You are the one! (25)

Nov 10, 2008 1:00 PM CST You are the one!
As an adult male, have you ever thought why you? You could be the one? What stop you from pursuing this dream?
Nov 10, 2008 2:07 PM CST You are the one!
phoenix
phoenixphoenixparis, Ile-de-France France81 Threads 4 Polls 3,669 Posts
mychelle: As an adult male, have you ever thought why you? You could be the one? What stop you from pursuing this dream?


I don't understand the question...bouquet
Nov 10, 2008 2:23 PM CST You are the one!
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mychelle: As an adult male, have you ever thought why you? You could be the one? What stop you from pursuing this dream?




I don't get this one.... sorry.......................................
dunno ............confused


.......................................laugh ...................wave
Nov 10, 2008 2:26 PM CST You are the one!
mike1937
mike1937mike1937Broadstairs, Kent, England UK11 Threads 554 Posts
I don't get this one either
Nov 10, 2008 3:23 PM CST You are the one!
Have you thought that you were the one the lady was interested in, and second guess yourself , by asking why you?
Nov 10, 2008 3:35 PM CST You are the one!
My English not goodlaugh
Have you ever thought why you(why did she chose you) , while you were dating and if so why did this then prevent you from pursuing her.
Nov 10, 2008 3:42 PM CST You are the one!
While dating someone ages ago, he began to doubt that I was really interested in him, and questioned out loud if I really were interested in him. That doubt he had led me later to end the relationship. I am asking you if you as an adult male ever questioned while dating, why you, and did this questioning prevented you from pursuing the lady.
Nov 10, 2008 4:05 PM CST You are the one!
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
and second guess yourself , by asking why you?



Ok' Why.. am I.........dunno ............................laugh
Nov 10, 2008 4:20 PM CST You are the one!
laugh
Were you asking why you?laugh
Nov 10, 2008 4:23 PM CST You are the one!
uptall: and second guess yourself , by asking why you?

Ok' Why.. am I......... ............................
Seriously now, uptail, was there ever a doubt in your mind about someone you were dating, and did this lingering doubt led to your break up?
Nov 10, 2008 4:26 PM CST You are the one!
uptall
uptalluptallQuiet village..., Durham, England UK57 Threads 1 Polls 12,860 Posts
mychelle: Were you asking why you?



No i was asking...why i'm i WHAT (quote you ).....you dafty....laugh



........................................tongue .............wave
Nov 10, 2008 4:33 PM CST You are the one!
Are you suggesting I am stupid(dafty).
My English doesn't accept that.scold
Nov 10, 2008 4:36 PM CST You are the one!
mike1937
mike1937mike1937Broadstairs, Kent, England UK11 Threads 554 Posts
I was confused. Now I think I see something here and I may be wrong BUT

If psychotic questions *why me, etc * came at me after I had met and dated a woman more than a few times, I would say she was too far into amateur psychology, self- analysis and/or, had paranoiod and Narcissistic tendencies, leaning toward full NPD.
Nov 10, 2008 4:48 PM CST You are the one!
mike1937: I was confused. Now I think I see something here and I may be wrong BUT

If psychotic questions *why me, etc * came at me after I had met and dated a woman more than a few times, I would say she was too far into amateur psychology, self- analysis and/or, had paranoiod and Narcissistic tendencies, leaning toward full NPD.

People question things not necessarily because of any of these things you suggest but because they have self doubt. He may not have felt that he really deserve to be with her.
Nov 10, 2008 4:55 PM CST You are the one!
Seabiscuit
SeabiscuitSeabiscuitPlymouth, Devon, England UK60 Threads 1,644 Posts
mychelle: Have you thought that you were the one the lady was interested in, and second guess yourself , by asking why you?


Yep. Was with a really really attractive girl a while back and couldn't believe that I had bagged her (no self confidence, but shh don't tell anyone lol). Made the mistake of asking her quite often and think it pushed her away in the end..
Nov 10, 2008 5:01 PM CST You are the one!
Seabiscuit: Yep. Was with a really really attractive girl a while back and couldn't believe that I had bagged her (no self confidence, but shh don't tell anyone lol). Made the mistake of asking her quite often and think it pushed her away in the end..

I understand Seabuscuit, because I have been there. It's not the best of situation to be in, because when the relationship broke it was narrowed down to the other person's self doubt.
Nov 10, 2008 5:08 PM CST You are the one!
Seabiscuit
SeabiscuitSeabiscuitPlymouth, Devon, England UK60 Threads 1,644 Posts
mychelle: I understand Seabuscuit, because I have been there. It's not the best of situation to be in, because when the relationship broke it was narrowed down to the other person's self doubt.


Exactly why it didn't go any further with that girl.. My self doubt killed it.
Nov 10, 2008 5:15 PM CST You are the one!
uglysister
uglysisteruglysisterkilwinning, Strathclyde, Scotland UK3 Threads 623 Posts
Seabiscuit: Exactly why it didn't go any further with that girl.. My self doubt killed it.



dont we all suffer self doubt slightly even if we dont voice it.
Nov 10, 2008 5:18 PM CST You are the one!
Seabiscuit
SeabiscuitSeabiscuitPlymouth, Devon, England UK60 Threads 1,644 Posts
uglysister: dont we all suffer self doubt slightly even if we dont voice it.


We certainly do.. If people only new all my worries laugh
Nov 10, 2008 5:22 PM CST You are the one!
uglysister: dont we all suffer self doubt slightly even if we dont voice it.

When I am in love with a guy I never once doubt his love for me. The doubt comes about when he start questioning my feelings for him, then I am out of there....gone for good.laugh
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