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Nov 3, 2008 5:19 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA60 Threads 2 Polls 1,343 Posts
So, if you have been around here the last few weeks, I have shared my story. My wife was a slut and slept with a neighbor in my bed. I divorced her pronto.

I get a letter from her a minute ago apologizing to me for what she did to me and that she is a sex addict, and the first step her shrink or whatever he is told her she should do is apologize to those she has hurt.

Why do I care at this point? She sure as hell wasn't a sex addict when we were married or dating for 7 years.

Sorry, just needed to vent.
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Nov 3, 2008 5:22 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
Ambrose2007
Ambrose2007Ambrose2007BFE, South Dakota USA110 Threads 17 Polls 14,069 Posts
DazzleYou: So, if you have been around here the last few weeks, I have shared my story. My wife was a slut and slept with a neighbor in my bed. I divorced her pronto.

I get a letter from her a minute ago apologizing to me for what she did to me and that she is a sex addict, and the first step her shrink or whatever he is told her she should do is apologize to those she has hurt.

Why do I care at this point? She sure as hell wasn't a sex addict when we were married or dating for 7 years.

Sorry, just needed to vent.


Yeah...all you need to do is come up with a technical-sounding name for anything you do wrong, and everything's okay.

Still - it's too her credit that she apologized to you (though the ultimate good apology would involve reducing her property claims on you!!)wave comfort
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Nov 3, 2008 5:23 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
sweetowen
sweetowensweetowenSomewhere, Pennsylvania USA344 Threads 5 Polls 11,456 Posts
There are things that we don't even realize about ourselves until later. Maybe she thought she was normal until it started happening more & more. And maybe the way she dealt with it then, as compared to now, is different. She may have been able to keep a lid on it for a while... or at least hide it. I would think it's like any other addiction, whereas you're able to hide your addiction until it just takes you over & you lose control.
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Nov 3, 2008 5:23 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
DazzleYou: So, if you have been around here the last few weeks, I have shared my story. My wife was a slut and slept with a neighbor in my bed. I divorced her pronto.

I get a letter from her a minute ago apologizing to me for what she did to me and that she is a sex addict, and the first step her shrink or whatever he is told her she should do is apologize to those she has hurt.

Why do I care at this point? She sure as hell wasn't a sex addict when we were married or dating for 7 years.

Sorry, just needed to vent.


She didn't do it for you Dave, she had to do it for herself..

My last EX did the same thing, I have love "for her", I would help her in any way I could. I have NO desire to have her back in my life..cheers

BTW, making those direct wherever possible is step 9..wink The 1st step is admitting you have a problem...sigh
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Nov 3, 2008 5:24 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
DazzleYou: So, if you have been around here the last few weeks, I have shared my story. My wife was a slut and slept with a neighbor in my bed. I divorced her pronto.

I get a letter from her a minute ago apologizing to me for what she did to me and that she is a sex addict, and the first step her shrink or whatever he is told her she should do is apologize to those she has hurt.

Why do I care at this point? She sure as hell wasn't a sex addict when we were married or dating for 7 years.

Sorry, just needed to vent.
comfort laugh Sorry to laugh , sounds like she is trying to make an excuse now.wink I wouldn't let it bother me and just Move on, you already know what she is comfort You happen to know her better than the therapist.thumbs up
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Nov 3, 2008 5:26 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland31 Threads 2 Polls 17,895 Posts
DazzleYou: So, if you have been around here the last few weeks, I have shared my story. My wife was a slut and slept with a neighbor in my bed. I divorced her pronto.

I get a letter from her a minute ago apologizing to me for what she did to me and that she is a sex addict, and the first step her shrink or whatever he is told her she should do is apologize to those she has hurt.

Why do I care at this point? She sure as hell wasn't a sex addict when we were married or dating for 7 years.Sorry, just needed to vent.


She's probably lying. giggle
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Nov 3, 2008 5:27 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA60 Threads 2 Polls 1,343 Posts
fortunately she has no property claim and I pay no spousal support. She screwed up - literally....we don't have kids. So we split the property we bought together and that was it.

I can't imagine going through a divorce with kids involved.

As far as helping her out, I am not at that stage where I can do that. An earlier thread about what if your ex came to your apartment tells the tale - I would booby trap my apartment and the parking lot, and the entrance, in the hopes of stopping her from ever getting this far.
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Nov 3, 2008 5:32 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada141 Threads 8 Polls 10,411 Posts
DazzleYou: So, if you have been around here the last few weeks, I have shared my story. My wife was a slut and slept with a neighbor in my bed. I divorced her pronto.

I get a letter from her a minute ago apologizing to me for what she did to me and that she is a sex addict, and the first step her shrink or whatever he is told her she should do is apologize to those she has hurt.

Why do I care at this point? She sure as hell wasn't a sex addict when we were married or dating for 7 years.

