Wantedman: I'm wondering why "taken" people are still on a singles dating website?
Because they're welcomed here by their friends who don't want them to leave just because they found happiness.
This is different from most dating sites in the fact that it has these forums where we make friends along the way...so, a lot of them tend to stay. I like it because it gives the rest of us hope when we see success stories. You don't get that at other sites...nor do you get the chance to see how they still talk lovingly about their partners after years together.
shipoker58: What if he wants to..well...you know!!
Nope. We've already discussed that, and I have my sons this weekend too, so he's staying in the guest room. We already decided that if it's going to be we want it for the long haul, so that can wait. This weekend is to spend time together and meet in person. Friday is just us, then Saturday with my sons, and then my younger son's girlfriend is also joining us and I get to meet her for the first time...so I've got a house-full planned!
Sheesh, if he and I survive all of that, we've got it made!
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I've been there done that
Save your self some time and figure it out sooner then later..
If he freaks out and never talks to you again, I am sure it will be his loss and you will be "taken" by another worthy man pretty soon