The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.
mbcaseyNorth Myrtle Beach, South Carolina USA16,449 posts
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.
I know just how you feel, my Dad died the day after Easter and there is not a day that goes by when I don't miss him, If this helps any I always tell him I love him and miss him and then I think about how he would want me to handle him being gone and I know that he would want the absolute best for me and would never want me to feel pain so I always tell him that I will remember him always and continue to live life to the fullest until the end of my journey
kkitty4u: I know just how you feel, my Dad died the day after Easter and there is not a day that goes by when I don't miss him, If this helps any I always tell him I love him and miss him and then I think about how he would want me to handle him being gone and I know that he would want the absolute best for me and would never want me to feel pain so I always tell him that I will remember him always and continue to live life to the fullest until the end of my journey
Exactly.. As for mom?? I know the day is growing nearer but those are shoes I have yet to walk in..
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.
I understand your grief I lost both of my parents before I was 30 but it is my mother that I miss the most. The holidays seem to be the toughest because she was the one who made them special. I try to remember the good times we had and keep that in my heart as I try to make it thru the sadness. Just remember you are not alone she is still with you. Hope you feel better.
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.
SAM , I know how you are feeling .......... my pop just passed away this July . Gonna be very sad having everyone at the table but him ......... I think ya just have to try to remember the good things and funny quirks about your mon , as I will with my dad , and propose a toast to them for making our lives so much better . I gotta stop there , it's still way to recent
samora77: KKitty4U- Thank's , I try to do what you do, but her were mmmm, especialy the one's she would give me when she new I was sad.
mbcasey --Thank you -- you're very sweet.
The way she held my face in her hands and my nose.
you will always have her hugs, that why she gave them to you, to remember always and u can smile now when you think about it, she would want you to always feel that way and one from me 2
jvaski: SAM , I know how you are feeling .......... my pop just passed away this July . Gonna be very sad having everyone at the table but him ......... I think ya just have to try to remember the good things and funny quirks about your mon , as I will with my dad , and propose a toast to them for making our lives so much better . I gotta stop there , it's still way to recent
John & Sam I know are you both feel. My mom passed away on Valentines Day. Every holiday is sad for me without my dad as well but.. I do reminisce about the good times we had together and how they both held our family together.
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.
unfortunately, there's no simple answer to your question.
I lost both my parents, thus know what you're reeling. just keep them in your thoughts and prayers. there's nothing more that can be done.
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.
I believe they are always with you and hear you. So just tell them you love them.
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.
I can't answer for the loss of your mom, Samora...I still have both of my parents. I lost my husband just over a year ago, though, and there are times it still hurts very much. It's getting better with time, but certain times of the year, and the holidays, are still tough.
I'm sorry about your loss. Hold onto the good memories you have, and know that she is still near you.
I think of my parent's passing as being a transformation. They shed this life for a different existence where I will understand better, later. I believe she wants you to be happy, fulfilled and joyous while you are here. Blessings
samora77: The Monday before Thank's Giving is alway's tuff for me, since my Mom passed away --- so many year's ago, On that day. Oh I loved her so-- and I still miss her-- I want them back.
I'm so sorry for your loss and for all those here that have lost parents and loved ones. Some people you don't ever want to do without and when you just have to, it's their time to go, it leaves an huge hole in your life that no one else can really fill.
Some of the things I did and still do when I lost my wonderful dad in '90 is turn my life around. After I quit screaming Nooooo and crying out for him that is. I vowed to become a daughter he would be so proud of.
I quit messing around, thinking I had all the time in the world to grow up so I pretty much drifted from event to event. I realized I had right now to make a difference, right now to be awesome, right now to show my love.
Even today, I still give a nod to dad, I know he's watching, that he loves me and is proud of who I've become.
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