Sorry, just needed to vent.


confused Oh I've been through that, I told her to tell her shrink that I was boning his wife and I'm sorry too...
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Nov 3, 2008 5:34 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia77 Threads 1 Polls 26,530 Posts
BnaturAl: Oh I've been through that, I told her to tell her shrink that I was boning his wife and I'm sorry too...
jaw drop laugh laugh wave
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Nov 3, 2008 5:35 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
mike69spain
mike69spainmike69spainAlmuñécar, Andalusia Spain41 Threads 6 Polls 5,508 Posts
Thinking loud here...

Did she have that therapist before the divorce, if not, did she seek counselling because of her error or just in general?

For some it is quite a step to see a shrink and she could be seriously troubled by her mistake.

Not something I think you worry about, anyway, just a reflection.
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Nov 3, 2008 5:37 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada141 Threads 8 Polls 10,411 Posts
sxc666: jaw drop


Tina!!! kiss smitten :pantsdroppingicon:



yay wave
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Nov 3, 2008 5:38 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
HJFinAZ: She didn't do it for you Dave, she had to do it for herself..

My last EX did the same thing, I have love "for her", I would help her in any way I could. I have NO desire to have her back in my life..

BTW, making those direct wherever possible is step 9.. The 1st step is admitting you have a problem...
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Nov 3, 2008 5:38 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
DazzleYou
DazzleYouDazzleYouSeattle, WA, Washington USA60 Threads 2 Polls 1,343 Posts
I think she screwed up 2 more relationships after mine and someone suggested she get help.........at least I know of 2 other dudes she was with, could be more for all I know.

I am just glad I don't have any VDs from her.
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Nov 3, 2008 5:39 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
lavender84
lavender84lavender84S. Venera, Majjistral Malta18 Threads 229 Posts
I`m pretty sure u deserve better then her ... good luck!
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Nov 3, 2008 5:40 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
DazzleYou: So, if you have been around here the last few weeks, I have shared my story. My wife was a slut and slept with a neighbor in my bed. I divorced her pronto.

I get a letter from her a minute ago apologizing to me for what she did to me and that she is a sex addict, and the first step her shrink or whatever he is told her she should do is apologize to those she has hurt.

Why do I care at this point? She sure as hell wasn't a sex addict when we were married or dating for 7 years.

Sorry, just needed to vent.


hug
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Nov 3, 2008 5:43 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
scorpiosiren
scorpiosirenscorpiosirendrogheda, Louth Ireland35 Threads 1 Polls 1,943 Posts
well if she wasnt a sex addict when she was married i doubt she is now.
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Nov 3, 2008 5:45 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
PietroPaoloV
PietroPaoloVPietroPaoloVGöteborg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden113 Threads 5 Polls 1,509 Posts
DazzleYou: So, if you have been around here the last few weeks, I have shared my story. My wife was a slut and slept with a neighbor in my bed. I divorced her pronto.

I get a letter from her a minute ago apologizing to me for what she did to me and that she is a sex addict, and the first step her shrink or whatever he is told her she should do is apologize to those she has hurt.

Why do I care at this point? She sure as hell wasn't a sex addict when we were married or dating for 7 years.

Sorry, just needed to vent.


The only proper thing I can come up with here is.... f*ck HER!

But not the way a sex addict would want it.
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Nov 3, 2008 5:45 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland31 Threads 2 Polls 17,895 Posts
scorpiosiren: well if she wasnt a sex addict when she was married i doubt she is now.




Some talents develop, with the right nurturing and age.

angel
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Nov 3, 2008 5:46 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
DazzleYou: So, if you have been around here the last few weeks, I have shared my story. My wife was a slut and slept with a neighbor in my bed. I divorced her pronto.

I get a letter from her a minute ago apologizing to me for what she did to me and that she is a sex addict, and the first step her shrink or whatever he is told her she should do is apologize to those she has hurt.

Why do I care at this point? She sure as hell wasn't a sex addict when we were married or dating for 7 years.

Sorry, just needed to vent.





I am so sorry, you are hurting. I too have been cheated on. I have never cheated but I know the pain. I would help my ex if he needed help. But I will not go down that road with him again. I told him this when he called a few months ago to apologize, tell me he made a mistake and would I please let him have a final chance.

I said no we'd been down that road too many times and that I had met someone else. He was shocked, but I give him credit, he was very polite about it and wished me the best with my new guy.

I was in correspondence with a guy whom wanted to take it to the next level. We did not work out. I have since met another guy, whom I hope is the one.

comfort comfort comfort comfort handshake handshake handshake hug hug hug hug
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Nov 3, 2008 5:47 PM CST Nice - stupid Exwife.
BnaturAl
BnaturAlBnaturAlSarnia, Ontario Canada141 Threads 8 Polls 10,411 Posts
lusciousmile: Some talents develop, with the right nurturing and age.


can't tango alone.
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