex, and I never done that & don't want to be that. He could of got to go all the way with me, yet, he opened his mouth........now I guess we wait longer until I get more 'feeling' about it.
Shame....
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MysticalUnicorn: His reply was he thought it was what I wanted to hear to let me know I was turning him on, that he didn't mean for it to offend me. He still doesn't "get it". Why it bothered me, but at least he knows it did.
I do understand why he said it, though...and in that context it would be fine later in the relationship. Still a bad blunder that early on...and some guys never get it.------ This thread is Archived ------
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