Ok, soft moment, but be gentle eh? ( Archived) (18)

Ok, I am hoping a few of you have gotten to know me enough that I am not the softie type on here LOL. However, I am finally gonna break down and ask for some advice.


There is a girl on here, who actually, was the reason I even signed up in the first place. The way she looks, the way she states what she is and what she wants, is EXACTLY what I have been looking for. I mean to the damn T. Sure, she may wind up being some pshyco hose beast or something, but from what I have been able to read so far, she is it.

I have re read her profile a hundred times over, and her face occupies my thoughts almost all night while I am driving. This has NOT happened before. So I have no clue what action to take. She hasn't been on in over a month and I don't want to send more than the 1 email I have.

Hell she may wind up coming back and thinking I am some nasty gross slob.

SO here is the deal, put yourself in my shoes, and tell me what you would do at this point.

I have never been obsessive or such, but this has me going buggy.

For god sake man what are you waiting for, make contact!! Send her a flower ...something!!

Have you e-mailed her on here all you can do it try i mean if you dont ask yu never know and will always wonder

Oh dear, if she has opened your message and not replied, have to say perhaps you should move on.
Maybe she has meet her dream and gone forever!
If you are that gone on her, maybe send one flower and then, you will have to get a grip and move on yourself.
Some things are not meant to be, but good luck anyway.

I have emailed her. She was the first one I emailed after I signed up. I don't want to present myself as obsessed (which I may be at this point) or stalking. The trouble I am having is she hasn't been on. She may have gave up or, in worst case, found someone. So hell, I dunno what to do at this point. Other than drool like some damn bulldog over a meat bone LOL.

check the outbox and see if she opened your mail?

so start stalking someone else hehehehehehe

if she has read ur email and not replied.. then she prob. issnt interested.. if she just hasnt been on she might not be looking anymore or doesnt have access to the internet.. but you can only wait so long..best wishes to you

The "on-line over 1 month" chances look mighty slim.

Check your outbox to see if the letter was read and if so, take heed in the advice others have offered and start thinking about eggs in another basket....