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Nov 3, 2008 7:21 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
wikked
wikkedwikkedAjax, Ontario Canada818 Threads 5 Polls 8,426 Posts
Besides the most "obvious"...

What signs "convinced" you that you were in the right relationship for you...

What "convinced" you that you were in the wrong relationship...

As I said, there are the usual and obvious "red flags"...but were there other little things that perhaps no one else would have noticed but your instinct "convinced" you that it was a right/wrong relationship?
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Nov 3, 2008 7:23 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
Dknew
DknewDknewBarrington, New Hampshire USA319 Threads 14 Polls 9,166 Posts
wikked: Besides the most "obvious"...

What signs "convinced" you that you were in the right relationship for you...

What "convinced" you that you were in the wrong relationship...

As I said, there are the usual and obvious "red flags"...but were there other little things that perhaps no one else would have noticed but your instinct "convinced" you that it was a right/wrong relationship?



She told me I was in the wrong relationship dunno laugh
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Nov 3, 2008 7:25 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
In my last one it was more a feeling...or, the lack thereof. It was confirmed with our last two encounters, one in person and one email, that showed a total lack of respect for me.

My last right one, with my late husband...it was all of our talks, the feeling of anticipation that I would see him, and looking into his eyes and seeing a familiar soul. I fell in love with those eyes, his wit, and his intelligence...and everything else about him.

heart wings
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Nov 3, 2008 7:26 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA99 Threads 20,283 Posts
Dknew: She told me I was in the wrong relationship



laugh laugh Well, that's pretty convincing, D. hug
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Nov 3, 2008 7:28 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland31 Threads 2 Polls 17,895 Posts
wikked: Besides the most "obvious"...

What signs "convinced" you that you were in the right relationship for you...

What "convinced" you that you were in the wrong relationship...

As I said, there are the usual and obvious "red flags"...but were there other little things that perhaps no one else would have noticed but your instinct "convinced" you that it was a right/wrong relationship?



The minute i hear something that involves a lie, i move on! This has saved me a lot of pain, may times.

A person who lies or misleads, is not worth a second chance. The last guy i tried to date lied to me and we broke up a month after we started dating.

It was just stupid. I have no room for deception. NO WAY!


professor
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Nov 3, 2008 7:30 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
The person was acting different, enough for me to be suspicious and come out and ask him what's up. He wasn't as loving and sweet, even tho he tried to make me think everything was fine so he could still have sex with me, up till I asked anyway. Then I was told the truth.wink doh mumbling
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Nov 3, 2008 7:33 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
Kevint
KevintKevintWorcester, Home of the sauce, West Midlands, England UK13 Threads 727 Posts
wikked: Besides the most "obvious"...

What signs "convinced" you that you were in the right relationship for you...

What "convinced" you that you were in the wrong relationship...

As I said, there are the usual and obvious "red flags"...but were there other little things that perhaps no one else would have noticed but your instinct "convinced" you that it was a right/wrong relationship?


That would be when my wife informed me, she and my daughter were going on holiday to Disney world Florida.

With another man
doh
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Nov 3, 2008 7:33 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
I asked a few questions, about something that didn't make sense to me, just to clear-up any confusion & get some facts straight ... and he completely lost it ... flipped out.





Yikes.
uh oh







gotta go pointing



motorcycle
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Nov 3, 2008 7:42 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
gingerb
gingerbgingerbLetterkenny, Donegal Ireland10 Threads 1 Polls 6,330 Posts
Knowing myself is always the decider for me.

I know what I like and what I don't like, what I can put up with, and what I can't. That's it really. It's not about the other person at all.

If I were to go into a relationship, or stay in one, with things that were making me unhappy, then I would be no fun to be with, and two people would suffer, or there would be an urge there to change things..

I don't see that as being healthy.......doh
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Nov 3, 2008 7:47 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
samora77
samora77samora77Staten Island, New York USA46 Threads 724 Posts
When he said "take care of youself" something happened inside of me.
For a moment I could not breath.
uh oh
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Nov 3, 2008 7:48 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA298 Threads 31,072 Posts
samora77: When he said "take care of youself" something happened inside of me.
For a moment I could not breath.
comfort sad flower sad flower
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Nov 3, 2008 7:54 PM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
kamelia
kameliakameliaNegotino, Macedonia16 Threads 2 Polls 704 Posts
When the guy you are dating says:

We'll need to find you a great guy doh

I should go to Malta, I hear women there are very attractive uh oh

I am so happy to have you as my friend confused

Have I ever done anything to mislead you violin
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Nov 4, 2008 3:08 AM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
keytone
keytonekeytonePortland, Oregon USA39 Threads 3 Polls 2,180 Posts
kamelia: When the guy you are dating says:

We'll need to find you a great guy

I should go to Malta, I hear women there are very attractive

I am so happy to have you as my friend

Have I ever done anything to mislead you
awwwcomfort I hope they didnt say it!!
they must be insanedoh
you are so very beautifulhug kiss
;-}
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Nov 4, 2008 3:58 AM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
venere08
venere08venere08Puglia and Autumn, South Australia Australia147 Threads 2 Polls 14,452 Posts
wikked: Besides the most "obvious"...

What signs "convinced" you that you were in the right relationship for you...

What "convinced" you that you were in the wrong relationship...

As I said, there are the usual and obvious "red flags"...


Except that sometimes, looking back, some of the 'usual and obvious red flags" weren't so obvious at all.

Because at the time, we didn't want to see them. Being in love sometimes makes us color blind sigh
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Nov 4, 2008 4:36 AM CST It Takes Some Convincing....
nfowler
nfowlernfowlernowhere, Washington USA97 Threads 3,240 Posts
for me it was when she boiled the bunnies...I think I have seen that movie











stupid....her.....voicesmumbling
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