you want to get married,but your partner dont wan children (60)
Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 PostsIf it was a card that nature dealt then fine... but if not, i.e. different intentions... then nope... sadly no.... think you would just end up resenting that person... 
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kamelia: If I am determined I want to have kids and he doesn't want any I would have to say...
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I have a 3 year old, would that be ok
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First of all i`m sure that a couple before starting to stay together has to talk about important things not just about stupid stuff... for example i think is normal that before starting a relationship that can maybe lead to a wedding or to a living together, u ask your partner if he wants ids or no... cause for a reason like this a relationship can be damaged. I mean if u know that that man doesnt want kids at all go away from him if you always desidered to be a mum... in fact i would never even start a relationship with someone who doesn`t want kids at all!
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I know 2 couples with this situation.
First, a former coworker had an emergency hysterectomy when she was 17. Her husband would love kids, but loves her no matter what, and they spend alot of time with nieces and nephews.
Another friend of mine (who's 26), on the other hand, can have children, but states she absolutely never wants any. She's very high maintenance and only likes kids who are related to her or her friends. Her husband wants kids, though, but married her anyway knowing this. He seems to think she'll change her mind someday.
Personally, I love kids and would love to have a bunch of little ones running around someday. (It's kinda natural in my family ) If my partner already had kids and didn't want anymore, that would be fine too. Children are a gift, no matter how we receive them.
First, a former coworker had an emergency hysterectomy when she was 17. Her husband would love kids, but loves her no matter what, and they spend alot of time with nieces and nephews.
Another friend of mine (who's 26), on the other hand, can have children, but states she absolutely never wants any. She's very high maintenance and only likes kids who are related to her or her friends. Her husband wants kids, though, but married her anyway knowing this. He seems to think she'll change her mind someday.
Personally, I love kids and would love to have a bunch of little ones running around someday. (It's kinda natural in my family
) If my partner already had kids and didn't want anymore, that would be fine too. Children are a gift, no matter how we receive them.------ This thread is Archived ------
I would still marry him if he didnt want children. As long as he accepts the child I do have.
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hollysaffron: will you stay together......
For me, that's not an issue, unless he really doesn't like kids of any age. I have had mine, and don't want more. However, he'd better be able to get along with teenage boys.
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"you want to get married,but your partner dont wan children"
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hollysaffron: will you stay together......
If I'm at the point to where I want to marry someone, I've already accepted them for who they are....So, it wouldn't be a problem w/ me.
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lusciousmile: NOPE! Unless he can't .
Me too.. .Hiya sweetie
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depending on situtation,I was never blessed that way tryed invetro...3 times....medical problems but I hope that wouldnt be a problem if I were in love.....my love should be enough you can always adopt.....or have pets......mine are the light of my life....
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hollysaffron: will you stay together......
NO......but I wouldn't even consider a relationship with a woman that wants or has children at home. Nor would I enter into a relationship with a woman that doesn't want children
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hollysaffron: will you stay together......
Yes
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Ambrose2007: Okay, Mark...I don't mean to be cruel here...but how is that worked out for you so far? Just recalling your personal relationship tragedies, they seem closely related to not looking into the future and the view that "I would marry the woman to whom I've given my heart regardless of what obstacles may or may not be perceived"?
Aren't there some obstacles which it is wise to perceive and to acknowledge they may in fact prove "disastrous"? I think it's a prescription for disaster to ignore obstacles and warning signs myself.
Aren't there some obstacles which it is wise to perceive and to acknowledge they may in fact prove "disastrous"? I think it's a prescription for disaster to ignore obstacles and warning signs myself.
very well said!!
you don't ignore something you want... if you really wanted children and your partner did not want any then I think it unwise to marry that person because in the end you will be wanting kids, he will not want and you would still be both unhappy!!!
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hollysaffron: will you stay together......
If its love you both share for one another....then trusting each others desire to make the other happy should be your mantra.
afterall how often do 2 people come to the recognition that they love each other at the exact same time.
just as marriage is a big decision and commitment so too is deciding to raise/have children.
if you love her then trust that your love will sway her in time about having children.
as most will say marriage is a gamble regardless of how 2 feel for one another at the time of marriage.
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It would depend on a few things I think.....like how awesome he is....whether he's worth that type of sacrifice and certainly how much I care for him; you may love or you may not love another that much
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Nope,even though i love him and i want to get married but unless he dont want children .i want to get married coz i want to have my own family futured and someone call me mom and that child its really from my womb as well.couple without children is boring.
and that child its really from my womb as well.couple without children is boring.------ This thread is Archived ------
It wouldn't matter to me whether he wanted kids or not I'd still want to be with him.
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Marillynslife: Nope,even though i love him and i want to get married but unless he dont want children .i want to get married coz i want to have my own family futured and someone call me mom and that child its really from my womb as well.couple without children is boring.
couples without children boring? I think your wrong there!------ This thread is Archived ------
catwomen64: couples without children boring? I think your wrong there!
dear catwoman64,i agree with you.two people are together becouse of love not becouse of children. ------ This thread is Archived ------
hollysaffron: dear catwoman64,i agree with you.two people are together becouse of love not becouse of children.
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