How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ?? ( Archived) (30)

Nov 23, 2008 6:40 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
samora77
samora77samora77Staten Island, New York USA39 Threads 543 Posts
The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day.rose Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- hug hug kiss kiss kiss I want them back.
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Nov 23, 2008 6:45 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
mbcasey
mbcaseymbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA68 Threads 7 Polls 16,449 Posts
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.


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Nov 23, 2008 6:49 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
kkitty4u
kkitty4ukkitty4uSt Paul, Minnesota USA24 Threads 3 Polls 1,138 Posts
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.
I know just how you feel, my Dad died the day after Easter and there is not a day that goes by when I don't miss him, If this helps any I always tell him I love him and miss him and then I think about how he would want me to handle him being gone and I know that he would want the absolute best for me and would never want me to feel pain so I always tell him that I will remember him always and continue to live life to the fullest until the end of my journey teddybear
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Nov 23, 2008 6:51 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
kkitty4u: I know just how you feel, my Dad died the day after Easter and there is not a day that goes by when I don't miss him, If this helps any I always tell him I love him and miss him and then I think about how he would want me to handle him being gone and I know that he would want the absolute best for me and would never want me to feel pain so I always tell him that I will remember him always and continue to live life to the fullest until the end of my journey


Exactly..thumbs up As for mom??dunno I know the day is growing nearer but those are shoes I have yet to walk in..
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Nov 23, 2008 6:59 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
samora77
samora77samora77Staten Island, New York USA39 Threads 543 Posts
KKitty4U- Thank's , I try to do what you do, but her hug hug were mmmm, especialy the one's she would give me when she new I was sad.

mbcasey --Thank you -- you're very sweet.

The way she held my face in her hands and lips my nose.
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Nov 23, 2008 7:04 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
cdj1213
cdj1213cdj1213butler, Georgia USA4 Threads 104 Posts
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.

I understand your grief I lost both of my parents before I was 30 but it is my mother that I miss the most. The holidays seem to be the toughest because she was the one who made them special. I try to remember the good times we had and keep that in my heart as I try to make it thru the sadness. Just remember you are not alone she is still with you. Hope you feel better.
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Nov 23, 2008 7:06 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
jvaski
jvaskijvaskiunknown, California USA115 Threads 11 Polls 9,576 Posts
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.


SAM , I know how you are feeling .......... my pop just passed away this July . Gonna be very sad having everyone at the table but him .........
I think ya just have to try to remember the good things and funny quirks about your mon , as I will with my dad , and propose a toast to them for making our lives so much better .
I gotta stop there , it's still way to recent
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Nov 23, 2008 7:07 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
kkitty4u
kkitty4ukkitty4uSt Paul, Minnesota USA24 Threads 3 Polls 1,138 Posts
samora77: KKitty4U- Thank's , I try to do what you do, but her were mmmm, especialy the one's she would give me when she new I was sad.

mbcasey --Thank you -- you're very sweet.

The way she held my face in her hands and my nose.


you will always have her hugs, that why she gave them to you, to remember always and u can smile now when you think about it, she would want you to always feel that way hug hug and one from me 2 hug
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Nov 23, 2008 7:09 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
brokenspirit
brokenspiritbrokenspiritLittlespot, Nebraska USA41 Threads 603 Posts
My Mom passed away 5 years ago this month. I was holding her

hand and chatting with her. The pain is still there but I try to

replace it with good memories. Mom loved to watch us as a

family sit around and play cards and laugh. In fact the day she

passed we wheeled her up to the table at my sister's and she

played a couple games of Skip - Bo. Love you Mom, miss you

everyday.hug kiss
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Nov 23, 2008 7:19 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
jvaski: SAM , I know how you are feeling .......... my pop just passed away this July . Gonna be very sad having everyone at the table but him .........
I think ya just have to try to remember the good things and funny quirks about your mon , as I will with my dad , and propose a toast to them for making our lives so much better .
I gotta stop there , it's still way to recent




John & Sam I know are you both feel. My mom passed away on Valentines Day. Every holiday is sad for me without my dad as well but.. I do reminisce about the good times we had together and how they both held our family together.
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Nov 23, 2008 7:28 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
p_seg
p_segp_segCentral, Xlokk Malta340 Threads 4,497 Posts
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.

unfortunately, there's no simple answer to your question.

I lost both my parents, thus know what you're reeling. just keep them in your thoughts and prayers. there's nothing more that can be done. sigh sigh

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Nov 23, 2008 7:30 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
hug hug hug
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Nov 23, 2008 7:45 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
FreedomLover
FreedomLoverFreedomLoverEverett, Washington USA28 Threads 867 Posts
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.


I believe they are always with you and hear you. So just tell them you love them.
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Nov 23, 2008 8:06 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
My Mom passed away this pass July and I know she would want me to carry on best I can so I am.
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Nov 23, 2008 8:09 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
brokenspirit
brokenspiritbrokenspiritLittlespot, Nebraska USA41 Threads 603 Posts
mastic55: My Mom passed away this pass July and I know she would want me to carry on best I can so I am.




I am sorry to hear of your loss Mastic. hug kiss
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Nov 23, 2008 8:12 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
brokenspirit: I am sorry to hear of your loss Mastic.
Thank you so much,,day by day....thanks againhug
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Nov 23, 2008 8:16 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.
hug Love,Love for you hug teddybear
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Nov 23, 2008 8:43 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
druidess6308
druidess6308druidess6308Aliquippa, Pennsylvania USA79 Threads 13,695 Posts
I can't answer for the loss of your mom, Samora...I still have both of my parents. I lost my husband just over a year ago, though, and there are times it still hurts very much. It's getting better with time, but certain times of the year, and the holidays, are still tough.

I'm sorry about your loss. Hold onto the good memories you have, and know that she is still near you. comfort hug bouquet
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Nov 23, 2008 9:06 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
Evanese
EvaneseEvaneseLetha, Idaho USA1 Threads 101 Posts
I think of my parent's passing as being a transformation. They shed this life for a different
existence where I will understand better, later. I believe she wants you to be happy, fulfilled
and joyous while you are here. Blessings hug
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Nov 23, 2008 9:18 PM CST How Dose One Handle The Loss Of Their MOM ??
Skybow
SkybowSkybowapple valley, California USA4 Threads 1,146 Posts
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.


I'm so sorry for your loss and for all those here that have lost parents and loved ones. Some people you don't ever want to do without and when you just have to, it's their time to go, it leaves an huge hole in your life that no one else can really fill.

Some of the things I did and still do when I lost my wonderful dad in '90 is turn my life around. After I quit screaming Nooooo and crying out for him that is. I vowed to become a daughter he would be so proud of.

I quit messing around, thinking I had all the time in the world to grow up so I pretty much drifted from event to event. I realized I had right now to make a difference, right now to be awesome, right now to show my love.

Even today, I still give a nod to dad, I know he's watching, that he loves me and is proud of who I've become.


teddybear
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