Friends With Benefits... (39)
Nope couldn't do it
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We just had a whole thread on this! Funny how that happens around here, though.
I've had such a relationship with one of my current buddies. We broke it off when I started dating someone and he developed an interest in somebody...and haven't resumed it. We're still good friends.
I think it's not for everyone, but if you have a friend that can do that with you and remain friends, and is in the same situation, then it's great. We did it without further emotional attachment because we knew exactly how we felt and what we were looking for at the time, and agreed that it would end if one of us got into a relationship. We were both recovering from losses, and it was a good stop-gap for us then.
I've had such a relationship with one of my current buddies. We broke it off when I started dating someone and he developed an interest in somebody...and haven't resumed it. We're still good friends.
I think it's not for everyone, but if you have a friend that can do that with you and remain friends, and is in the same situation, then it's great. We did it without further emotional attachment because we knew exactly how we felt and what we were looking for at the time, and agreed that it would end if one of us got into a relationship. We were both recovering from losses, and it was a good stop-gap for us then.
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druidess6308: We just had a whole thread on this! Funny how that happens around here, though.
I've had such a relationship with one of my current buddies. We broke it off when I started dating someone and he developed an interest in somebody...and haven't resumed it. We're still good friends.
I think it's not for everyone, but if you have a friend that can do that with you and remain friends, and is in the same situation, then it's great. We did it without further emotional attachment because we knew exactly how we felt and what we were looking for at the time, and agreed that it would end if one of us got into a relationship. We were both recovering from losses, and it was a good stop-gap for us then.
well...our you taking applications? where do i get one/??I've had such a relationship with one of my current buddies. We broke it off when I started dating someone and he developed an interest in somebody...and haven't resumed it. We're still good friends.
I think it's not for everyone, but if you have a friend that can do that with you and remain friends, and is in the same situation, then it's great. We did it without further emotional attachment because we knew exactly how we felt and what we were looking for at the time, and agreed that it would end if one of us got into a relationship. We were both recovering from losses, and it was a good stop-gap for us then.
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cardsfan24: well...our you taking applications? where do i get one/??
Thank you for the compliment. I'd have to already be friends with the person, though...as I was with him.
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druidess6308: Thank you for the compliment. I'd have to already be friends with the person, though...as I was with him.
Btw, Stewie...that was RL friends, not virtual friends.
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druidess6308: Thank you for the compliment. I'd have to already be friends with the person, though...as I was with him.
we aren't friends// dammit....always catches...oh well but i do think your a wonderful woman....------ This thread is Archived ------
druidess6308: Btw, Stewie...that was RL friends, not virtual friends. Thank you, though...you just made my night, dear.
well hun....ur cool as can be...and the guys better swoop you up cuz your a catch...
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All CON, no PRO. Maybe in my younger days--okay, in my younger days.
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cardsfan24: well hun....ur cool as can be...and the guys better swoop you up cuz your a catch...
Thank you very much, Stew.
I have faith that the right one will come along...when I'm ready. Thank you very much, Sweetie.------ This thread is Archived ------
Well Im currently taking applications for friends/with/benefits.. U can send your resume and/or cover letter to cardsfan24@connectingsingles.com.....
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Like any sane woman would have a friend with benefits, from Cs.
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pros....there is no commitment. no strings attached. you can just do whatever and leave when youre done whatever it is you chose to do.
cons..... emotional attachment. you can grow attached and the other person might not feel the same as you do. its easier to get burned.
my FWB experiences only ever involved making out though. i suppose there are diferent forms of FWB. i personally have only ever slep with one person and that is the man i am with now.
cons..... emotional attachment. you can grow attached and the other person might not feel the same as you do. its easier to get burned.
my FWB experiences only ever involved making out though. i suppose there are diferent forms of FWB. i personally have only ever slep with one person and that is the man i am with now.
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lusciousmile: Like any sane woman would have a friend with benefits, from Cs.
hey luscious!!!
love the new pic girly
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katiecharlyn: hey luscious!!! love the new pic girly
Hey, Katie!
Thanks, it's the shoes, that i love.
Nice to see you.
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Not happening.
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mylifewithu: Omg
hey!!!------ This thread is Archived ------
katiecharlyn: hey!!!
Hello Sweetie 
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If i was to pick one man from Cs, as a friend with benefits, i know who it would be. However, he has a really big mouth....which could be both good 
and bad for me.
No, not that one.
and bad for me. No, not that one.
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druidess6308: We just had a whole thread on this! Funny how that happens around here, though.
I've had such a relationship with one of my current buddies. We broke it off when I started dating someone and he developed an interest in somebody...and haven't resumed it. We're still good friends.
I think it's not for everyone, but if you have a friend that can do that with you and remain friends, and is in the same situation, then it's great. We did it without further emotional attachment because we knew exactly how we felt and what we were looking for at the time, and agreed that it would end if one of us got into a relationship. We were both recovering from losses, and it was a good stop-gap for us then.
I've had such a relationship with one of my current buddies. We broke it off when I started dating someone and he developed an interest in somebody...and haven't resumed it. We're still good friends.
I think it's not for everyone, but if you have a friend that can do that with you and remain friends, and is in the same situation, then it's great. We did it without further emotional attachment because we knew exactly how we felt and what we were looking for at the time, and agreed that it would end if one of us got into a relationship. We were both recovering from losses, and it was a good stop-gap for us then.
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