What Do You Think, Peeps?? ( Archived) (24)

I have met someone.........

He has asked to see me again.... yeah, I know!! He mustn't have had his contacts in.... and all that??!!


He's making all these plans and decided that our next date was too far away and wanted to see me sooner (good sign, I guess?). We have chatted for hours several times on the 'phone. The last call, his voicemail kicked in, I was in the middle of leaving a message and he quickly jumped on the 'phone when he heard it was me....

We have arranged a sooner meeting and he seems quite keen. In fact, I would say he is going quicker than me (and calls me cute names).... I'm not sure I want to be rushed into anything too soon.

I met him via another site and, although I have noticed he is online a lot less than he was.... he was online, albeit briefly, tonight! I am under no illusions that men like to keep their options open and I don't believe we are at the stage to declare "exclusivity" just yet, but....

I am trying not to analyse too much, of course, but. I am mindful of past Players, should I think I am being taken for a ride?

A male perspective would be most helpful, without doubt...... but welcome all viewpoints.

Thanks, peeps!!

I can only say I hope not, sweetie. You're a great woman from what I've seen on here...smart and funny...and deserve happiness, not a player.

I hope it's innocent, and that it all turns out right for you.

well why wouldn't he like to get to know you A.
most men would !
go for it ,
you have brains to burn and your gutt will be your guide ,

have a gr8 time ,
enjoy

If a girl tells a guy "I don’t want to rush things" - then the guy thinks: "She's not really interested in me".

It would have been better if she opened with: "I am easily drawn into romantic dreams but it has hurt me before and I am afraid I will get scared if it happens to fast again. Could you help me take this bit by bit and I will be forever grateful to you."

If he ignores this request, I would recommend you to be very careful. It is honest, sincere and shows interest, if that is not enough to him, he is not really caring about your feelings.

If you are interested, that is. Are you?

Good morning, btw

First of all, I do hope for the best for you, I truly do.

But the only thing I can say about him being online and you noticing that.....well, dear Rose....in order for you to have found him there, you had to be there, too. He might indeed be wondering the same about you.
These things are very delicate and tricky. I would forget it and let time prove his feelings for you (and vice-versa). If your relationship grows and you begin to build something special together, then you should both talk about these sites and what you will or won't do on them.

Take care and I wish you well!

What do you want, Blood?

Use the thing above your shoulders to work out if hes worth it, and if you feel he isn't you might be write, or wrong.....but there's only one way to find out.

And that's spend time with him.

Failing that, get drunk and make a specticle of yourself in the high street with a road cone on your head.

Ah...another good example of "she says/he hears"...why can't men just learn that maybe, just maybe a woman actually means what she says? You guys tell us that you do.

Hello, well it's a hard balance act to manage but I think(and there ,probably, starts the problem) that you have to keep in mind the downside(scammer/scoundrel/woo-hooie or whatever) and remain calm and do not put that onto him either. Let it develop, you know what red flags look like, and you know what grey areas there can be around red flags.

I wish you both well & good luck.

















SHANTI

Yep.


Beats a green fleecy hat, bud!!!